Tumhe koh kar kuch pane ka soch bhi nahi sakte hum

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Murli loves her! So much, that the fear of losing her due to a possible complicated pregnancy is killing him.
Today, I felt overwhelming sympathy for both of them. Even though I believe Murli is being a complete prat with the way he is dealing with it, I can't deny that the man is in turmoil himself.
My heart ached for both of them. Murli feeling completely helpless and Bharti feeling rejected.
I hope that Bharti has the courage to take the bull by the horns and insist Murli tell her what is going.
The fact that this issue is being allowed to linger over their heads for so long is foolish on the part of CV's. Any real woman in Bharti's situation may think that if she ever wants to start a family, this is the kind of rejection and distant she will have to face.
And any real man in Murli's position may think that he has no choice but to keep his distance if he wants to protect his wife.
All this is fine. But CV's always seem to ignore the one key element in a relationship. Communication. It never happens, and when it does it is often too late.
BharLi have to be shown talking about this. This is what we in the real world do. And such an issue cannot be stretched any further just to prolong the drama.
Give BharLi a break CV's. They've barely got together and already you have created a wall between them. Surely after everything that they've both been through they deserved their share of happiness for longer than you've given them!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I 100% AGREE WITH YOU.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i second you totally. But the problem is, it's a hindi soap and here the things go like this only. BharLi will communicate about the issue only once a big problem arises in their relationship. it goes like this only in hindi soaps.🤔...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shipra_S

i second you totally. But the problem is, it's a hindi soap and here the things go like this only. BharLi will communicate about the issue only once a big problem arises in their relationship. it goes like this only in hindi soaps.🤔...

I know and it's maddening.
I've banged my head on a wall about this in every forum I've been a member of
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Murli loves her unconditionally. There is no doubt about that. It was an endearing moment between the two when he helped her to put the wish up by lifting her. He thinks that by keeping distance he does not have to face the inevitable question that Bharti will have for him. I think Bharti took the initiative by atleast letting him know several times (3 times now) what is in her mind. She being the way she is (sweet and timid) is not cornering him but that does not give Murli any right to ignore her or pull himself away from her. Talk to her and let her know what your fear is as opposed to abruptly pulling the hand and pushing her away and not making eye contact. She is already crumbling and confused based on his actions. Don't do this to her. I do feel sorry for both of them. They are both helpless in their own ways.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: kt25

Murli loves her unconditionally. There is no doubt about that. It was an endearing moment between the two when he helped her to put the wish up by lifting her. He thinks that by keeping distance he does not have to face the inevitable question that Bharti will have for him. I think Bharti took the initiative by atleast letting him know several times (3 times now) what is in her mind. She being the way she is (sweet and timid) is not cornering him but that does not give Murli any right to ignore her or pull himself away from her. Talk to her and let her know what your fear is as opposed to abruptly pulling the hand and pushing her away and not making eye contact. She is already crumbling and confused based on his actions. Don't do this to her. I do feel sorry for both of them. They are both helpless in their own ways.

Yes exactly. Talk. Talk for the love of God, talk! Why don't these people talk??
Talk! Talk ! Dammit talk!!! 😡😡😡😡😡
you know what? Bharti is going to have to stop being sweet!
I want her to give Murli a piece of her mind. Perhaps when he's trying to talk to her about something, she can turn around and blow up in his face! 😈
'Haan, talk when you want to talk about something, but not when I do. What's up with that??'
I also want her to tell him 'You think trying to become a mother is the ONLY reason I want to get close to you? There can't be any other reason?'
'Agar dobara hume tukdana tha, toh phir apnaya kyun???' (apologies for any grammatical errors. I'm not a hindi speaker 😆)
And I don't mean she should just speak up a little. I mean she needs to vent! That is probably the only way Murli is going to stop and listen to what she has to say!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rakhie_08


Yes exactly. Talk. Talk for the love of God, talk! Why don't these people talk??
Talk! Talk ! Dammit talk!!! 😡
you know what? Bharti is going to have to stop being sweet!
I want her to give Murli a piece of her mind. Perhaps when he's trying to talk to her about something, she can turn around and blow up in his face! 😈
'Haan, talk when you want to talk about something, but not when I do. What's up with that??'
I also want her to tell him 'You think trying to become a mother is the ONLY reason I want to get close to you? There can't be any other reason?'
'Agar dobara hume tukdana tha, toh phir apnaya kyun???' (apologies for any grammatical errors. I'm not a hindi speaker 😆)
And I don't mean she should just speak up a little. I mean she needs to vent! That is probably the only way Murli is going to stop and listen to what she has to say!




@kt25 AGREED ! (wish i could thumbs up your post !)

@Rakhie it would TRAUMATIZE him for days ! I'm craving to see it.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@kt25 AGREED ! (wish i could thumbs up your post !)

@Rakhie it would TRAUMATIZE him for days ! I'm craving to see it.

And that's why I'm dying to see it too! 😈 Mwahahahaha.
It's just the kind of short sharp shock Murli needs!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rakhie_08

And that's why I'm dying to see it too! 😈 Mwahahahaha.
It's just the kind of short sharp shock Murli needs!



I'm totally already imagining it ! Tomorrow in Dhumroo engagement, maybe Murli will try to dance with bharti but she'll ignore him (YES!) the same way he ignored her when she tried to dance with him (on neelam suggestion, don't remember the epi but it was so shocking to me that i'm still angry !)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: bavdfan


I'm totally already imagining it ! Tomorrow in Dhumroo engagement, maybe Murli will try to dance with bharti but she'll ignore him (YES!) the same way he ignored her when she tried to dance with him (on neelam suggestion, don't remember the epi but it was so shocking to me that i'm still angry !)

The more I think about it, the more I want to see it happen!
I'm not trying to be mean and I'm not trying to torture Murli, but Bharti needs to be the one to take this on head on, as her husband seems to be running scared.😕

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