Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 08 Mar 2023 - Page 6

Originally posted by: Koms9

Atleast Anuj could remove the kurta in the scene for us to assume they did it! Here they were neatly dressed, how do I believe?😒

Originally posted by: surabhi01

My question is not about what anupama should make priority first

My question is why CVS always create tough situation for anupama that she never get chance to happy .

Bus ab saari zindagi anupama teen bache aur anuj aur choti ke bache ke beech priority set karne mein lagi rahegi kyon problem to Kab hi nahi khatm hogi kabhi na kabhi kisi na kisi ko problem lagi rahegi

Phir anupama ko life enjoy karne ka mauka kub milega

Matlab ki ab zindagi bhar anupama ko logon ke problem ke liye bus Har time apne aap sacrifice karte rehna Hoga

Means CVS want to say ab anupama had no right to live happily think about herself enjoy herself

If this was really a path breaking women empowerment show they would not do that. But reality is that they claim this to be all about women empowerment when it is just the opposite. They don’t know that woman sacrificing her life for others is not women empowerment.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

My question is not about what anupama should make priority first

My question is why CVS always create tough situation for anupama that she never get chance to happy .

Bus ab saari zindagi anupama teen bache aur anuj aur choti ke bache ke beech priority set karne mein lagi rahegi kyon problem to Kab hi nahi khatm hogi kabhi na kabhi kisi na kisi ko problem lagi rahegi

Phir anupama ko life enjoy karne ka mauka kub milega

Matlab ki ab zindagi bhar anupama ko logon ke problem ke liye bus Har time apne aap sacrifice karte rehna Hoga

Means CVS want to say ab anupama had no right to live happily think about herself enjoy herself

I have had a satisfying professional journey but still I am my happiest when I am with my kids. They and only they make me happy.

A woman can reach career heights even when she has a full family. Problem is not CA or Anuj or even having 4 kids. Problem is that Anuj and CA are independent and they need Anu to only love and create memories but her selfish shah family needs her as a slave that they can kick and curse after using her.

Woman working outside needs a supportive and respectful family at home. A family who fills in for her when she isnt available which Kapadias are doing.

Problem here is the way Anupama addresses her problems. Everyone has challenges in life but how one tackles them makes them sail through or sink down.

One must know to prioritize. Delegate. Take support.

Anupama needs to learn to understand where she is needed and how much she is needed.

I spoonfed my kids until they were 3. After that once in a while if they asked for me or if I felt like pampering them I would feed them myself. But I wouldnt feed them now when they are older. It does not mean i dont love them. It means i want them to be able to do basic things. Be independent. Shah family calls her to help for kinjal or toshu or baa bapuji and then makes her do everything or sometimes anupama herself does everything. But she is okay to let CA be independent and manage without a mother. Why?

Anupama losing out on a happy and successful life is her own mistake. She got many chances but she chooses to prioritize baa and her disrespectful family for trivial things.

Actually she finds happiness and pride in that and believes that shah family cant function without her.

Its about time we stop looking in past for anuapam's failure. She has everything at her pedestal but she chooses to still be a slave.

Mother ki apna group bhi Hota hai uska padosi Hota hai uske kitty member hote hai unka apna shopping group Hota.

Mother log khaali bus busy bachon ke padhai unke school event mein busy nahi rehte

Mother logon ka apna circle bhi Hota hai jisme sub atleast once in month enjoy karti hain jub ki anupama ka aisa khuch nahi dikhaya .anupama ka apna koi circle nahi bus woh khaali bus bache parivar husband mein hi busy dikhayi jaata hsi

Now see tarak mehta un sub mein ladies sabka apna Parivar they all women look after their family very well but us mein ladies log ka ek circle bhi hai jisme ladies shopping ke liye jaati hai night club mein jaati bhale hi woh yeh kaam once in month kare but they do it

But anupama ko kabhi bhi once in month properly enjoy kar te nahi dikhaya jub Dekho to bachon ki problem beech mein daal dete hai just to create drama and hype

Bache parivar ka Matlab yeh nahi ki wife mother apna life nahi honi chahiye

Sabhi mother ko apne Parivar bachon ke saath Khushi milti hai but mother ko bhi kabhi time space chahiye hota, woh bhi apne liye

Why are we talking about kids here like they are some sort of curse? Kids are a blessing and they bring pure joy to a parent's heart which noone else can match. Not even the highest of career designation.

I have had a satisfying professional journey but still I am my happiest when I am with my kids. They and only they make me happy.

A woman can reach career heights even when she has a full family. Problem is not CA or Anuj or even having 4 kids. Problem is that Anuj and CA are independent and they need Anu to only love and create memories but her selfish shah family needs her as a slave that they can kick and curse after using her.

Woman working outside needs a supportive and respectful family at home. A family who fills in for her when she isnt available which Kapadias are doing.

