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I feel we should blame entire Shah family for raising such kids than only Anupama. Yes mother's influence is bigger but if you see vanraj himself put an example in front of kids for taking loans, cheating in relationships, EMAs etc. Anupama remains docile for 26 years. Obviously kids will be more influenced by other family members when they know their mother does not have any respect in the family.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Pune mein one of my relative bought 3 crore wala Ghar and he is paying EMI 3 lakh per month

Yes so this is real.world ki jahan pe 3 crore ke aagey 10 lakh ki koi koi value nahi hai

Regarding 3 crore home loan to get 1 crore home loan your salary should be 1.5 lakh minimum salary per month

For 3 crore loan you must get salary of 4.5 lakh per month that only a VP in Infosys/accenture can get with 25 years exp. Like to pay 3 lakh EMI person salary cannot be less than 5 to 6 lakh per month salary only than loan approved. Also many other criteria are there to give such huge loan and a certain percentage down payment person must do like 10% means 30 lakh

If your cousin is 25 years exp and getting almost 5 lakh salary per month to pay 3 crore EMI good for him or her

But hardly 0.25 lakh people in corporate get that kind of salary in entire india in corporate in any sector across full india of 140 crore ppl

So do not say that 10 lakh has no value etc. 125 crore people in india can never see 10 lakh in this life time ever. The remaining 5 crore, 4 crore cannot have 10 lakh in bank at a time as the monthly expenses for house and children all money will go off.

You have to go outside in corporate and outside world and deal with ppl to know reality of who owns that kind of money you are saying on hear say i think. Covid has wiped out 50% of wealth or money many ppl had in banks or home as hospital money was so high.

During covid ICU charge for one day was 50,000 to 80,000 per day in bangalore/mumbai/hyderbad. If a person gets serious at home you can easily spend 20-40 lakh in one month during covid for hospitalization. Many insurance rejected covid admission bills so ppl paid out of pocket. If all had 10 akh in bank crores would not die in covid at home or on roads. Many ppl who were serious or had low oxygen were sent back by hospitals as they said they cannot afford covid admission or ICU charges so they were sent home and died at home. If they had 10 lakh and its nothing maids too have it than all would be saved no crores would not die for lack of money and ICU care or oxygen. Only super rich could pay and survived that too only if they got beds in good hospitals with exp docs.

Read below tax how many get 10 lakh per year

https://www.financialexpress.com/money/crorepatis-in-india-how-many-earn-up-to-rs-1-crore-income-and-more-in-2022-2626010/

https://www.moneycontrol.com/news/business/personal-finance/indias-household-savings-hit-50-year-low-easy-tips-to-boost-your-savings-11866361.html

Yes, for 26 years she was suppressed and hardly had a role to play in the upbringing of her children.

So what is stopping her post divorce to set them straight and let them understand that she is no pushover?

When she can exercise her rights on Dimple and Adhik, why not on her anmol ratna, legendary children?

She was advising Kinjal ti stand up for her self respect, Charity begins at home, why not do the honours?

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Yes, for 26 years she was suppressed and hardly had a role to play in the upbringing of her children.

So what is stopping her post divorce to set them straight and let them understand that she is no pushover?

When she can exercise her rights on Dimple and Adhik, why not on her anmol ratna, legendary children?

She was advising Kinjal ti stand up for her self respect, Charity begins at home, why not do the honours?

She was suppressed, didn’t have much say, but its not like she is innocent.
She left no chance to spoil her kids, from serving them like a waitress in their room to selling her Jewelry to buy an engagement ring, allowing them to introduce Kavya as their mother on various occasions to taking a backseat in their life changing decisions, lying on footpath with her abusive daughter to shielding her two timer son in the name of anger issues, she has a big role to play in never letting her kids become self dependent, she never let them get punished for their mistakes which turned into Sins later.

Pakhi has learnt from her mother, she is ill treating her adopted child just like what Maa did to CA.

Just like Anuj was joru ka ghulam, Tosu is getting manipulated by Kinjal in using their mother like their new maid. How did she manage 3 yrs in US without any help is still a question.

And we all know, one apology from Shahs, one emergency and she will again run back to them.

She has never practiced whatever she preaches.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Regarding 3 crore home loan to get 1 crore home loan your salary should be 1.5 lakh minimum salary per month

For 3 crore loan you must get salary of 4.5 lakh per month that only a VP in Infosys/accenture can get with 25 years exp. Like to pay 3 lakh EMI person salary cannot be less than 5 to 6 lakh per month salary only than loan approved. Also many other criteria are there to give such huge loan and a certain percentage down payment person must do like 10% means 30 lakh

If your cousin is 25 years exp and getting almost 5 lakh salary per month to pay 3 crore EMI good for him or her

But hardly 0.25 lakh people in corporate get that kind of salary in entire india in corporate in any sector across full india of 140 crore ppl

So do not say that 10 lakh has no value etc. 125 crore people in india can never see 10 lakh in this life time ever. The remaining 5 crore, 4 crore cannot have 10 lakh in bank at a time as the monthly expenses for house and children all money will go off.

You have to go outside in corporate and outside world and deal with ppl to know reality of who owns that kind of money you are saying on hear say i think. Covid has wiped out 50% of wealth or money many ppl had in banks or home as hospital money was so high.

During covid ICU charge for one day was 50,000 to 80,000 per day in bangalore/mumbai/hyderbad. If a person gets serious at home you can easily spend 20-40 lakh in one month during covid for hospitalization. Many insurance rejected covid admission bills so ppl paid out of pocket. If all had 10 akh in bank crores would not die in covid at home or on roads. Many ppl who were serious or had low oxygen were sent back by hospitals as they said they cannot afford covid admission or ICU charges so they were sent home and died at home. If they had 10 lakh and its nothing maids too have it than all would be saved no crores would not die for lack of money and ICU care or oxygen. Only super rich could pay and survived that too only if they got beds in good hospitals with exp docs.

Read below tax how many get 10 lakh per year

https://www.financialexpress.com/money/crorepatis-in-india-how-many-earn-up-to-rs-1-crore-income-and-more-in-2022-2626010/

https://www.moneycontrol.com/news/business/personal-finance/indias-household-savings-hit-50-year-low-easy-tips-to-boost-your-savings-11866361.html

True.

Koi woh dard kya jaane jab taxes cut Kar salary aati hain.

We have ALL heard of some hawkers or homeless people actually being rich and owning property.

These are exceptions and exceptions cannot be regarded as norm.