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Rakhie_08 thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
I still maintain Murli was right. I don't deny he was harsh, but he was right. As for JhumRoo's wedding being the only time he has listened to her, that is not the case.
She insisted he go to Delhi alone, albeit for the right reasons. But Murli had wanted her company, she said no, he aquiesced.
She wanted to get drenched in the rain, he said no you'll fall ill. She was adamant, he aquiesced.
He wasn't happy about Murari givign her shagun the first time. She insisted that even if an enemy gives one shagun, one has to accept it. She said it's a 'choti baat'. He wasn't happy but he aquiesced.
She said the JhumRoo marriage was a good thing. He didn't agree. But KamAnsi supported her too, and he aquiesced.
He wasn't too happy about having to give Murari money to settle his debts, she gave him a bashan, he aquiesced.
I'm not saying Bharti has him around her little finger, far from it. But Bharti has been able to convince him on matters past, with good intentions off course. But this time, clearly it's too hard for him to forgive so easily.
Neither am I condoning his attitude with her. But I'm not condoning her either. Fair enough, she probably would have got nowhere comforting him, in which case she should have left him alone and given him the space.
As for the way Murli treated her during their first marriage, we've already established that was wrong. But he's since apologised and trying to make amends. And Bharti for her part has forgiven him and given him another chance. So it would be unfair to fling that in his face now that he's trying to turn over a new leaf.
As far as the lesser of the two evils goes, Just because MridAla's antics may have been less evil than Murari and co doesn't necessarily mean they should have stayed in the house longer. Evil as and when it arises needs to be dealt with. And as far as the story is now, the Evil Trio's scheming hasn't been discovered yet. Had it been discovered first I've no doubt they would have been first out on their heiny in the streets!
MridAla may not have directly killed Rupesh, but as I said they instigated the series of events that led to his death. Just because they are several steps removed from the actual incident doesn't negate the fact that they played their part in it.
Bush and Blair never lifted a gun to the heads of so many innocent children around the world. Doesn't change the fact that they started on a course of events that led to their deaths.
Omar Farooq never actually killed anyone. Doesn't change the fact that he brainwashed enough people to do the job for him.
The Jews themselves never actually persecuted Jesus PBUH, but they created enough noise to ensure other people did it for them.
I don't mean to offend anyone with these examples, neither am I saying that MridAla's actions are on a par with the above. But I'm merely trying to illustrate that just because they didn't pull the trigger doesn't mean that they don't have some responsibility for it.
For my part I would have been happy to see Murari and co get turfed out earlier too, but I guess MridAla leaving will be the catalyst for their unravelling too.
And yes Murari may be a murder by intent, and MridAla not. But I can never forgive Gau for walking away from a burning Bharti. Doesn't matter how you put it, the fact of the matter is she was prepared to let Bharti die. So is she any less evil than Murari?
And on a side note, why do I get the feeling that Murli may have been investigating Murari and co secretly? I feel as if he knows somethings going on and he will be the one to reveal all. He never trusted them from day one, and I think he's been keeping a tab on them.
I could be completely wrong off course. 😃
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Posted: 14 years ago

i just speak of my feelings, my likings and my choices.
i was commenting on yesterday's last part where i found murli 'forceful'. i didn't like his style. thats not the way to talk to a wife...it was unacceptable for me. i would neither like it for myself nor for bharti, or for that matter, any other woman in the world...
i have arguments but i don't want to enter into arguments. it only creates an acrid atmosphere around the forum. so it is the end of the story from my side...😊


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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: hashbrown


i just speak of my feelings, my likings and my choices.
i was commenting on yesterday's last part where i found murli 'forceful'. i didn't like his style. thats not the way to talk to a wife...it was unacceptable for me. i would neither like it for myself nor for bharti, or for that matter, any other woman in the world...
i have arguments but i don't want to enter into arguments. it only creates an acrid atmosphere around the forum. so it is the end of the story from my side...😊


I'm assuming your post is in reply to mine ā“. if so I apologise if you think I was entering into an argument. That was not my intent. like yourself I was merely looking at the other side of the same coin.
I didn't think any of us were arguing, just discussing. I've not had an argument on any forum I've been, and certainly don't wish to start having them now
Clearly i can come across over zealous when making a point, so apologies once again.šŸ‘šŸ¼
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Posted: 14 years ago
I keep forgetting about this thread!

