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Posted: 14 years ago


i will just sit back, relax and watch now...BAVD is my second indian show and i have learnt this golden rule for myself...i have shown my utter displeasure over murli's plain stupidity, but this is his life.
he is just assuming things, and if he wants to remain ignorant and stupid, that is his choice. if he wants to create an unnecessary rift, that is his choice...
but we all know now that it is just a pretext for a bigger divide that the great cvs plan to show us. it is just a build up to the main issue, ie bharti's pregnancy and related complications...
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: hashbrown



i will just sit back, relax and watch now...BAVD is my second indian show and i have learnt this golden rule for myself...i have shown my utter displeasure over murli's plain stupidity, but this is his life.
he is just assuming things, and if he wants to remain ignorant and stupid, that is his choice. if he wants to create an unnecessary rift, that is his choice...
but we all know now that it is just a pretext for a bigger divide that the great cvs plan to show us. it is just a build up to the main issue, ie bharti's pregnancy and related complications...

Indeed. And in all honesty the build up wasn't needed at all. If Bharti's going to have complications in her pregnancy, then that in itself would have given CV's plenty of meat to get their teeth into. We didn't need this completely faltu, futile and OTT pretext.
We expect sense and logic and rationale when watching these shows, but we very rarely get it. Desi serials don't believe that it is possible to create good drama even following these things. If it's not stupid enough, illogical enough, unreasonable enough then it ain't a good idea as far as CV's are concerened. We shouldn't expect logic etc.
We viewers never learn. They're not the fools. We are
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Posted: 14 years ago

just saw today's episode...was not a very great episode, except the last part.
it was a real pati/patni scene between bharti and murli...and Good Lord, i have to admit murli was really forceful as husband today, and poor bharti...i felt, she is a pretty helpless woman when it comes to her husband. he really exerts himself in pretty much every matter, be it family or making love to his wife. he does things for his liking, whenever and what ever suits him.

i like forceful husbands, but i like convincing and logical wives too...a woman has to move around the personality of her husband. at the same time, knowing how to handle her husband.
i think bharti was under the influence of mirdang's grievances. he was quite ok for explaining his side of the story...in the end, bharti was torn between her husband's wishes and her own reasoning that mirdala should not leave the house because of the new arrival in the family.

i personally think that murli didn't solve the problem. bharti had confided in him, so there should have been a plan. murli just blasted off every body, making bharti look like a selfish person..


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Posted: 14 years ago
@hashbrown nice comment !
I liked all the episode because Mridang get to say everything he had in his heart and it's a rare moment that he had more than two or three words to say.
I had to admit that his words made sense. Only he and his wife thought of taking everything from Bharti and today he said they were planning to take a little part which is due to them because of their effort.

As an human being, i don't like this kind of egoistical plan but it's not the worst i've seen.

Concerning Bharti and Murli : first i didn't get why Bharti wanted them to stay but it's true that we can't ignore that there is a new member of the family coming and because Murli grown up in poverty, he should understand that it's not the BETTER thing to do to kick them out, knowing that their lives are going to be hard (no home, no job, ... )

I agree with all that said Bharti but also she shouldn't have promise that she'll stand for murli (feeding scene) so it's her fault somehow... BUT (as you said it well) Murli said he would do something after THINKING it off but ... this is not what he did !

Eeer to conclude i'm as torn as Bharti for taking a decision on who's right and not... 🐷

PS : I've always seen Murli as i nice guy who does what is right but i also notice how he is "forceful" (as you said hashbrown, i've tried to find another word to describe it but can't put my finger on it ), and i don't think that's a quality. I think that more of expressing his opinion, he was bashing Bharti.

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Posted: 14 years ago
Have we all forgot what mridala created and what end it takes? After all , theu both are responsible for rupeshs death too. They deserve this action of murli, and who is sure Gau is pregnant? Didn't she lie be4 and said she is pregnant? I am not going to believe it that easily.
Murlis ghussa was ok with me, Bharti should stand behind him and his decisions, at least in front of others. To try to convince him, when they r alone, is something else. Murlig, this "Vishwaas" u attacked Bharti for, isnt it just what u always expect from her. My POV: Murli has always taken Bharti n her love for granted. Thats not gentlemanlike Murli. me for my part, would never bear such attitude from my partner. But, as we can see in her case: constant dripping wears away the stone! Would have he remarry her if she hasnt be that patient? Doubt it!
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: addicted1

Have we all forgot what mridala created and what end it takes? After all ,theu both are responsible for rupeshs death too. They deserve this action of murli, and who is sure Gau is pregnant? Didn't she lie be4 and said she is pregnant? I am not going to believe it that easily.
Murlis ghussa was ok with me, Bharti should stand behind him and his decisions, at least in front of others. To try to convince him, when they r alone, is something else. Murlig, this "Vishwaas" u attacked Bharti for, isnt it just what u always expect from her. My POV: Murli has always taken Bharti n her love for granted. Thats not gentlemanlike Murli. me for my part, would never bear such attitude from my partner. But, as we can see in her case: constant dripping wears away the stone! Would have he remarry her if she hasnt be that patient? Doubt it!



Again it puts me into a dilemna : even if bharti doesn't point out the fact that gau brings prakash into their lives, we can't forget it since it bring to the death of rupesh (the only logical character in this serial just sayin). so in fact they do deserve to go far far away from any rupesh possession (house or money)

On the other part, when murli said "it's your weakness, the vishwaas" i was like "dude, if she wasn't this kind of person, today you two wouldn't be married and you'll be going crazy over guilt, and probably stuck with sudha..."

