Mujhe Nahi Jaana - Page 5

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Then kya choti padhai nahi karegi kya woh school nahi jaayegi kya aakhir woh kub tuk trauma mein rahegi aakhir choti ko to school to jaana hi hoga ya phir Ghar mein reh kar mummy mummy karti rahegi .

Btw, why so much of disdain for CA? Poor child!! My heart breaks just to read updates here💔

The only thing kids of her age need is parents love. More so, that of a mother, or even a motherly figure.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Then kya choti padhai nahi karegi kya woh school nahi jaayegi kya aakhir woh kub tuk trauma mein rahegi aakhir choti ko to school to jaana hi hoga ya phir Ghar mein reh kar mummy mummy karti rahegi .

Padhai is the last of concerns for a traumatized patient.

Yeh Mummy mummy usne zaroorat ke aur nazuk time par kiya overgrown adult bachchon ke silly reasons ke liye nahin jise dekhte hi Anupama ko khud panic etteck aa jata tha.

Originally posted by: Kabhi18

In your attempt to talk about women empowerment you made several problematic statements.

First, a fictional show is not necessarily reflective of reality and a real life woman's struggles. This might set a bad example, but it doesn't dictate that this is exactly what happens in society. How can you even make this comparison?

Second, what the heck do you mean by "women are too emotional"? That's not factual whatsoever and a complete societal and culture narrative being shoved down people's throats. In actuality, several studies show that women and men are IN FACT equally emotional. There is even a study that says that men are more emotional. Anger counts as an emotion.

If you're female yourself, you may want to work on that internalized sexism and misogyny.

Incredibly, incredibly offensive comment - i'm appalled that people still say things like this.

Thanks for the above statement, but would be better if you would replace the "you" in the above quotation with "the show Anupamaa".

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In the show Anupamaa's attempt to talk about women empowerment the show Anupamaa made several problematic statements.

I am a woman who is struggling everyday to get management opportunities while constantly trying to assure in job interviews that I take rational decisions and that I will never cause the company any monetary or reputational loss.

And yet I still don't get a chance because the HR has doubts that I will quit when my family responsibility overwhelms me. They obviously cannot state that directly but it's an evident pattern when they don't consider me for "management" positions and let me remain on a lower scale.

And then when I see a show portrayal a fictional woman who is getting opportunities left right and center and just wasting them, while also risking the people who choose to trust her with those responsibilities, it really irks me.

You can call me misogynistic but I know plenty of women who get jobs and waste a seat that would have helped another sincere woman or man to actually make a career and improve finances, only to quit midway and mostly because "they find it too hard to balance things"

Now consider this, a career woman who doesn't have it in her to be a housewife trying and failing to be a housewife when she has a different talent is a sad story right? We cheer for her to go back to be a career woman. Remember Diya aur Baati Hum??

So why is it misogyny when I say that a housewife, who doesn't have it in her to be a career woman but is doing it just because she got a post-divorce FOMO, should stop doing it and not waste precious resources?

I am nobody to judge a woman when she chooses family over career, but atleast accept that it's your choice. The show constantly blames the family and society for not letting her make a career, but guess who is messing up her chances when she is getting them in plenty??

This definitely is not a show about women empowerment and mid-life second chances at a career, when all it keeps showing that the "ideal woman" should and will always prefer family responsibilities over a major career breakthrough.

Originally posted by: TianaWrites

Maa senses are activated only inside the airplane when everything else is in flight mode

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Originally posted by: surabhi01

Yeh galat hai anupama ki journey ko aagey bhadame ke liye writer log violence ko promote kar Rahe totally wrong

The writers have promoted much more worse things than violence.....they have shown a woman who was gang raped in bad light, a woman who was able to get out of the gang who wanted her to be a prostitute and she even left her baby at an orphanage to save her from the same fate...in a bad light....they showed a little 7 year old kid from orphanage in a bad light...they showed Barkha and Rakhi Dave in bad light when they were both a victim of cheating by their husbands......why are you upset over this when there is much more to be upset about...

