Why is Anupamaa so selfish??

How can a mother not understand the pain of another mother?? Especially when after almost losing Toshu....how does she not realize what losing her child would do to Mayaa....I can understand that Anuj not understanding because he never had kids of his own and now he is really obsessed with CA....but this woman Anupama...the way she was gloating and giving looks to Maya after CA was wanting to sit with her and wanted to sleep with her....it felt to mean and evil....like you were just bawling over Toshu but you do not understand how Maya feels and giving her all those looks? WOW..😳....I was really thinking that after the Toshu wala episode ....Anupama will do the right thing and not separate Maya and CA but looks like she has no intention of doing it......both Anuj and Anupama are so selfish......and how are they expecting a 6 year old child to make the right decision?? she is just a kid.....I wish Maya would take them to court.

I am sick of this Kapadia couple ! Who can put sense to them ? I am losing hope !

I really hope Anupama does the right thing here. In no world, in no universe, a spineless father and a nearly-absent mother can be given custody to ‘adopt’ a kid while the birth mother is alive, and did not give up her child for adoption and doesn’t consent to it ! This is wrong on so many levels !

I cant bear why Anu-Anuj would bring a 6 yr old kid to their messed up world of ex’s which is not going anywhere and ruin the kid’s life with it. 1 rishte bhi samhaale nahi jaate inse, how’d they give a secure life to a kid ! Clueless !

They r just fostering CA to yeh attitude hai.Imagine if they had legally adopted CA to kaise behave karte ? With what right they r showing this much attitude to CA real mother ?

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

How can a mother not understand the pain of another mother?? Especially when after almost losing Toshu....how does she not realize what losing her child would do to Mayaa....I can understand that Anuj not understanding because he never had kids of his own and now he is really obsessed with CA....but this woman Anupama...the way she was gloating and giving looks to Maya after CA was wanting to sit with her and wanted to sleep with her....it felt to mean and evil....like you were just bawling over Toshu but you do not understand how Maya feels and giving her all those looks? WOW..😳....I was really thinking that after the Toshu wala episode ....Anupama will do the right thing and not separate Maya and CA but looks like she has no intention of doing it......both Anuj and Anupama are so selfish......and how are they expecting a 6 year old child to make the right decision?? she is just a kid.....I wish Maya would take them to court.

I will not understand why, Maya doesn’t take them to court. Neither are her bio-parent🤦🏻‍♀️. Maya is. She has a strong case. I would have already brought the police with documents, and taken my child back, even if Anuj was crying and his tears were over flooding the KM. 🤦🏻‍♀️

As for Anu, of course she will never let go of her stable income, her meal ticket. 😂

If Maya ask for custody of her kid back, that means after a while Anuj could or would run to Maya who has his foster child and she can’t have this now or else how will she feed her family. Toshu needs care, Pakhi needs expensive brands. Baa still needs her jewelry replaced. Bapuji needs cream rolls.

She will not allow her love, love of her life, babies daddy, Mr. Shah to work when she can bring home thousands of lak rupees weekly.

Poor Ca will be led to believe that she Anupama is the best foster mom over her bio mom all under the umbrella of keeping her own family taken care off. Her husband will never leave her side as long as CA is in picture.

Anupamaa is doing to Maaya what Kavya once did to Anupamaa when it came to Pakhi. If you ask I feel Anupamaa is the other woman who is trying take Maaya's place in CA's life. And barkha's nonsense that tum bhale hi CA ki Maa ho, lekin usse pyaar Anupamaa ne diya hain, what pyaar and how can that even be compared to what Maaya has done for CA? By that logic Kavya has given more love to Pakhi over Anupamaa that why she called Kavya her mother.

It's funny if Pakhi chooses Kavya over Anupamaa then Pakhi is an ingrate but if CA or Kinjal chooses Anupamaa over their actual mothers then it is their choice, or it is because they are more comfortable with Anupamaa over their own mothers. Sheer hypocrisy.

It's easy, just like MAA was stupid to keep going back to SH and was expendable once their problems were solved, Maaya has been stupid enough to think that she will be accepted by just doing Sewa.

Next we know, she will be triggered after being repeatedly ignored and will burst by doing extremes like involving the court or police, but little does she know that Amdavad's law and order folds like a cheap suit just by looking at MAA's tears.

Women look at MAA's mahanta and think it would be fancy to copy her and end up cleaning crap of an cheating and emotionally abusive gold-digging husband, or get hit upon by the grandson and taunted by the grandmother at the same time about their trauma, or get gaslighted into skipping a legal route and play a rigged game of impressing your own daughter where you are pitted against 5 people already prejudiced against you and wanting to make you lose.

Not everyone has an Anuj to keep paying off a phemily you are toxically attached to.

Usko hamesha sab sab sab chahiye. Importantly, she knows that her ATM is obsessed with CA to the extent where he is ready to separate the child from her own mother. Tamashahs have just one earning member and with Doshus injury, ATM's money becomes even more crucial.

Damn this show and its women. Even though i know this is fiction, I hate to see all these women suffering in this toxic world. Every single woman on this show has nothing in their lives to be proud of. Nothing to feel happy about. And to think that this story and screenplay is written by women. Sad.

If any of these ladies were around me, I would have given my everything to pull them out of this mud.

Originally posted by: Koms9

Damn this show and its women. Even though i know this is fiction, I hate to see all these women suffering in this toxic world. Every single woman on this show has nothing in their lives to be proud of. Nothing to feel happy about. And to think that this story and screenplay is written by women. Sad.

If any of these ladies were around me, I would have given my everything to pull them out of this mud.

Yeah, it's like the only way they know to move this story forward is to keep pushing all the women characters into this mud, and even worse, show it as their own choice. It's all kinds of messed up.

At the very least, they shouldn't call it women empowerment. Call it abuser empowerment or something.

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