The writers suck. - Page 2

Tbf to Barkha, Adhik has seen his sister struggling without the security. Sara was born into a rich family with the security of both parents regardless of what happens. He only has one person on his side, and she's only related by marriage to Anuj. Barkha grasps on to the tiniest bit of power, literally everything she has achieved, she did it herself. She got thrown out of her family along with a small child, she used her street smarts and got married to a rich guy, who accepted her brother too, and then whenever anyone caused an issue, she removed them from her life. Even now, she's trying her best to maintain her children. Both of Barkha's children respect her and know right from wrong. Adhik just happens to not go along with what is right and his blind loyalty to Barkha is not unfounded. When he had no one, his sister was there and that makes all the difference. Both of Barkha's children would gladly jump in front of a bullet for her and she would do the same. Two out of three of Anupama's children would push their mother in front of the bullet even if the bullet is not coming near them. Anupama should stop giving gyaan and start taking some from her beloved Jethani on how to raise children to be loyal and grateful.

I think most people has an issue with Anupama giving gyaan to everyone when her own kids are the most asanskaari people around. Like, if my kids were like that, I would have shut up to other people's kids. Leela is the most shameless mother around. Like seriously, a mother who has a son like Vanraj should keep her head down and voice soft in front of other mothers. But no, she wants to scream at everyone!!!

Originally posted by: Samnaina

Why is everyone blaming Anu for being a bad mother. It’s also Vanraj’s job to be a good father. For most of the their kids’ childhood he made fun of their mother in front of them. Calling her and Samar losers. Now how are the kids going to respect their mother and learn from her if her husband never did. Sorry to say, but the only reason Samar is close to his mother is because he is an outcast in the family too-just like Anu. Samar spent more time with her and she instilled good morals to him. Vanraj is at fault here not Anupama.

Of course adhik will respect barkha because barkha is supporting adhik in evil deed both barkha and adhik both have same motive

Once barkha start opposing adhik I Wil like to know how will he respect barkha

Even pakhi and toshu too take care of anupama when anupama suffering from cancer

Even toshu raise question to vanraj ema and stand for anupama

Even toshu save Nandini from goons during Holi

Pakhi to have cried when anupama faint during ema revelation

And pakhi Even bring haldi wala milk for anupama when anupama both hand got burn during saving school children

So both pakhi know what is right and wrong .agar sahi galat ka Pata nahi Hota to toshu would have not question vanraj ema and would have not save Nandini from goons and pakhi would not bring haldi wals milk to anupama

To pakhi aur toshu jaanbhuj ke galti karte hai .they know very well they are wrong but phir bhi galti karte hai

And what can anupama do for good parenting apart from making understand to her children or scolding to hee children

Anupama did not search for toshu when toshu was throw out after toshu ema revelation.she didn't. Not ask to bring toshu back because she know toshu did big mistake

I have already told it is not only mother teaching make child good but other factors are also responsible for moral development of child .and one factors unless human soul is wake nobody can install value on hunan

Originally posted by: surabhi01

First of like to say Rakhi situation and anupama situation are totally different

Rakhi has has only one child plus Rakhi never lived at joint family .she has support of husband as Father as Father ( not as husband because he has ema ) she Haa support of her mayka .she has chance to complete her education . And she don't have more than one child . Suppose if rakhi would have another child

If rakhi would have two or three children then may be other child kinjal ke jaisa nahi Hota

For eg take barkha .now barkha has two children .Sara and Adhik.adhik is shown cunning and greedy but Sara is shown responsible and caring t

If only mother teaching and giving value can make children nice then both brother and sister like Sara and Adhik would have not off different nature

Human own consciousness also responsible of human nature .unless human has own consciousness no Father no mother no one can install value in person

But I don't believe that rakhi has install discipline in kinjal .but onlybaby sitt kinjal thar she bring mineral water for her bring washing machine for her .kinjal can bring water mineral for herself and she can bring washing machine for herself as she is now adult

And then anupama .she don't have support from anywhere neither physical nor financial .plus she marry at 18 she don't has chance to complete her education .she is only 12 pass. Plus she has three children so looking at anupama situation it is very difficult to install value in three children but as I said human own consciousness is also responsible for how they are

Out of three children samar is shown as better human being than her brother and sister

That means anupama has given value only to samar but not pakhi ahd toshu

No as I told that human consciousness is also responsible for human nature apart from other factors

Originally posted by: Samnaina

Why is everyone blaming Anu for being a bad mother. It’s also Vanraj’s job to be a good father. For most of the their kids’ childhood he made fun of their mother in front of them. Calling her and Samar losers. Now how are the kids going to respect their mother and learn from her if her husband never did. Sorry to say, but the only reason Samar is close to his mother is because he is an outcast in the family too-just like Anu. Samar spent more time with her and she instilled good morals to him. Vanraj is at fault here not Anupama.

