Ram/Priya - Who is right? - VB Note p.28 - Page 13

Originally posted by: kaushikbasu

Nope at least that does not appear to be the case as of now until and unless he is doing it purposely to show Priya how separation hurts when not consensual. But then she should have known better how hasty decisions affects other people when not all aspects are thought of before taking it. She knew Ram better than most she knew how he could go to extremes even for a small reason like missing his dad's death anniversary so she should have expected this from Ram and should have been prepared better to handle it. And yes, you are correct she did try to rectify him earlier for taking hasty decisions.

Originally posted by: Pinkjali

yup. That is the point ram is not giving a single chance to priya to clarify her decision.. He is only running behind the moments which he have lost in those 5 years and onething he is not considaring at all is that there will be many more precious moments in future that he will get to rejoice.. Are the 5 years have gone not matter who is the culprit it won't come back. So please dnt spoil the future..

Originally posted by: Anamika163

she did a mistake.. n she is accepting it.. wht else can she do?? she can't bring back those years na.. so in order to repent she will also stay away from her daughter for next 5 years lyk ram did?? isn't that childish??

Originally posted by: kaushikbasu

True but he is not getting any time to cool down. He is taking decisions on the heat of the moment. If he gets sometime to cool down things would go normal. He would soon realize that Peehu can't live without Priya only thing Priya has to do is to trust and Peehu would do the rest. Her dad said it correctly let Peehu go at this point and Ram would cool down sooner than later. More she is in a confrontational mode more he would be aggravated.

Originally posted by: Anamika163

he is digging his own grave.. he will get back this way or that.. his decision to get peehu as a form of punishing priya will fall heavy on him

Originally posted by: kaushikbasu

It will he is taking decision in a haste and as we all know any decision taken in haste has serious outfalls it is Priya's turn now, soon Ram would be face the brunt but I guess he would never learn.

BTW a very good discussion, got to leave for now.

Originally posted by: kaushikbasu

Not personally what I am saying is people are forgetting that unison decision hurts and people has to bear the outcome. People who takes decisions on whims and fancies more often than not has to learn the hard way of how others get affected by it. I guess now Priya is realizing to some extent what affect her decision had. BTW Ram has just shown her the papers of custody and might even go to the court for she has to understand what fear of loosing a near one means when decisions are taken by someone else of your life.

Originally posted by: -SakshisFan-

Am not sure why you are emphasizing Priya's decision to be one of Whims and Fancies.

As per the show, at the time when Priya made that decision, she weighted all options equally...she wrote in her diary that she is not sure she is making a right decision but at that point that sounded best for everyone...or should I say best for RAM. Tell me what was Priyas' benefit in not telling RAM abt her lonliness and abt their daughter. She struggled alone just so that Ram does not hv to live a dual life with wife in jail...a jail born daughter and wife still in jail after bearing a child...Would Ram be happy then ???

In Dubai, she had this instinct that she was wrong...but there was noone to guide her. A single young mother, struggling to make her both ends meet, struggling to give her daughter the decent life and fulfilling her small wishes like theme parks...do you think she was living life of a choice and making decisions of Whims and Fancies ??

As time passed by and she saw which her eyes how much a child needs a father, she wanted to tell Ram in the Dubai party. But seeing Ayesha and Kush ...realizing that they had a boy together...she again backed out in best interest of RAM. and Ram did look happy so what is Priya supposed to think if she does not know that its RaAys fake marriage.

Secondly what made you think that if Priya would be in Jail, Ayesha would have withdrawn her statement long back ?? Why ?? Ram could clear the case in 5 years so that means Pihu would hv born in jail...would Ram be happy with upbringing a baby alone in KM with his wife in Jail ?

More so , Priya accepted she made a mistake, she is suffering, she is ready to share Pihu with Ram...shared custody...

But Ram is hell bent on TIT for TAT...sole custody ??

so much for a Maturity of 45 yr old Top Businessman of the nation.

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