On the other hand someone like Kavya who literally cheated on Devi ji for a long time pretending to be her friend is being shown as a positive person.....just because she is a Devi Bhakt now....

I know very well what had happened in anupama previous episodes as i am watching this serial right from 1st episode so i know is lame kya kya hua hai aur Maine baaki ko bhi crictise Kiya hai

Aisa nahi hai main sirf aaj violence ko crictise Kiya Maine pehle bhi baaki cheejom bhi crictise Kiya hai

Aaj woh violence ko p9mote kar Rahe Hai tto promote anupama journy so I am crictising it

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Thanks for the above statement, but would be better if you would replace the "you" in the above quotation with "the show Anupamaa".

Like,

In the show Anupamaa's attempt to talk about women empowerment the show Anupamaa made several problematic statements.

I am a woman who is struggling everyday to get management opportunities while constantly trying to assure in job interviews that I take rational decisions and that I will never cause the company any monetary or reputational loss.

And yet I still don't get a chance because the HR has doubts that I will quit when my family responsibility overwhelms me. They obviously cannot state that directly but it's an evident pattern when they don't consider me for "management" positions and let me remain on a lower scale.

And then when I see a show portrayal a fictional woman who is getting opportunities left right and center and just wasting them, while also risking the people who choose to trust her with those responsibilities, it really irks me.

You can call me misogynistic but I know plenty of women who get jobs and waste a seat that would have helped another sincere woman or man to actually make a career and improve finances, only to quit midway and mostly because "they find it too hard to balance things"

Now consider this, a career woman who doesn't have it in her to be a housewife trying and failing to be a housewife when she has a different talent is a sad story right? We cheer for her to go back to be a career woman. Remember Diya aur Baati Hum??

So why is it misogyny when I say that a housewife, who doesn't have it in her to be a career woman but is doing it just because she got a post-divorce FOMO, should stop doing it and not waste precious resources?

I am nobody to judge a woman when she chooses family over career, but atleast accept that it's your choice. The show constantly blames the family and society for not letting her make a career, but guess who is messing up her chances when she is getting them in plenty??

This definitely is not a show about women empowerment and mid-life second chances at a career, when all it keeps showing that the "ideal woman" should and will always prefer family responsibilities over a major career breakthrough.

Originally posted by: U_nicorn

I completely agree with you. These are my exact thoughts when Anupama is shown not fulfilling her professional commitments due to her personal issues. I’ve too been a similar situation like yours and it’s taken me a while to convince the management that just because I’m married with kids does not make me any less of a professional. Fathers don’t take day offs when children fall sick, mothers have to step in. But after all these years, with society shaming the discrimination, slowly corporates are becoming more accommodating. But Anupama is taking us years behind. They only show that her family and children are her roadblocks to success. That’s a wrong message from a show that’s watched by so many women. If she is a housewife who is satisfied being one…so be it! Don’t force her to become a teacher and a chef and an industrialist and a hotelier and then a dancer and then international performer and what not. That way she’s not completing anything meaningful in her professional career. Whatever she’s achieved she’s shown to give up for her family (for ex and current both). A lot of women have to go through this choice where they have to choose family over careers….but as a leading show talking about women empowerment, your choices need to be such that more women get inspired. These days when I see Anupama I feel younger women who watch this show would think twice to marry or have kids if they have career ambitions. I can’t see her character growth arc at all post the adoption track. It’s as if writers are taking revenge from audience.

@ bold: Yes, this is because she hasnt completed her education so doesnt understand to keep personal life and professional life separate. MD gave her a direction when she was directionless and now she has ditched MD. I really want MD to put Anupama in her place, get the deviji bhoot out and bring her on road to rotten!!! Stupid female Anupama

Anupamaa, whenever there is a career opportunity

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Originally posted by: Harish111

Anupamaa, whenever there is a career opportunity

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