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Originally posted by: name2saakshi

Same my question how important CA to Anuj.

I'm not say you leave m but u also can't leave anupama

M is not Anuj responsibility but Anupama have because you marry her if he think for CA then also he thinks for anupama

After yesterday episode i m really think saari Anuj ki baatein vaade n kasame r fake n lies.

Ab na koi poetry n na koi bhi baat ki koi value nahi hai Anuj ki.

N after today episode anupama ke bhashan ki bhi koi value khatam

1st usse sab chahiye tha ab sirf dreams

Ist usse two two Ghar sabhalna the ab apna husband bhi nahi chahiye

Anuj itna dumb kese ho gaya not understand

Means maya ko sirf maan ko saath dekh kar P Attack aata hai yeh baat samhaj ne Wali hai. Anuj not nursing m 24/7 if she harm ca then what?

Means kal se my mind is boiling like seriously 🤬

Originally posted by: name2saakshi

Same my question how important CA to Anuj.

I'm not say you leave m but u also can't leave anupama

M is not Anuj responsibility but Anupama have because you marry her if he think for CA then also he thinks for anupama

After yesterday episode i m really think saari Anuj ki baatein vaade n kasame r fake n lies.

Ab na koi poetry n na koi bhi baat ki koi value nahi hai Anuj ki.

N after today episode anupama ke bhashan ki bhi koi value khatam

1st usse sab chahiye tha ab sirf dreams

Ist usse two two Ghar sabhalna the ab apna husband bhi nahi chahiye

Anuj itna dumb kese ho gaya not understand

Means maya ko sirf maan ko saath dekh kar P Attack aata hai yeh baat samhaj ne Wali hai. Anuj not nursing m 24/7 if she harm ca then what?

Means kal se my mind is boiling like seriously 🤬

Now Anupamaa looks at Anuj and is disgusted at what he has become (like her)

Anupamaa abhi bhi time hai, sudharr jaao. Aapko dekh karr shayad Anuj bhi sudhar jaye.

Originally posted by: hoshiyaar

Anuj is the new Anupamaa.

Now Anupamaa looks at Anuj and is disgusted at what he has become (like her)

Anupamaa abhi bhi time hai, sudharr jaao. Aapko dekh karr shayad Anuj bhi sudhar jaye.

Why this question ❓

Anupama herself answer today she 2 would had done same in the situation , let makers bring vanraj fake memory loss track from originals tab aap or hum isse forum pe milenge thou I heard sreemorey is a better character than anupama she never neglected really Rohit till he was alive & values her marriage a lot but yaha uska ulta hai

I answer u why he is attached to CA so much , first he 2 want his own family which he never had , anuj ye baat bahut acchi tarah se janta ki anupama ke 3 idiots won't consider him his own or anupama ke pyare or duniya ke best pita mister shah aise hone nhi denge , anuj know it insane to expect child from anupama at this age but when he saw CA he saw himself in her both were orphans & alone abondent by their parents by whatever reasons that's what attracted to him to CA & she had similarities with anupama. , Same reason maybe anupama too some where 2 agree to adopt CA as she know she can't give his own child to CA

The time CA started living with them , anupama got 2 busy with shah family drama & samaj seva that time anuj only had CA with him he started getting to attached to CA , thou I do believe adoption was 2 early for them they should had waited for sometime, whenever CA use to any small expectations from anupama she fails 2 fulfill, anuj noticed CA not behaving like other kids of her age , he did said to anupama about CA losing her childhood . With time anuj got too attached to CA she how he protected CA when maaya came to take her , his breakdown of loosing CA , he never wanted maaya in KM but anupama kissi ki sunti hai kya .

CA is d only person who genuinely loves anuj so why don't anuj love her back both maaya & anupama had failed as mothers.

Anuj said CA req him to stay with them , she was in a bad condition when anuj reach home , maybe she again had panic attack but maaya had manipulated CA too early of her being alone so CA might don't want to leave maaya alone .

If u see CA had bandage on her hand when she meet anupama maybe Maaya had harmed CA .

