Anuj needs help - Page 2

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Ofcourse he needs help.

He lost his rationality long back.

1. Even after snatching the empire and playing with an emotionally vulnerable sister, Anupama said about Vanraj that "Woh galat ho sakte hain, ghatiya nahin" when Anuj supported Anupama.

2. He gave ALL his assets, empire, house to Anupama on the day of marriage, named her authority without checking capabilities.

3. Signed lakhs of loans in the name of Shahs without collateral or proper verification but asked his own Bhabhi to check with Anupama and stayed silent when she inturn asked Barkha to prepare and present a pitch for her business only to shut it down citing middle class values.

4. Did not approach lawyers fully trusting Anupama's Mamata meter.

5. Knowing well, Anupama has no emotional involvement with Choti Anu, let her have a 15-day Mamata challenge.

Finally expecting Anupama to understand even after raising concerns about Shahs, Anupama's negligence (atleast 5 times from my irregular viewing).

Ofcourse he is a robot to not feel, grow affection or be loved. It's ALL transactional.

Toh kya hua agar ek 7-saal ki bachchi ko poore dil se usne apni beti maana. Bachchi hi toh hain, apni biological Maa ke saath gayi hain. Toh kya hua agar uske jaane ki wajah hain ki use lagta hain ki Anuj-Anupama ki life ke saare problems uske wajah se hain.

AfterALL achche pita toh sirf Vanraj hi hain ya phir woh jo biological ho. Paalnewale ka kya hain.

Her infamous dialogue "Mr shah galat ho sakte hai par gatiya nahi" is as cringe and nasty as her snotty pallu 🤢

Originally posted by: Harish111

People need time to grieve, people dont think logically when they lose someone they love, on one hand you talk about things like love and on another you say things like not his daughter and not biological? How is love logical, someone else having rights doesnt kill your love or magically cure your grief on losing someone you love. People need time to grieve and need their spouse to support them when they grive, not for them to go to their ex and play holi

As for marriage, when one side neglects husband and his family even indian courts grant divorce. Neglect is one of the biggest reason to grant divorces in India and there is no doubt Anupama has neglected her husband and kid. Anuj realizing the neglect for months doesnt make it a game and he has no need to give someone like that a second chance. Just because you love someone doesnt mean you lose self respect, he is not Anupama

The kind of grief you’re talking about is in death. But even then people behave with grace and dignity.
Anuj went bonkers.That kid is alive and hale and hearty, even happy. She went with her own wishes. He can go and meet her. Its not like she’s dead. The concept of ‘fostering’ a child is lost on him.

Destroying your marriage for a child who belongs to someone else is not grief, it is mental illness.
The neglect part is true, but its not reason enough for divorce. Its reason enough to have a conversation, an intervention, and go for counselling. Anupamaa needs professional help to sort her priorities, she’s not right in the head.

But as I said, marriage is not a game. You can’t give up so easily, especially here since he’s been in love with her for so long. Would you leave your sister or mother if they neglected you? No. But you would leave your wife.

Thats why you shouldn’t marry a divorced woman with three kids- thats the message going here.

The writers have made a mockery of everything. Its poor story-telling, nothing else.

Originally posted by: Fighter03

The kind of grief you’re talking about is in death. But even then people behave with grace and dignity.
Anuj went bonkers.That kid is alive and hale and hearty, even happy. She went with her own wishes. He can go and meet her. Its not like she’s dead. The concept of ‘fostering’ a child is lost on him.

Destroying your marriage for a child who belongs to someone else is not grief, it is mental illness.
The neglect part is true, but its not reason enough for divorce. Its reason enough to have a conversation, an intervention, and go for counselling. Anupamaa needs professional help to sort her priorities, she’s not right in the head.

But as I said, marriage is not a game. You can’t give up so easily, especially here since he’s been in love with her for so long. Would you leave your sister or mother if they neglected you? No. But you would leave your wife.

Thats why you shouldn’t marry a divorced woman with three kids- thats the message going here.

The writers have made a mockery of everything. Its poor story-telling, nothing else.

Makes lot of sense what you said and it's true writers have made a mockery of everything and it's poor story telling indeed

A person who feels guilty of loosing all his relation faced another trauma he is not in his senses definitely needs medical help a small child can understand that Anuj is not looking fine, he looks ill why his so called relative cannot understand this a person is in depression like Pakhi was Anu was with Pakhi helped her to heal but when Anuj needed her she gave up and now is ready for new udaan she cannot leave Baa even after so much humiliation, cannot leave VS who is lurking behind her like a creepy crawly but can let Anuj go without any efforts, even after looking at his mental state nobody talked about counselling they are blaming him, fighting with him, slapping him a person if is in this condition who thinks he is the reason for his loved one's misery needs immediate attention he can do anything even suicide but Anu is ready for her 100th udaan without introspecting

The kind of grief you’re talking about is in death. But even then people behave with grace and dignity.
Anuj went bonkers.That kid is alive and hale and hearty, even happy. She went with her own wishes. He can go and meet her. Its not like she’s dead. The concept of ‘fostering’ a child is lost on him.

Destroying your marriage for a child who belongs to someone else is not grief, it is mental illness.
The neglect part is true, but its not reason enough for divorce. Its reason enough to have a conversation, an intervention, and go for counselling. Anupamaa needs professional help to sort her priorities, she’s not right in the head.