Rakhie, you keep a good account of the times bharti has ignored Murli's wishes/advise.

Hashbrown, I am actually not sure why so many people are upset about how Murli spoke with bharti the other day. I watched the original clip today multiple times and each time he never once wags his finger at bharti. He does, in conversation, wags it, but not at her.

Even when he put his foot down at the end, before he walks out, he pointed the finger at her, and then shook his head to say "don't".

I do agree, no one should talk to your spouse in a nasty manner but I personally didn't see anything untoward in their conversation, at least not from his point of view.

But, I sincerely hope he slaughters her when he finds out what she did today! I have zero sympathy and respect for Mrs. Murli Bansi Laal right now and am steaming at tonight's episode!

Edited by cheznazi - 14 years ago
Rakhie_08 thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
Before anyone starts thinking that I'm promoting subserviency for women, let me make it clear that is not the case at all šŸ˜†.
A wife has the right to stand up against her husband if she thinks he is in the wrong.
She has the right to take a stand on an issue that she thinks is important.
But you just don't go behind their backs like that and completely disregard their wishes. And this is true for everyone, not just husbands.
Bharti should have stuck to what she does best. Wearing Murli down with her emotional emotional atachyar šŸ˜†. Talk to the man until his ears bleed. Lecture him until he wants to hang himself, but don't betray his trust woman!
But the most sensible thing to do would have been to have left the matter alone for a few days. One of two things would have happened.
Either Murli would have calmed down, and may have been open to Bharti's suggestion. Or Bharti herself would have calmed down and seen the matter from Murli's perspective and realised that the shanti of the house is indeed in MridAla leaving.
Cheznazi, if Murli was being reactive two days ago, Bharti I feel was just as reactive yesterday. She hasn't given herself time to think things through either.
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Posted: 14 years ago
I know this is kind of random but for the longest time I was wondering where I have seen the girl who plays Jhumka and today my brain clicked šŸ¤£šŸ¤“
The stupid swayamvar which cancelled GKD brought back memories. I remember her because they used to play this promo constantly for that circus joker Rahul Dulhaniya Le Jayegaa when I was watching Bandini. So check out the girl at 0:31 and 1:58 and you will see Jhumka šŸ˜‰

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IHCuP7oNy7I[/YOUTUBE]


I dunno what's wrong with me, it just randomly came to me 🤪The song is catchy though🤣
Rakhie_08 thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
Fuzzy, for some reason I can't see the vid, but didn't she also play the part of Swara's devrani in Sarvagunn Sampanna??
I think her name was Deepti or something!
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Posted: 14 years ago
just wanted to say today's epi just left me heartbroken at the end...i felt soo sorry for Bharti - the poor girl started to see dreams and Murli just squashed them in seconds...when is he actually going to talk to Bharti?? come on cvs give them a chance!! i had high hopes especially when he presented that special rose...and then down it went 😭
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Posted: 14 years ago
After today's episode, I felt like smacking Murli on his head. Here we go again! He crushed her hopes and dreams in split seconds. Only this time he did not do it on purpose but inadvertently caused her a heart break. Poor Bharti. I felt really really really bad for her. Huh! when will the poor girl ever get a break.
I am still confused as to whether there is really a problem or if Murli is making a mole hill into a mountainšŸ˜•. Either way, leaving her hanging and abruptly ending the conversation (if we might call that as a conversation involves two people) is not going to fix any problems. It is going to build walls between the two and lower her self esteem as though enough people have not caused her enough heartche to achieve that. I know I know I am ranting here..
Edited by kt25 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
How sorry we felt yesterday for Murli, today i wish i could get into the screen n scene to kick his fry bheja out. Why, why , why Murli. U know what, once u told Sudha u don't desreve Bharti, u were absolutely rite.

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