Anuj is not only physically but emotionally also he is not involve with maaya

Log kehte anupama ka baggage hai, anuj 2 have issues about abondment which need to acknowledge, sadly iss marriage ne anuj akelepan ki Siva kuch nhi diya kyunki anupama ke pass to time hi nhi hai

Yes anuj is wrong in handling this situation but he can never really abonden CA in any problem and will do anything for her as he really consider CA as his daughter not like anupama who faked her love for CA. Anuj should had not allowed maaya to sit on his wife place thou vanraj can always take his place after all his accha pita .

Acc to Hindu shastra only husband wife can sit in Pooja together no other person can take that place , if someone spouse die that person alone perform the rituals but yaha anupama acche pita ka haq kaise chine de sakte hain

People don't know only why lord Ram made goddess Sita idol , as he was being pressurised to marry again as he can't sit in yagya without wife so he made the idol as he only loved sitaji can never marry anyone else

Sometimes I wonder anuj ko ek bacche ka sukh nhi yaha vanraj ke 3 ke baad 4 under process hai, anuj ko ek biwi ka sukh nhi , vanraj ko ex or current dono wives ka sukh hai or ek wife is ever ready to fight for his haq , kya kismat hai

I so want anuj to comeout of this problem on his own as he is person who had fight with his devil's alone & capable enough , clean the mess but ye to hone se Raha phir anupama kya karegi .

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Originally posted by: Jefen

Lol! So, as long as you don't have seggs with her, you are not a cheater.

Like seriously? I mean why would Anuj not tell Anupama about the situation? You stay with a woman and take care of her a whole month while your wife cries and mourns every single moment and you still think you haven't cheated just coz you didn't have seggs with her?

So for Anuj, Maaya and CA's pain was more important than his own wife? He only expected her to be ghussa? Wow... What if Anupama had committed suicide in this one month? She has been a divorcee prior to marrying him. Just imagine the pain, agony and especially humiliation, a woman would face in this kinda situation?

I don't understand why Maaya and CA are more important to Anuj? Why is CA more important has been my question from the beginning? Yes, coz of children, parents fight, they argue and all that. But here CA wasn't even death. Anyway, that topic is a history now.

Let's focus on Maaya now. Understood that CA needs her biological mother, but her biological mother needs treatment more than Anuj. Also, Anupama needs Anuj too. Is Anuj thinking about that? Is Anuj okay with Anupama crying and burning in her agony but not okay with Maaya suffering?

Anupama is shit in many areas. I dislike her many times but she doesn't deserve this.

To hell with this serial!!!!!

But hasnt Anupama done the same to Anuj for MANY MANY MANY times? She has abandoned her husband and kids, spent 90% time with her ex, makes tea and snacks for him, emotionally cheated with him? Just because Anupama didnt have seggs with Vanraj she still thinks she hasnt cheated? Why cant Anuj expect the same understanding ONCE?

Why arent you imagining the pain, agony, humiliation a spouse faces when their spouse spends 90% time at exes house and neglects her spouse and kid in a new marriage?

Both are kinda doing same to each other, except that Anupama has done it continuously since the beginning of their marriage while Anuj is doing it for first ime

Originally posted by: name2saakshi

After yesterday episode i m really think saari Anuj ki baatein vaade n kasame r fake n lies.

Ab na koi poetry n na koi bhi baat ki koi value nahi hai Anuj ki.

Any love will die if your spouse abandons you and spends 90% time with her ex. No kasme, vaade will last if your wife is emotionally cheating with someone else

This is actually a very realistic depiction, if you dont spend your time with new spouse and his family in a new marriage and neglect them, you are 100% going to lose them. it doesnt matter if its 26 years love or 260 years love, you need to nurture a new marriage and not take it for granted

Anupama has spent more time with Vanraj than Anuj, spoken more to him, spent more time in Shah house, abandoned husband when paralyzed, abandoned CA. She respects and values Vanraj more while taking Anuj for granted, Actions have consequences

Originally posted by: Harish111

But hasnt Anupama done the same to Anuj for MANY MANY MANY times? She has abandoned her husband and kids, spent 90% time with her ex, makes tea and snacks for him, emotionally cheated with him? Just because Anupama didnt have seggs with Vanraj she still thinks she hasnt cheated? Why cant Anuj expect the same understanding ONCE?

Why arent you imagining the pain, agony, humiliation a spouse faces when their spouse spends 90% time at exes house and neglects her spouse and kid in a new marriage?

