Let’s cut her some slack! - Page 2

Originally posted by: hinz

I know Anuj ka outbust has been talked about enough already and yes he was right to ask the questions he did but TBH his character is more flawed than Anupamaa’s at this point…

He can’t complain when he let her (ab)use his goodness and handed her all authority in their relationship which gave her the power to control their marriage in the name of equality…She was always in the driver’s seat in this relationship, something she was deprived of in her first marriage.

Anupamaa just couldnt handle the freedom and respect she gained in her relationship with Anuj, infact she misused it to serve the Shahs, like they say power corrupts and it truly did here…

After all the love and respect Anuj showered on her, she would obviously feel mutilated when questioned why she hasnt given him priority… Anuj dear, thats cause you never made her feel that she was wrong…with your constant chants of meri Anu, kaise kar leti ho tum, meri Anu kabhi galat nahi ho sakti, meri Anu sab sambhaal legi etc you gave her this power rush and stripped her off it without a warning…ouch, thats gotto hurt!

She will cry foul, blame everyone else but herself and play victim like always but thats who she is…shame, you couldnt understand her disability and only fed her ego more and more …there is no point crying now, her misplaced priorities are a result of your doing and the sad thing is she will never know why….

Good luck with all the hate coming your way Anuj, we know you will eventually return to being her slave, sooner rather than later I believe!

Itna bachpan mai patang ko dheel nahi diya jitna hum logo ne Anupama ko slack diya hai. Lekin ab kanni cut chuki hai fans ke patang ki, so no way to reel in the falling patang (TRPs) back, its too late methinks.

I agree, Anuj is a nut case. He could have taken back privileges or power or both when her commitment was missing. More than anything else, he should have stood up for himself and his family which he never did.

But that does NOT cut Any slacks for Anupama.

Think of it, Anuj repeatedly requested, sternly said, reasoned out to Anupama to draw boundaries. Her biological mother clearly stated before her wedding to Anuj, before the Maaya track, now before her "jogan" track. Malati Devi, Barkha each and everyone showed her the mirror and requested her, ALL on deaf ears.

Then roared Vanraj (oh he roared twice) asking her not to come and she complied. Batao. That means the advises from none else mattered to her. It's COMPLETELY on her.

Hell, she was giving relationship advise and rehne ki tameez to Kavya.

As for the makers, seriously, "Get well soon". I hope they realised what a mess of a lead they have done.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

I agree, Anuj is a nut case. He could have taken back privileges or power or both when her commitment was missing. More than anything else, he should have stood up for himself and his family which he never did.

But that does NOT cut Any slacks for Anupama.

Think of it, Anuj repeatedly requested, sternly said, reasoned out to Anupama to draw boundaries. Her biological mother clearly stated before her wedding to Anuj, before the Maaya track, now before her "jogan" track. Malati Devi, Barkha each and everyone showed her the mirror and requested her, ALL on deaf ears.

Then roared Vanraj (oh he roared twice) asking her not to come and she complied. Batao. That means the advises from none else mattered to her. It's COMPLETELY on her.

Hell, she was giving relationship advise and rehne ki tameez to Kavya.

As for the makers, seriously, "Get well soon". I hope they realised what a mess of a lead they have done.

That precious advice landed Kavya bek in Shah Mansion, what a waste of a character