Exactly! Both Anuj and Choti can take care of themselves and are not asking for to spoon feed, just paid attention.

Problem here is the way Anupama addresses her problems. Everyone has challenges in life but how one tackles them makes them sail through or sink down.

One must know to prioritize. Delegate. Take support.

Anupama needs to learn to understand where she is needed and how much she is needed.

This is the problem with her that she can't prioritize even after she has been told to do so because she isn't god and can't do everything at once. if you explain to her why, she gets upset over it. Like people will love her less if she did.🤦🏻‍♀️

I spoonfed my kids until they were 3. After that once in a while if they asked for me or if I felt like pampering them I would feed them myself. But I wouldnt feed them now when they are older. It does not mean i dont love them. It means i want them to be able to do basic things. Be independent. Shah family calls her to help for kinjal or toshu or baa bapuji and then makes her do everything or sometimes anupama herself does everything. But she is okay to let CA be independent and manage without a mother. Why?

I have to agree with you as a professional mother who works, I too spoon feed my four kids until they were old enough to hold their own bottle and spoon and feed themselves.

I didn't do because I loved them less. I didn't because you want your children to learn at early age and grow knowing how to be independent so as adult they can take care of themselves and not call you for every little thing.🤦🏻‍♀️ My mother raised me my siblings the same way. Of course she is ok to let Choti to do everything by herself because she isn't her blood.😡

Anupama losing out on a happy and successful life is her own mistake. She got many chances but she chooses to prioritize baa and her disrespectful family for trivial things.

That is what bothers me the most, you have been given a 2nd chance at life, go enjoy it, live, love it. Most woman will be.🤦🏻‍♀️

Actually she finds happiness and pride in that and believes that shah family cant function without her.

Its about time we stop looking in past for anuapama's failure. She has everything at her pedestal but she chooses to still be a slave.

Well said. At this point you can't blame her kids, her in-laws and her ex-husband because Anupama herself keeps going back to being used and misused over and over again.

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Originally posted by: surabhi01

My question is not about what anupama should make priority first

My question is why CVS always create tough situation for anupama that she never get chance to happy .

Bus ab saari zindagi anupama teen bache aur anuj aur choti ke bache ke beech priority set karne mein lagi rahegi kyon problem to Kab hi nahi khatm hogi kabhi na kabhi kisi na kisi ko problem lagi rahegi

Phir anupama ko life enjoy karne ka mauka kub milega

Matlab ki ab zindagi bhar anupama ko logon ke problem ke liye bus Har time apne aap sacrifice karte rehna Hoga

Means CVS want to say ab anupama had no right to live happily think about herself enjoy herself

That is her on fault for not having time for one. If she set her prioritizes straight, she could find time to go out with Devika once month, once a week. The only thing she does is run back and forth to her grown kids house to take care of their every little needs.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Mother ki apna group bhi Hota hai uska padosi Hota hai uske kitty member hote hai unka apna shopping group Hota.

Mother log khaali bus busy bachon ke padhai unke school event mein busy nahi rehte

Mother logon ka apna circle bhi Hota hai jisme sub atleast once in month enjoy karti hain jub ki anupama ka aisa khuch nahi dikhaya .anupama ka apna koi circle nahi bus woh khaali bus bache parivar husband mein hi busy dikhayi jaata hsi

Now see tarak mehta un sub mein ladies sabka apna Parivar they all women look after their family very well but us mein ladies log ka ek circle bhi hai jisme ladies shopping ke liye jaati hai night club mein jaati bhale hi woh yeh kaam once in month kare but they do it

But anupama ko kabhi bhi once in month properly enjoy kar te nahi dikhaya jub Dekho to bachon ki problem beech mein daal dete hai just to create drama and hype

Bache parivar ka Matlab yeh nahi ki wife mother apna life nahi honi chahiye

Why doesnt she go out with Devika? Why doesnt see find a friend at work? Why doesnt she make friends with some student's mom at dance academy?

But she chooses to run to shah house to "check" on her kids or to meet baa bapuji every time she goes to dance academy!

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Sabhi mother ko apne Parivar bachon ke saath Khushi milti hai but mother ko bhi kabhi time space chahiye hota, woh bhi apne liye

We have seen her working nonstop in shah house while at kapadia house its Anuj who is either comforting her after shah drama or pampering her with love. Even took her out on date. It is Anupama's fault that she prefers slaving for Baa and Mr. Shah instead of having some ME time at Kapadia house.

Originally posted by: Koms9

Then why isnt anupama doing that? Now she doesnt have an excuse of Mr. Shah or Baa not letting her go out of the house. IN fact she herself said that Anuj lets her decide where she wants to go. And that he doesn't stop her journey and always supports her.

Why doesnt she go out with Devika? Why doesnt see find a friend at work? Why doesnt she make friends with some student's mom at dance academy?

But she chooses to run to shah house to "check" on her kids or to meet baa bapuji every time she goes to dance academy!