Who's right, who's not...
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Posted: 14 years ago
I may be in the minority here, but I'm with Murli on this one. The guy is maha angry. Why? Because he is hurting. That's where his anger stems from. Right now, those two emotions are overtaking everything else. And in that situation bharti should have known better than to approach him with the request to call back MridAla. You don't walk into a burning house to look for things, you wait until the fire has died down before going in to find what's left.
Bharti should have given Murli the space to deal with his emotions. There is no urgency here. Gau has only just found out she is expecting. It isn't as if she is about to pop any minute. So they can afford to take a few days to review the situation. Bharti should have gone to comfort him (silly girl had the perfect opportunity to go behind while he was sitting down and hug him from the back, or at the very least sit next to him and lean into him or something! ) The chances are that he had she waited until he was calmer she may have had a better chance of presenting her case and possibly finding him amenable.
While it may not be ideal to kick MridAla out of the house right now, allowing them to stay would make light of their antics. Ultimately, their greed has caused the death of Rupesh. They instigated the series of events that led to it.
Gau was quite willing to walk away from a burning Bharti.
She doesn't rate Dhumroo as a person, and considers him to be a dimwit. But was quite happy to sacrifice her sister to said dimwit so she could get the loot!
And while there may be some truth in what Mridang said, it does not justify their planning, plotting and scheming against their own. They wanted a little for themselves? Yeah right! You wanted it all, and that's the truth. Your wife isn't a little lalchi. She is extremely lalchi. No matter how you try to paint it at the end of the day, she is responsible for a good many of the bad things that have happened in this family.
And your efforts to snatch 'a little bit' for yourselves didn't start with the entry of the Evil Trio as you claim, but way before that. As Murli said, he's seen you do wrong against your family his whole life.
Until I see Gau giving birth, I refuse to believe for certain that she is pregnant.
While I think the accusation against Bharti for her vishwas was somewhat unfounded, I agree with the spirit of his message. That Bharti is too emotional and too trusting. But isn't that something we all accuse her of too? She is easily swayed by the crocodile tears of her family members.
I don't think Murli has been unduly forceful. Bharti has always managed to get him to change his mind on matters in the past. But for once he is adamant that he will stick to his decision. most likely because for once he believes it to be the absolutely right thing to do. Surely murli who has known MridAla his whole life has better grounds for his wanting them out of the house, than Bharti does for wanting them to remain.
MridAla don't deserve forgiveness because they haven't shown any remorse. In yesterdays epi Mridang made a whole lot of noise about being victimised, despite knowing in his heart that the accusation levelled at them was true. Today, he ranted and raved about being hard done by, and yet he is not the only one in the family to have faced that. If he had to make sacrifices so too did Dhumroo and Veena and KamAnsi no? And at the end of the day, he has underlying issues with the fact that murli is not his blood sibling. He was quick to accuse Murli of the same when he knows that Murli feels nothing for Murari and doesn't want him in the house.
The only issue I had today with Murli is his wagging of the finger at Bharti. That was condescending.
But when all is said and done, we know Murli will soften again when he realises that he probably let off more steam than he needed to, and will make amends with Bharti. 😃
Edited by Rakhie_08 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
As far as today's episode goes, I feel that Murli has every right to express his opinion/frustration but not to an extent where he is insolent towards innocent Bharti by flicking his finger at her. I know it was an emotional outburst from his end but man treat her as your wife and not the way you treat/talk to a child who is stubborn on wanting one and one thing only (which Bharti sometimes does without her knowledge I presume 😊). However, I always feel that Bharti ends up being the one getting the short end of a stick - whether its relationship with Murli or with his family. Bharti is too good for her own downfall. But I still like the character of Bharti šŸ˜›
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Posted: 14 years ago

if i am not mistaken, the only time murli listened to bharti on an issue, was damroo's rishta thing with jhumka. i was watching some of the old clips from cheznazi's uploads, and the way murli has talked to bharti, really ticked me off...

he has been unapproachable since his SR and even if bharti had sit and leaned into him, as suggested, i am sure, he would have ignored her then. he was forceful today. he could have talked softly to her too. instead he said, 'tum agar hamari aur iss ghar ki shanti chahtee tu unhain iss ghar main dobara lanay ki baat mat karna'...pretty strong words from my view point...it implied no discussion and no argument, woman!!!

given a choice between the two evils, i think gaushala and mirdang, with all their crimes of the past, are lesser evil. they have a long list of plotting and scheming against their own family members, but the fact of the matter is, they didn't plan rupeesh chauhan's murder...it just happened as a consequence of their misdeeds. it was not intentional...whereas murari, the axis of evil, was a murderer by intent, that too of an infant, his own son... and even to date, is scheming and plotting against that very son and his family...so he should have gotten out first, and then gaushala and company.



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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: hashbrown


if i am not mistaken, the only time murli listened to bharti on an issue, was damroo's rishta thing with jhumka. i was watching some of the old clips from cheznazi's uploads, and the way murli has talked to bharti, really ticked me off...



also hear, he was like "NO WEDDING" then Kamansi enter the room, said "Bharti's right" and Murli suddenly agreed on every thing

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