Simran too selfish - Page 2

Originally posted by: Dianne

Simran is way out of place to tell Urmila that Sid has to sacrifice his love for Sia just to make Astha happy. She portrays a fair person, but she is hurting those who love her the most.

Urmilla duty is to make her son happy. Now she feels obligated to follow Simran's request. I don't think Simran is a strong character anymore. All she does now is cry when Astha abuses her and makes everyone else suffer. Urmilla, Sid, Sia, Shaguna, her father....all are unhappy because of Simran's decisions.

All of us have parents here, so you guys know that no matter how grown up we are, if we dare answer back our mother, it is a solid slap we will get for being disrespectful. I cannot imagine talking to my mom so and then have her give me more love and attention. No way! My mom will tell me while I am under her roof, i follow her rules. Plain and simple.

Yes I agree, simran has no right to force sid to stay with astha if he really is in love with sia, it will be unfair to all three of them, Urmilla should also come out of her gratitude mode towards simran and support her son and help him decide what is right for him, A marriage based on compromise as will be sid and asthas marriage , has very little chance of survival, for a woman who has loved and married the person she fell in love with simran here is acting like a hypocrite and is trying to act good just for the heck of acting good, if she forces sid to marry astha it will be most unfair and unjustified.

Originally posted by: cutesahiba

Mom's love is great and she is the one who gives you good values for the years to come. Surrendering like Dr Simran is not a true mom's character. Its not her love for Astha but her own emotional insecurities over the years overpowering her at this point of her life which is really bad......they are hurting everybody in the family....and she herself is not aware of all this....ONLY MANAS CAN MAKE HER UNDERSTAND....

I agree with u.Simran needs to stand up for herself and stop crying day in and day out.If simran cant check and correct astha when she is wrong then she is not doing her job or duty as a mother.when we agree to everything our kids say and want we become their own worst enemies.Kids need direction and simran is failing in that respect.

Originally posted by: wawahehe

Simran's insistence of Sid-Aastha relationship is her easy way of getting out of situation. She cannot face a situation where she has to sit with Aasths to explain her that Sid does not have any feelings for her.

it is very easy for her to tell Sia to stay away from Sid because sia is an "ideal" daughter of Simran who is being portrayed to be the most "obidient" and "matured" daughter because she is the daughter of Simran.

What I cannot understand is how Sid and Urmila are letting Simran to dominate their personal lives. Even if I agree Simran did a lot for both of them when Urmila was in the jail, is Simran now indirectly having them repay for her favors?

I agree with you wawahehe, Urmilla and sid need to think for themselves and stop taking dictations from simran.

Very True.Simran should not expect Sid to make a sacrifice inorder to make Astha happy because in the long run NO ONE is going to be happy.

But I don't see it as Simran expecting a favour in return for what she has done for Urmila and Sid.She is just trying to protect the vulnerable Astha.I don't agree with what she is doing,but I don't see her as dictating terms.

I agree with Peacestead that Sid and Urmilla should think of themselves while making decisions that would change their entire life.

Hey guys do we have an anti Simran thing going on here? I agree it is none of her business to ask Urmila to tell Sid to stay out of Sia's life. Also it would not be fair to ask Sia to stay away from SId. But the truth is that she is a mother first than anything else and she is very justified for her behaviour. I am sure onace she comes out of that mother thing and get back to her ownself, she will be the first one to set thing straight. It is high time she gets control over her weaknesses and be the strong, fair and just person she used to be.