Anuj needs help

I am shocked that no one is able to see that anuj is not the same anuj anymore and it's not because he left anupamaa but the way he speaks and the things he says feels like he has given up all hopes in life and is severely depressed

Now i know depression as i faced it when i lost ny mom during my childhood .... That phase feels like you want someone to pull you out of that dark hole and you need someone to understand you and not say things like ye sab badi baat nahi hai and you are blowing it out of proportion and ye sab life mai hota rehta hai... Sadly anuj is just not cared for but everyone just cares about the fact that he left anupamaa

Another thing is anuj is still not giving correct reasons for leaving anupamaa like her misplaced priorities but instead is being made to say things like anupama galat nahi hai but mere hi expectations zyada the and all by makers ( seems like makers are scared to make anuj speak sensible reasons for leaving anu as that would lead to most people to support anuj and not anupamaa)

Nothing makes sense in this show anymore

They have made mental health into a joke..

Originally posted by: Radhiii

I am shocked that no one is able to see that anuj is not the same anuj anymore and it's not because he left anupamaa but the way he speaks and the things he says feels like he has given up all hopes in life and is severely depressed

Now i know depression as i faced it when i lost ny mom during my childhood .... That phase feels like you want someone to pull you out of that dark hole and you need someone to understand you and not say things like ye sab badi baat nahi hai and you are blowing it out of proportion and ye sab life mai hota rehta hai... Sadly anuj is just not cared for but everyone just cares about the fact that he left anupamaa

Another thing is anuj is still not giving correct reasons for leaving anupamaa like her misplaced priorities but instead is being made to say things like anupama galat nahi hai but mere hi expectations zyada the and all by makers ( seems like makers are scared to make anuj speak sensible reasons for leaving anu as that would lead to most people to support anuj and not anupamaa)

Nothing makes sense in this show anymore

Yes you are absolutely right..he is in the phase and no one is ready to help Anuj and understands him☹️

Originally posted by: Radhiii

Nothing makes sense in this show anymore

Glorification of the lead at the expense of all other characters is a trend this show has been consistently following for a long time now. They don't treat any of their characters (including the lead herself) with respect, dignity or grace. I have not been watching for awhile, but right now, I think it has turned into a very one-sided narrative in favour of Anupama?

I really wouldn't recommend getting invested in this show (if you are) - it seems to be something made only in pursuit of TRPs. Ahh...just take care.

Aap anuj ko keh rahe ho , mujhe to lagta hai anupama ko mental attention ki need thi divorce ke baad or specially anuj se shaadi se pehle so vo aise na hoti lekin FL kaise mental issue ho sakta ye to ghor paap hai.

Mental attention sirf paagal pan se related nhi hota lekin see serial Wale ye kabhi nhi dekhayenge varna jagat mata kon banega.

Shah family ka treatment specially babuji , baa or vanraj ka treatment possible hi nhi hai as unka treatment karne wala doctor khud paagal ho jayega

Originally posted by: Radhiii

I am shocked that no one is able to see that anuj is not the same anuj anymore and it's not because he left anupamaa but the way he speaks and the things he says feels like he has given up all hopes in life and is severely depressed

Now i know depression as i faced it when i lost ny mom during my childhood .... That phase feels like you want someone to pull you out of that dark hole and you need someone to understand you and not say things like ye sab badi baat nahi hai and you are blowing it out of proportion and ye sab life mai hota rehta hai... Sadly anuj is just not cared for but everyone just cares about the fact that he left anupamaa

Another thing is anuj is still not giving correct reasons for leaving anupamaa like her misplaced priorities but instead is being made to say things like anupama galat nahi hai but mere hi expectations zyada the and all by makers ( seems like makers are scared to make anuj speak sensible reasons for leaving anu as that would lead to most people to support anuj and not anupamaa)

Nothing makes sense in this show anymore

We can all see that he needs help.

He needs medication and counselling to make him understand that CA is NOT his daughter and that her biological mother has more of a right. That marriage is not a game he can stop playing and he needs to give his marriage another chance, this time with professional help.

They have made a mockery of mental health, second marriages, love itself.

Its just sad.

Originally posted by: Fighter03

We can all see that he needs help.

He needs medication and counselling to make him understand that CA is NOT his daughter and that her biological mother has more of a right. That marriage is not a game he can stop playing and he needs to give his marriage another chance, this time with professional help.

They have made a mockery of mental health, second marriages, love itself.

Its just sad.

People need time to grieve, people dont think logically when they lose someone they love, on one hand you talk about things like love and on another you say things like not his daughter and not biological? How is love logical, someone else having rights doesnt kill your love or magically cure your grief on losing someone you love. People need time to grieve and need their spouse to support them when they grive, not for them to go to their ex and play holi

As for marriage, when one side neglects husband and his family even indian courts grant divorce. Neglect is one of the biggest reason to grant divorces in India and there is no doubt Anupama has neglected her husband and kid. Anuj realizing the neglect for months doesnt make it a game and he has no need to give someone like that a second chance. Just because you love someone doesnt mean you lose self respect, he is not Anupama

Exactly! Instead of getting him some medical help they're forcefully blaming him. Like let him breathe calmly, meet a counselor and get his life on the right boat. But no all these dumb and mad people are just behind satisfying their own needs and wants. It would've been a treat if Mukku came back and roasted every freaking one. Take her bhai with her back to US and help him come out of his depression

He needs help, I can see it, we all can see it but his family, his so called wife. The writers have destroyed another topic to my un 😡liking. They made a mockery of this.🤬.

Ofcourse he needs help.

He lost his rationality long back.

1. Even after snatching the empire and playing with an emotionally vulnerable sister, Anupama said about Vanraj that "Woh galat ho sakte hain, ghatiya nahin" when Anuj supported Anupama.

2. He gave ALL his assets, empire, house to Anupama on the day of marriage, named her authority without checking capabilities.

3. Signed lakhs of loans in the name of Shahs without collateral or proper verification but asked his own Bhabhi to check with Anupama and stayed silent when she inturn asked Barkha to prepare and present a pitch for her business only to shut it down citing middle class values.

4. Did not approach lawyers fully trusting Anupama's Mamata meter.

5. Knowing well, Anupama has no emotional involvement with Choti Anu, let her have a 15-day Mamata challenge.

Finally expecting Anupama to understand even after raising concerns about Shahs, Anupama's negligence (atleast 5 times from my irregular viewing).

Ofcourse he is a robot to not feel, grow affection or be loved. It's ALL transactional.

Toh kya hua agar ek 7-saal ki bachchi ko poore dil se usne apni beti maana. Bachchi hi toh hain, apni biological Maa ke saath gayi hain. Toh kya hua agar uske jaane ki wajah hain ki use lagta hain ki Anuj-Anupama ki life ke saare problems uske wajah se hain.

AfterALL achche pita toh sirf Vanraj hi hain ya phir woh jo biological ho. Paalnewale ka kya hain.