But as I said, marriage is not a game. You can’t give up so easily, especially here since he’s been in love with her for so long. Would you leave your sister or mother if they neglected you? No. But you would leave your wife.

Thats why you shouldn’t marry a divorced woman with three kids- thats the message going here.

The writers have made a mockery of everything. Its poor story-telling, nothing else.

Originally posted by: Fighter03

The kind of grief you’re talking about is in death. But even then people behave with grace and dignity.
Anuj went bonkers.That kid is alive and hale and hearty, even happy. She went with her own wishes. He can go and meet her. Its not like she’s dead. The concept of ‘fostering’ a child is lost on him.

Destroying your marriage for a child who belongs to someone else is not grief, it is mental illness.
The neglect part is true, but its not reason enough for divorce. Its reason enough to have a conversation, an intervention, and go for counselling. Anupamaa needs professional help to sort her priorities, she’s not right in the head.

But as I said, marriage is not a game. You can’t give up so easily, especially here since he’s been in love with her for so long. Would you leave your sister or mother if they neglected you? No. But you would leave your wife.

Thats why you shouldn’t marry a divorced woman with three kids- thats the message going here.

The writers have made a mockery of everything. Its poor story-telling, nothing else.

Any normal spouse would have given up long ago, he still give it all he had until he just couldn't. Anuj himself is human. he was exhausted. I too would have given up long ago and already divorced my husband if he put me in this type of situation. My husband would have too. No spouse will put up this type of neglect everyday.

The most sensible coment im reading after so many days.

Anupamaa has gone wrong in many things as she has misplaced priorities from the very start of their relationship…but marriage is something sacred and serious u dont brake it so easily.

You try n solve problems, speak about it, have a one to one conversation n go counselling if necesary, anuj just ran away from the problem he didnt even told her on her face to end “anuj chapter” that’s childish!! He may feel the pain n take his time to heal but damn! Face it!! Speak to her like 2 mature indivuals! He didnt…sad!

The only thing I have learnt from this show is that never take someone who loves you for granted.

Anupama is a terrible human.

She broke a person who loved her, caused an awful emptiness in him and is now piting herself for the love she lost from that very same person.

She hasn't once called the person she called her daughter who sacrificed herself to a manipulator for Anupama's sake as well.

Originally posted by: Snowfally

The only thing I have learnt from this show is that never take someone who loves you for granted.

Anupama is a terrible human.

She broke a person who loved her, caused an awful emptiness in him and is now piting herself for the love she lost from that very same person.

She hasn't once called the person she called her daughter who sacrificed herself to a manipulator for Anupama's sake as well.

You are right. I got to know about her selfish side when she told anuj after choti anu's dance function that atleast she performed even if she didn't reach on time for winning the trophy 🤪

Oh and how can i forget her leaving choti anu and kinjal in middle of the road with driver to take care of her 6 months old (not) sweetudi because she had a feeling something was troubling her 😳

Originally posted by: SoulSpiller

Glorification of the lead at the expense of all other characters is a trend this show has been consistently following for a long time now. They don't treat any of their characters (including the lead herself) with respect, dignity or grace. I have not been watching for awhile, but right now, I think it has turned into a very one-sided narrative in favour of Anupama?

I really wouldn't recommend getting invested in this show (if you are) - it seems to be something made only in pursuit of TRPs. Ahh...just take care.

I am not invested thank god for that but when i do watch the show i just see 2 things one anupamaa ka God syndrome and ex husband and ex in laws se high obsession even at the expense of her current husband... Indeed it's all for trp and i just feel how low can they go to make anupamaa best in audience eyes ( leaving aside few of us who can see that she is messed up)

Originally posted by: Yaja

A person who feels guilty of loosing all his relation faced another trauma he is not in his senses definitely needs medical help a small child can understand that Anuj is not looking fine, he looks ill why his so called relative cannot understand this a person is in depression like Pakhi was Anu was with Pakhi helped her to heal but when Anuj needed her she gave up and now is ready for new udaan she cannot leave Baa even after so much humiliation, cannot leave VS who is lurking behind her like a creepy crawly but can let Anuj go without any efforts, even after looking at his mental state nobody talked about counselling they are blaming him, fighting with him, slapping him a person if is in this condition who thinks he is the reason for his loved one's misery needs immediate attention he can do anything even suicide but Anu is ready for her 100th udaan without introspecting

The kind of grief you’re talking about is in death. But even then people behave with grace and dignity.
Anuj went bonkers.That kid is alive and hale and hearty, even happy. She went with her own wishes. He can go and meet her. Its not like she’s dead. The concept of ‘fostering’ a child is lost on him.

Destroying your marriage for a child who belongs to someone else is not grief, it is mental illness.
The neglect part is true, but its not reason enough for divorce. Its reason enough to have a conversation, an intervention, and go for counselling. Anupamaa needs professional help to sort her priorities, she’s not right in the head.

But as I said, marriage is not a game. You can’t give up so easily, especially here since he’s been in love with her for so long. Would you leave your sister or mother if they neglected you? No. But you would leave your wife.

Thats why you shouldn’t marry a divorced woman with three kids- thats the message going here.

The writers have made a mockery of everything. Its poor story-telling, nothing else.

He straight up told her she suffocates him, shouted at her in public, made a mockery of her, didnt look at her for days and then ran out on her while she wept and begged for him to stay.

How is she giving up here? He’s the one who has given up!