Let’s cut her some slack!

I know Anuj ka outbust has been talked about enough already and yes he was right to ask the questions he did but TBH his character is more flawed than Anupamaa’s at this point…

He can’t complain when he let her (ab)use his goodness and handed her all authority in their relationship which gave her the power to control their marriage in the name of equality…She was always in the driver’s seat in this relationship, something she was deprived of in her first marriage.

Anupamaa just couldnt handle the freedom and respect she gained in her relationship with Anuj, infact she misused it to serve the Shahs, like they say power corrupts and it truly did here…

After all the love and respect Anuj showered on her, she would obviously feel mutilated when questioned why she hasnt given him priority… Anuj dear, thats cause you never made her feel that she was wrong…with your constant chants of meri Anu, kaise kar leti ho tum, meri Anu kabhi galat nahi ho sakti, meri Anu sab sambhaal legi etc you gave her this power rush and stripped her off it without a warning…ouch, thats gotto hurt!

She will cry foul, blame everyone else but herself and play victim like always but thats who she is…shame, you couldnt understand her disability and only fed her ego more and more …there is no point crying now, her misplaced priorities are a result of your doing and the sad thing is she will never know why….

Good luck with all the hate coming your way Anuj, we know you will eventually return to being her slave, sooner rather than later I believe!

Originally posted by: hinz

I know Anuj ka outbust has been talked about enough already and yes he was right to ask the questions he did but TBH his character is more flawed than Anupamaa’s at this point…

He can’t complain when he let her (ab)use his goodness and handed her all authority in their relationship which gave her the power to control their marriage in the name of equality…She was always in the driver’s seat in this relationship, something she was deprived of in her first marriage.

Anupamaa just couldnt handle the freedom and respect she gained in her relationship with Anuj, infact she misused it to serve the Shahs, like they say power corrupts and it truly did here…

After all the love and respect Anuj showered on her, she would obviously feel mutilated when questioned why she hasnt given him priority… Anuj dear, thats cause you never made her feel that she was wrong…with your constant chants of meri Anu, kaise kar leti ho tum, meri Anu kabhi galat nahi ho sakti, meri Anu sab sambhaal legi etc you gave her this power rush and stripped her off it without a warning…ouch, thats gotto hurt!

She will cry foul, blame everyone else but herself and play victim like always but thats who she is…shame, you couldnt understand her disability and only fed her ego more and more …there is no point crying now, her misplaced priorities are a result of your doing and the sad thing is she will never know why….

Good luck with all the hate coming your way Anuj, we know you will eventually return to being her slave, sooner rather than later I believe!

They divorced them ? 😬😏

Gaurav’s gonna have the taste of being Shahi Paneer’s table for too long , esp in a show with Dost omnipresent ... Yesterday saw some v colourful words being used for bashing AK by FL solos, aaj toh tarifon ke pull bandhne hai 🤦‍♀️

Rare occasions I'm glad he's not active on SM 😄

Btw I remember reading a fanfic on this forum where Maan get separated n meet in US many years later ... it was never completed, was it from you ? I remember it cz I’m a sucker for that kind of angsty separation stuff ( obviously not d way DKP shows ) n it was so well written

Gauri, I havent watched the episode, posted this before it aired…but going by the stuff on X, guess they have divorced/ seperated.

I think SM is not for everyone, he was never good at posting stuff, and the recent absence explains why

And yes that fanfic was by me, perhaps I can continue it in the upcoming hols, though I may not do justice to the chars cause I dont like them anymore, I will give it a try

https://www.indiaforums.com/fanfiction/2407

Anuj gave her freedom thinking that she didn’t get it in her first marriage because that was told by Devika but he didn’t knew that was not the case with Anupama’s twisted thinking. Anupama was happy in her first marriage.

If Vanraj had just ONS like Toshu she would be happily living with him but Vanraj told her that he is in her love with Kavya and Kavya was there wanting to marry Vanraj. Kavya had places in lives of two kids of her.if there was no Kavya but just cheating like ONS she would have never divorced Vanraj.

