Tumhe koh kar kuch pane ka soch bhi nahi sakte hum - Page 5

Originally posted by: Opti

Thanks fuzzyface. I guess we need to give ourselves some explanation and find some method in this madness for our own sanity as the CVs are not going to close the loops they have opened up.

Originally posted by: Opti

Originally posted by: Rakhie_08

Bharti being shocked puzzled me. I had been expecting her to say to Murli that had you spoken to me straight away, all your fears would have been allayed. There is nothing wrong with me. I am as capable as any woman. Moreover had I felt any physical distress would I have persisted in wanting to be close to you?

But yes, they definitely need to show a few scenes to clarify whether Murli is over his fears and if he has decided to resume marital relations again.👍🏼

Originally posted by: Rakhie_08

Bharti being shocked puzzled me. I had been expecting her to say to Murli that had you spoken to me straight away, all your fears would have been allayed. There is nothing wrong with me. I am as capable as any woman. Moreover had I felt any physical distress would I have persisted in wanting to be close to you?

Well I can understand her shock. She could have thought that the doctor told Murli something later which she did not tell her, thinking that she may feel inadequate for her husband. So it is Murli's reaction which was puzzling, for he apparently thought that Bharti knew something that he did not, which is why he had sought the doctor's opinion. Now having revealed what he thought the doctor said, Bharti seems to have been in the dark till he brought it up. So this should have made him wonder whether the doctor really said what he thought she said, shouldn't it?

As to the physical distress part, from what they have shown it appears that it was the first time for both Murli and Bharti and the first time is almost always painful for the woman even if she is of normal height. In fact for some it could take quite a while before she is physically comfortable in this matter. So Bharti may not have given much thought to it even if she had felt some discomfort thinking it was normal. Now with Murli ascribing her discomfort to her height and telling her that the doctor herself said so, she would have no reason to doubt it. She does not know the doctor actually did not say what he said she did.

But yes, they definitely need to show a few scenes to clarify whether Murli is over his fears and if he has decided to resume marital relations again.👍🏼

Getting her pregnant at the first go is an indication to me they are not going to revisit this issue again. Lets see what they do.

Intimacy after one SR? Please whoever heard of such a thing!?😉

The way these shows depict this, anyone would be forgiven for thinking that all desi's make love once in their lifetime and bas! Khatam! And if intimacy to that level is never shown again, then intimacy during pregnancy doesn't stand a hells chance of being suggested let alone shown!

You are right. Intimacy is still a taboo subject especially in family dramas such as this one. They showed whatever they did in this show to highlight a just doubt that many may have in their mind in this area specially given the nature of the relationship but sadly they did not follow it through.

Originally posted by: Opti