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Originally posted by: naaznin

Ur logic is illogical and misogynist. U r justifying a man's cheating citing it as woman's faults..🤣Ur comments r like what vanraj said while cheating anupama. A man if has issues with wife would divorce her not cheat her.

Did anupama brought vanraj to her house when anuj for seperated from her, did she lived alone in a flat with vanraj. No...

Also for ur kind information the neglect on which court gives Divorce is what anuj is doing. Leaving his wife abruptly without telling when he will be back, living with another woman, not calling or messaging his wife is what neglect is in legal terms.

Anupama was living in KM together with anuj n anuj anupama had sexual life it's not called neglect in legal terms. Remarried spouses meeting children from previous marriage doesn't classify as neglect.

Exactlly. When She went to SH, it was for few hours during the day because of some issues regarding her kids and she was always back at home to Anuj. She always informed Anuj and at times took his permission as well. He was well aware of everything she was doing. She never lied to him with regards to Shahs or going to SH. They had a healthily sexually active life as well. Recently couple days before he leaves her (white outfit love-making).. It wasn’t exactly neglect. Just taking care of your responsibilities..

Whereas what Anuj is doing right now is definitely abandonment, neglect, dishonesty & adultery (to outside eyes), a big ground for divorce. It’s Anuj who broke all promises and marital vows.

The target audience (the TRP folks who matter not crazed online twitter shitters) is conservative, regressive women who love to watch mostly younger female leads being tortured, shedding tears and constantly harping on and on about self sacrificial nonsense. Rajan. Ketki & co. know this very well and they have made the show to cater exactly to them. Which is why they tell everyone who questions them to stop watching if they have a problem. Because they know that people who think rationally and have a logical perspective are a minute percentage (opposite of the forum) and most of the Star Plus audience appreciates this line of thinking.

For all the talk of it being closer to reality, there never was or will be a woman as spineless as Anupamaa who is content to slave for her abusers even after being insulted and shamed repeatedly. There probably exists a significant proportion of viewers/followers who never supported the idea of the hasty second marriage and feel that Anupamaa should eventually forgive Vanraj and reconcile. Because marriage is meant to last forever for them, as terrible as it may sound. They'd rather see her end up with Vanraj her true husband, however much he errs than absolutely anyone else. And certainly the actions of Anupamaa imply the same with Vanraj/Shahs also being given infinite redemptions and moments with her. It's a deliberate portrayal by the makers. So it's best to cut to the chase and let her be happy with a man who cheated on her but who she loves instead of being stuck with a man who keeps running away to stay with another and yet proclaims to be in love with Anupamaa.

Anuj Kapadia is extremely delusional and the personification of a fantasy gone wrong. He needs to take a hike instead of bothering Anupamaa and never come back. Maybe he and Maaya can jump off the cliff together so that Anupamaa can resume her servile life as the doormat of Shahs and stay happily ever after with recurring characters like Guruma entering now and then

Originally posted by: YoungHeart

Exactlly. When She went to SH, it was for few hours during the day because of some issues regarding her kids and she was always back at home to Anuj. She always informed Anuj and at times took his permission as well. He was well aware of everything she was doing. She never lied to him with regards to Shahs or going to SH. They had a healthily sexually active life as well. Recently couple days before he leaves her (white outfit love-making).. It wasn’t exactly neglect. Just taking care of your responsibilities..

Whereas what Anuj is doing right now is definitely abandonment, neglect, dishonesty & adultery (to outside eyes), a big ground for divorce. It’s Anuj who broke all promises and marital vows.

Yes n anupama went mostly on festivals that too with anuj.

And anuj himself used to call vanraj's parents as his n even invites whole shah family including vanraj to KM for festivals. What logic is this. Who makes friendship with ur current wife's ex.

Ppl here just hate anupama n love anuj so they give any random reason to justify anuj's acts.

Originally posted by: naaznin

Yes n anupama went mostly on festivals that too with anuj.

And anuj himself used to call vanraj's parents as his n even invites whole shah family including vanraj to KM for festivals. What logic is this. Who makes friendship with ur current wife's ex.

Ppl here just hate anupama n love anuj so they give any random reason to justify anuj's acts.

Letting your ex mil abuse your adopted kid is okay?

Neglecting your child's first dance competition to prepare khichdi for ex mil is okay?

Leaving your wheelchair bound husband to dance with your ex is okay?

Deserting your child who is sleeping alone in the car with the driver in the middle of the road is okay?

Letting your child go with any unknown lady without any proper verification is okay?

Keeping mum when your ex barges into your house and manhandles your husband is okay?

Bringing any random lady into your house without your husband's permission and putting a silly 15 day bet on your child is okay?

Playing holi with your ex and his family when u know your husband is in depression and needs u is okay?

Concealing the real reason behind your daughter's departure from your husband is okay?

The list is endless....BTW it's really disgusting that some people think only s*x is the basis of healthy relationship. Husband is not a male prosti**** whose only job is to satisfy his wife's lust. Trust and emotional security has an upper hand which Anupama clearly failed to provide....

Originally posted by: naaznin

Anuj's outburst is justified n anupama deserves it but him living with maya is not. Because now he became more wrong than anupama.

He is behaving like a puppet of maya like anupama was of Shah's.

His character is ruined for forever.

Originally posted by: Ashita5500

Random reasons? Really?

Letting your ex mil abuse your adopted kid is okay?

Neglecting your child's first dance competition to prepare khichdi for ex mil is okay?

Leaving your wheelchair bound husband to dance with your ex is okay?

Deserting your child who is sleeping alone in the car with the driver in the middle of the road is okay?

Letting your child go with any unknown lady without any proper verification is okay?

Keeping mum when your ex barges into your house and manhandles your husband is okay?

Bringing any random lady into your house without your husband's permission and putting a silly 15 day bet on your child is okay?

Playing holi with your ex and his family when u know your husband is in depression and needs u is okay?

Concealing the real reason behind your daughter's departure from your husband is okay?

The list is endless....BTW it's really disgusting that some people think only s*x is the basis of healthy relationship. Husband is not a male prosti**** whose only job is to satisfy his wife's lust. Trust and emotional security has an upper hand which Anupama clearly failed to provide....

Oh please i told on legal terms so stop ur philosophy here. Court doesn't give divorce when husband wife has sexual relationship. Do proper research before saying nonsense. I never said sex is basis of healthy relations.

Wife is also not to satisfy husband's lust that she will be available 24*7 to him. She can have her own responsibilities.

And if anupama didn't stopped baa or left anu what was anuj doing. Is protecting child only mother's responsibility not father's. In All the reasons u listed above anuj was present at the scene..So what was he doing.. just standing there like a fool..

Anupama was dancing on becoming grand mother but Anuj went alone for a walk with maya n got kissed n didn't told anupama.. getting kissed is a bigger issue.

If u want to compare u should compare properly.

I am shocked to know all that happened .

Originally posted by: naaznin

Oh please i told on legal terms so stop ur philosophy here. Court doesn't give divorce when husband wife has sexual relationship. Do proper research before saying nonsense. I never said sex is basis of healthy relations.

Wife is also not to satisfy husband's lust that she will be available 24*7 to him.

And if anupama didn't stopped baa or left anu what was anuj doing. Is protecting child only mother's responsibility not father's. In All the reasons u listed above anuj was present at the scene..So what was he doing.. just standing there like a fool..

Originally posted by: kooki07

I am shocked to know all that happened .

OMG! Did he consented ? Wasn't he taken aback by her action? Did'nt he warned her?We all know pretty well why he was hesitating. My goodness!