Anupama had and have immense trust in Vanraj she proved this again n again by her actions. She never once stand up for Anuj like that.

I don’t thinks now Anuj gave whole business and KM to Anupama. In Maaya track before leaving he gave signing rights to Anupama and Ankush so he was the owner of it. Maybe he gave her some share of company and she have regular income from it. He just gave her financial security.

Posting from ddt

Okay so I choose to leave you, Main kam pad gayi, maine bohot kosis ki sab belence karne ki, mujhe pata nahi tha aap iss riste mein ghut ghut ke jee rahe hain, ab meri jimmedariyo ka bojh aap par nahi dalungi aur, main ja rahi hu, kya pata fir kabhi mile na mile par aapke liye pray hamesha karungi.

Lekin

Lekin

Lekin apni un jimmedariyo ko jinka bojh maine jabarrrdasti utha rakha hai, jinhone mujhe ghar se dhakke mar ke bahar nikal diya, un jimmedariyo ko main nahi chodungi, kabhi nahi haan, jarra bhi nahi.

Mujhse sadi karke galti ho gayi na (putting words in mouth literally when he said jaldi ho gayi shadi karne mein) lo tumhara aur tumhari beti ka photu, main chali, bye!

Ek bar Alle Maali Bebli jo mere liye sabse jyada hai, se mili bhi nahi, bass nikal padi.

v/s

The number of times she has been humiliated and character assassinated by her own kids but never left them, number of times she has been thrown out by Shahs but never stopped going there, number of times she has been used and abused but never answered them back.

This is all Anuj’s mistake tbvh, itna bhi kisi ko sar par mat chadhao, kisi ko itna bhi pedestal pe mat bithao ko wo sar pe tandav karne lage and Maa to Tandav mein ekshpert hai we all know!

Glad he didn’t stop her, but he should have said all this long ago. Didn’t have that much impact now she left as if she was never wrong, unapologetic and shameless as ever, I don’t know how can he love this garbage of a woman and how can someone even like her.

Consequences of his choice (marrying VanRajan's unpaid maid) are staring him in the face. Ab bhugto

Good luck Anuj i hope soon gk finds better project before these ppl emotionally drain him

Originally posted by: hinz

Gauri, I havent watched the episode, posted this before it aired…but going by the stuff on X, guess they have divorced/ seperated.

I think SM is not for everyone, he was never good at posting stuff, and the recent absence explains why

And yes that fanfic was by me, perhaps I can continue it in the upcoming hols, though I may not do justice to the chars cause I dont like them anymore, I will give it a try

https://www.indiaforums.com/fanfiction/2407

Thenk you Thenk you ...Reread it DKP actually has good scope to do somthing here with a fresh storyline but we all know unke bass ka nahi hai

Tumhi likh lo (though I can imagine how diff it will be considering how much we loathe the couple now ) , writers might pick something up and churn out 1-2 decent episodes ...

Happy Hols !! Hope you enjoy a few days of Turtleneck frolicking before the Meri Anu crap starts again

Very nice post

Also, this is not the first time of anuj having outburst about shitmaa ka misplaced priorities and her not accepting her mistakes.... He goes to back to square one of yapping meri anu yada yada yada after separation from her for few days and forgets why they separated in the first place . ..

Quite true.. Moreover, I think he also facilitated her actions. He befriended Vanraj. He seeked validation from Shahs... He also has his own share of cuchiee cooing with baa and tyring to be best beta to Bapooji ... And also letting his money flow in all directions without thinking who is deserving and who is not.. He too attended Shahs functions and let them attend his... Today we feel quite connected to his pain because that's how we expected him to behave. His questions to Anupama are directly copied from social media posts which is what makes him relatable today.... I agree with you it's not just a reality check but a complete bijli ka jhatka he has given...