Simran too selfish

Simran is way out of place to tell Urmila that Sid has to sacrifice his love for Sia just to make Astha happy. She portrays a fair person, but she is hurting those who love her the most.

Urmilla duty is to make her son happy. Now she feels obligated to follow Simran's request. I don't think Simran is a strong character anymore. All she does now is cry when Astha abuses her and makes everyone else suffer. Urmilla, Sid, Sia, Shaguna, her father....all are unhappy because of Simran's decisions.

All of us have parents here, so you guys know that no matter how grown up we are, if we dare answer back our mother, it is a solid slap we will get for being disrespectful. I cannot imagine talking to my mom so and then have her give me more love and attention. No way! My mom will tell me while I am under her roof, i follow her rules. Plain and simple.

Mom's love is great and she is the one who gives you good values for the years to come. Surrendering like Dr Simran is not a true mom's character. Its not her love for Astha but her own emotional insecurities over the years overpowering her at this point of her life which is really bad......they are hurting everybody in the family....and she herself is not aware of all this....ONLY MANAS CAN MAKE HER UNDERSTAND....

then why did sid agree in the 1st place? just bc the real aastha is back that doesnt mean he can change him mind about aastha? and what kind of mother would simran be if she told sid to 4get aastha and go after sia. that will prove that sia means more to her. and i think simran is doing the right thing, by staying to her word and sid should do the same.

I don't think even before Sia entered the scene, Sid ever confessed his love to Astha. It might be Astha's and or Simran's imagination. But should Sid be sacrificing his love on Simran's whim? (Probably yes) Because he thinks that Simran is his well wisher, has done a lot for him, showering him with gifts like Tata Sumo :) 😡


Astha is just 18 year old kid to fall in love. She is still a school going kid and yet to achieve anything in life. I do not agree with such early love affairs, which good for nothing people fall in.

I don't know how selfishness CAN come in to the picture. Sia was her daughter as well!! So, I am a little confused as to why she did it now. I guess she is afraid because of Aastha's insecurity and state of mind but still makes no sense to me.

Originally posted by: wawahehe

Simran's insistence of Sid-Aastha relationship is her easy way of getting out of situation. She cannot face a situation where she has to sit with Aasths to explain her that Sid does not have any feelings for her.

it is very easy for her to tell Sia to stay away from Sid because sia is an "ideal" daughter of Simran who is being portrayed to be the most "obidient" and "matured" daughter because she is the daughter of Simran.

What I cannot understand is how Sid and Urmila are letting Simran to dominate their personal lives. Even if I agree Simran did a lot for both of them when Urmila was in the jail, is Simran now indirectly having them repay for her favors?

wawahehe ! you've got a point 👏

wawahehe, that's so true. If Urmila or Sid ever give back to Simran, they will be called selfish. As Simran did a lot for them (do you really think so). I feel that Manas was the one who was on his toes to save Urmila and when Urmila was out of the mess, he rested in peace. Simran always posed that she is the most concerned for Urmila. Simran showered Sid with all kinds of expensive gifts like Tata Sumo (?)

In the back of Simran's mind, it's always going on that now these people are my pawns and they have to listen to me, else I will start crying, crying, crying. She is pathetic now.

Hey Dianne,

Agree with all you said.Such a pity they have changed Dr.Simran's character altogether. 😒 I still don't see her as selfish or a bad person.I see her as someone who has become weak and cannot stand pressures like she could earlier.Couldn't the creative Ajai Sinha think of better ways of extending this serial?

But some folks here just hate Simran don't they??? Everything she does or says is wrong.Guess that's their opinion but maybe they did not watch Astitva right from the begining.

Also we as viewers see all the characters and have a better insight so we can be better judges but the characters supposedly know little or nothing.
To give an instance,we know that Simran did not tell Astha about her identity inorder not lose her,but Astha can't read her mind.So her anger and disappointment are justified because the only 'truth' she knows is from her Nani.

Hey Wah wah,
I agree that some people like/defend Simran blindly.
But whether it's a majority or not it would be wrong to dislike persons who don't like Simran or anyone for that matter.
Speaking for myself,atleast I don't dislike you or anyone for hating Simran.
If you have read my posts and replies objectively,you will see that I have agreed at times and disagreed at other times.Does that show any prejudice?

Just as some members refuse to accept that Simran can do anything wrong,there are others who can't see her do anything right.I feel as if a"Simran fan Club" and a "Simran hate club" are being formed within the Astitva section,and I don't wish to subscribe to either of these.

I would definitely not judge you by your posts here.In another section we may share the same views.

I do not support any Simran or Astha or Sia fan.I definitely extend my support to the moderator in keeping this forum void of profanity.

So,Wah wah I hope this clears up misunderstandings my previous replies might have created.

Cheers

Originally posted by: wawahehe

Don't some people blindly defend Simran ? Anything shedoes is lways right ? Isn't it. The problem is people who don't like Simran are very few and don't seem to be liked here.

hiya wawa

hmmm - shame u feel this way... actually, i personally have no probs with ppl who don't like simran simply because i do....hey, at the end of the day, it is only a tv program and the people are only acting....However, i sometimes disagree with the way dislike towards simran is portrayed...but that's just to keep order within this great forum....

the flip side is, it seems the ppl that are anti-simran seem to be so that way blindly themselves...no matter what she does, it is wrong or it is for some ulterior motive...now, that is their choice and it's ok, but it would be more in interesting to read objective valuations of the characters...

there is a thread i gave a long reply to you abt simran and my thoughts abt some of the issues that have cropped up...i hope it was objective...pls do try too reply to it in an equal or more objective way if u can....then that would be interesting...

cheers