Both are kinda doing same to each other, except that Anupama has done it continuously since the beginning of their marriage while Anuj is doing it for first ime

Anu has not blamed him rather he understood his situation and shown respect and empathy towards Anuj.

Why are we fighting about it. We all know that willingly or unwillingly Anu had gone to Shah house rather pagalkhaana.

But both of them have shown equal understanding this way.Anuj being there for no matter what except CA issue.And lets wait for few more episodes as I feel there is too much to be unfolded as the episodes seems to missing something, I feel the episodes are so incomplete.

Originally posted by: rainbowsalt

Anu has not blamed him rather he understood his situation and shown respect and empathy towards Anuj.

Why are we fighting about it. We all know that willingly or unwillingly Anu had gone to Shah house rather pagalkhaana.

But both of them have shown equal understanding this way.Anuj being there for no matter what except CA issue.And lets wait for few more episodes as I feel there is too much to be unfolded as the episodes seems to missing something, I feel the episodes are so incomplete.

Agree, I am just replying to those who are blaming Anuj, Anupama herself said she would do the same in Anuj's situation. Both of them are self sacrificing mahaan atmas who are a bit too understanding, which is why both of them never get any happiness in life

Thats the true lesson of this show, lol

Self sacrificing you can be but this is betrayal of the highest order. Anuj left his wife in anger not knowing the whole truth, was willing to put up with Maya for the sake of little Anu, now willing to stay with them permanently and forget his wife who he is still married to because of some vague pangs of conscience towards Maya? What about his responsibilities as a husband? And the promises he made to Anupama? He is a betrayer just as bad as Vanraj. His attestations of love ring false. He needs to divorce Anupama and live with Maya and choti Anu and quit this drama of harboring an undying love for Anupama. Man is disgusting and weak.

Anupama taking care of Vanraj was different, she had been his wife for 25 years, there is and was a bond between them, he is the father of her children so yes, she felt obligated to take care of him. Maya is nothing to Anuj, he doesn’t know her from Adam except that she has illicit feelings for him, she is not the mother of his children, he has not spent 25 years with her as her devoted husband, therefore he has no business letting Maya sit as his wife during the puja, no business sidelining his wife and giving that respect and place to some woman he hardly knows.
Anupama is an idiot, she needs to divorce this spineless guy and move on, that move on, that udaan that we have been waiting for since the serial began.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Self sacrificing you can be but this is betrayal of the highest order. Anuj left his wife in anger not knowing the whole truth, was willing to put up with Maya for the sake of little Anu, now willing to stay with them permanently and forget his wife who he is still married to because of some vague pangs of conscience towards Maya? What about his responsibilities as a husband? And the promises he made to Anupama? He is a betrayer just as bad as Vanraj. His attestations of love ring false. He needs to divorce Anupama and live with Maya and choti Anu and quit this drama of harboring an undying love for Anupama. Man is disgusting and weak.

Anupama taking care of Vanraj was different, she had been his wife for 25 years, there is and was a bond between them, he is the father of her children so yes, she felt obligated to take care of him. Maya is nothing to Anuj, he doesn’t know her from Adam except that she has illicit feelings for him, she is not the mother of his children, he has not spent 25 years with her as her devoted husband, therefore he has no business letting Maya sit as his wife during the puja, no business sidelining his wife and giving that respect and place to some woman he hardly knows.
Anupama is an idiot, she needs to divorce this spineless guy and move on, that move on, that udaan that we have been waiting for since the serial began.

Spending 25 years with someone means you can emotionally cheat on your new husband? Next what, you can have sex with your ex because you spent 25 years with him and have previous bonds? Obligated to take care of her ex? Then why did she divorce him, be with your abuser and take care of him forever, dont torture someone else by marrying them if you have such bonds with your ex and cannot move on

A strong man would immediately divorce such a wife, prove neglect in court, not give her a penny and throw her out and be with someone else, so you are right as Anuj is still not doing that and still gave his property to her, he is a weak person

I will repeat, no love lasts if your wife is "taking care" of her ex, such relationship will only lead to divorce or husband having an affair. Anupama deserves losing her love, she should be happy with her abuser and "taking care" of her bacchon ke pita. Let alone Anuj, even majnu or ranjha would abandon her with her behavior