Update 21st July 2005 - Page 5

Originally posted by: scorpio_pk

Aastha is absolutely right, Abhi DID that with Neha,I don't blame Aastha at all. And look at Sia,now she have her REAL mother but still needs Abhi to come and meet her everyday.What about poor Aastha? Everyone is decieving her,even Sid, 😡 why the hell he is telling her he won't leave her and promised that when he actually wants to be with Sia. In this matter I think GARV(in Piya ka ghar)is very fair to Esha,not giving false hopes to Megha.

Thanks Sree for a wonderful update ! 😊

but Abhi is also SIas REAL father, just because she has simran does she have to give up all her rights on her own father, Abhi is living with GUdiya now and if abhay meets her for a few hours in a day whats the harm, Astha has to realize that Abhay is Sias father too and sia also has spent 21 years without him, Asthas behavior has gone beyond the realms of reality and it is to the point of mental sickness now, they seriously need to get her professional counselling because i think now even Astha cant control whats going on in her mind, how can she still expect Abhay to stay loyal to Neha when she is dead, he does have a right to remarry or choose to spend his life with someone else now, I agree that Astha has received shock after shock but there is a limit to everything, expecting that sia should have no relationship with Abhi who is her biological father is absolutely outrageous.I dont think Asthas problems can be solved by anyone now, she needs help ASAP and maybe some medication to soothe her turbulent mind and painful thoughts. SImran as a doctor should understand that and get her some counselling.

Originally posted by: victory

I'm going to start a longer message here.

All,

Absolutely, Aastha is WAY out of line with her behavior. It may be Simran's overprotective parenting, it may be the lack of a father figure in her life, it may be the fact that she has been overindulged with everything that she has ever wanted.

There are mature and responsible ways for people to react to their issues. Aastha has not employed any.

There is also a mature, responsible and ETHICAL way to show Aastha the error of her ways and to help her come to an understanding of the issues - this is what Abhi is doing.

There is even further, a mature, responsible, ethical and TACTFUL way to discuss the issues at hand and potential ways to resolve them.

Aastha is not commiting a crime by being a brat, yes she is annoying, yes she is out of line, but no she is not commiting a crime.

A rape is a violation against a woman. It is the stripping of her right of choice and the force of another individuals choice and power over her. It is in virtually every country a Felony CRIME and something the United Nations tries as a WAR CRIME.

Would we say that because Aastha can not behave that we should kill her Naani? Or bomb her house? No. Similarly, we should not suggest that this heinous type of behavior is a way to reproach her behavior.

It is our jobs to teach our kids responsible behavior, to emulate good values and ethics. If raping someone to teach them a lesson is condoned, then what will our children learn? what happens if the victim of rape is your sister, your mother, your cousin, your daughter, your future wife? Would you wish it on her then?

Victory I absolutely agree with you, whatever the other viewer has posted is inhuman and grotesque, it surpasses all limits of humanity and civilized thinking!!!!!!!Yes there are people who like Astha and people who dont like her, but a punishment like that for a young woman baffles all reasoning and I am left with only one question , how could anybody think of something so filthy and depraved. Astha is a spoilt brat but the solution is discipline and counselling and of course love that she is getting whether she realizes it or not,to some extent simrans love for ashta does come into play, a child always knows the limits of his/her parents, when children are repeatedly allowed to cross those boundaries then the value system gets dented the child doesnt know where and when to stop, the repeated lying to her has aided in her wild behavior, the first time simran lied it was okay but the second time around it was not necessary, whatever Asthas behavior the punishment outlined by the other viewer is immoral and unjust and utterlly repulsive and beyond any human reasoning and also a CRIME to the highest level.

gr8 update sree...... but i think astha should change her attitude..... she is really like her nani n mother.... actually she is sick.... 😡

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