We see a lot of difference in how kids have been raise by anupama and shahs versus how kids were raised by kapadiyas
In shah house where vanraj and anupama are parents the kids are all selfish and are busy trying to make others property and business as theirs
Like toshu married kinjal because rakhi has coaching center and kinjal has studied in USA, samar kept quiet when dimpy snatched dance academy from anupama, pakhi is after adhik and anuj wealth and property. Not one child is decent all are lusting after others hard earned business or property and enjoying on others money.
Not only kids look at vanraj shah he was eyeing kapadiya business and for that he trapped malvika kapadiya in love affair ema that too online in email and social media only. Not only vanraj even anupama is dhed shani. Imagine if my husband gives me100% of his business or property to me i will return it next day through lawyer in his name back because i do not want others hard earned empire or property in my name not even my husband unless i have worked many years to get a share. Only if i am educated enough and worked hard in his company many decades than may be i will accept a share in my hubby property that too after working 20 or 30 years. Else i will not accept anything as i have not worked for it why should i get it? Its his parents business so he and his siblings deserve it not me. Thats what my parents and grandparents taught me from childhood to not think others business or property is yours not even your own family unless you have worked and earned it.
My parents have taught me only what you earn through hard work is yours, never take anyones else property, wealth etc even parents or husband or my own kids. So any decent wife would give back everything to hubby or atleast give 50% to his sister name. But this anupama nicely kept 100% in her name. Who does like that? Why take others hard earned business shes not even educated to handle anything there? After all its not your own parents/grandparents property or business that you take 100% stake in your name. And she did not bother to give 50% to malvika who is rightful owner as its her parents business and bungalow. That itself shows how flawed and selfish even anupama upbringing and values are.
Compare that to kapadiyas upbringing. Anuj gave away 100% of his parents business and property to first Malvika than anupama. And Mlavika too wrote 100% of business and property to anuj without thinking in future if shes in need what she will do? Kapadiyas seem to give more importance to education and hard work than snatching others business and property in their name and acting as if they are rich .
A person who is educated and capable need not lust after others business or wealth. Because he know he can earn it any time he wants with his education and capability. Thats what anuj and malvika have been thought to do. Even adhik after anuj left selling all business, is earning on own not dependent on anyone. As hes educated enough, although initially he was after anupama wealth, hence married pakhi but hes no longer running after anupama or anuj wealth. Hes earning and living on own unlike all shahs kids who live off wife or spouse wealth.
And after all this anupama talks as if shes greatest mother on earth who taught her kids values and morals. Not to steal what is others is given in scriptures only. Her kanhaji only said karam karo pal ki iccha mat karo. But all shahs want pal not doing any karam or work to get it stealing what is others rightfully. Honesty if i am kinjal or anuj or adhik i would be wild if my spouse live off me and make me work hard while they sit and enjoy my hard earned wealth and act as if its theirs. Let them earn and enjoy their own hard earned money why should anyone give to their spouse wealth or business or hard earned salary to enjoy? Unless they are not sick or handicap or aged senior citizen cannot work why should they live of spouse hard earned wealth? OK so you say house wife do work but neither anupama or pakhi or toshu do any spouse house work or take care of them or kids they all enjoy spouse wealth without any responsibilities. That is just not done.
Even kids once they are 23-24 years should earn own money and life off their own hard work than use parents or spouse or in laws money and wealth. Somehow all shahs fail to imbibe these values and morals and are lusting after others wealth business hard earned money. So why is anupama so proud of being a mother? shes not instilled even these values in her kids not to lust or live off others hard earned wealth.
She herself has no values look in every work place shes irresponsible never on time not there in work hours always running away from work place for personal work be it in kapadiya empire to shahs place or usa to do odd personal jobs. Where she can teach her kids values than? Cannot she work 8 hours properly in hotel or company without running for personal works here there. Do personal work after work hours. In india nowadays ppl work 12 hours non stop what would upma do if employed in indian company? Atleast in usa its only 8 hours after that you have to give over time.
Also when pakhi wasting adhik or anuj money she never stopped her at all only acting naraz superficial so anuj or barkha or MD or adhik do not think shes siding with pakhi in wrong doing? She kept quiet when toshu using anuj name to get business? She never told samar return anuj money for dane academy, she herself never gave back 20 lakh loan to anuj? Ok i forgot she must be gettihng crores of salary as kapadiya empire malkin and paying same money back to anuj? What a joke? You return a man his money only that hes giving you without any work for being his wife?