Right, Vanraj is very much at fault here but that doesn't make Anupamaa blameless either. More than that, it is through Anupamaa's character that motherhood itself gets valorised in the show. If it's Anupamaa who constantly lectures people on motherhood, then obviously it's her motherhood which will be inspected.

If u see clearly when anupama children do sometimes good thing thing then only anupama said she is proud of her children .but toshu and pakhi do wrong then anupama never said ki ki use apne bachon pe garv Hai

.earlier anupama got fooled by pakhi toshu sorry .anupama ko lagta tha when toshu pakhi ask sorry for their mistake to mother .anupama think k yes pakhi toshu really realise their mistake that is why they apologise to her and that is this reason why anupama feel proud of her children that atleat they apologise to her .b

And it happened many times toshu pakhi did apologise to anupama for their rude behavior

But now anupama has understood pakhi and toshu nature yeh log to apologise maagne ka drama karte hai

And anupama clearly told pakhi tumhara brain unstable hai aaj galti karti ho phir sorry bolti ho phir galti karti ho phir sorry bolti ho ahd so on

Is baar anupama toshu ki apology toward kinjal bhi nahi dhyaan diya because now anupama has understood that pakhi and toshu Har baar fake apology maangte hai

Totally agree about the writers. Illogical, ignoble, inconsistent and irrelevant to the times.

By irrelevanti mean, while TV is a mirror of society, isn't it required to show what is right.

Society at large, notwithstanding geographies has been largely skewed over time, times are changing and we ought to show a hopeful tomorrow.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

If u see clearly when anupama children do sometimes good thing thing then only anupama said she is proud of her children .but toshu and pakhi do wrong then anupama never said ki ki use apne bachon pe garv Hai

.earlier anupama got fooled by pakhi toshu sorry .anupama ko lagta tha when toshu pakhi ask sorry for their mistake to mother .anupama think k yes pakhi toshu really realise their mistake that is why they apologise to her and that is this reason why anupama feel proud of her children that atleat they apologise to her .b

And it happened many times toshu pakhi did apologise to anupama for their rude behavior

But now anupama has understood pakhi and toshu nature yeh log to apologise maagne ka drama karte hai

And anupama clearly told pakhi tumhara brain unstable hai aaj galti karti ho phir sorry bolti ho phir galti karti ho phir sorry bolti ho ahd so on

Is baar anupama toshu ki apology toward kinjal bhi nahi dhyaan diya because now anupama has understood that pakhi and toshu Har baar fake apology maangte hai

The problem is not whether anupama is fooled by pakhi and toshu

No one can get fooled again and again like a anupama in real life by their kids over 28-30 years

Problem is anupama keeps harping on her sanskari shah family and sanskari kids which none are

And she tries to put down others kids or parents like rakhi or barkha

Instead of telling kinjal to respect rakhi as mom she gloats on fact that kinjal worship her God syndrome thats called

She gives 30 mins bashan on sanskar to malvika barkha rakhi behen devika etc while her own kids are kotte sikha or ravans and surpanakas by nature

She tries to portray her kids are best and good and others are bad or not that great as Sahh kids

or the parents upbringing is bad or not as good as hers again and again in last 2 years (Shahs are best) which is clearly not

Even in star parivar shes praising shah parivar instead of kapadias her parivar now

You tell me which daughter is better than pakhi? Sara whose not after others wealth and Malvika who gave all her property to her adopted brother anuj or is it pakhi whose after anuj kapadia wealth?

Who are better sons? Anuj who treats servamnt like father GK, or Vanraj Shah who threw his mother out? or toshu pakhi who treat mom like shit?

From all angles other kids have better upbringing and characters and more capability than anupamas 3 kids

Still anupam agloats on her kids and shah family sanskaar cannot stand quiet for producing these useless bad apples who destroy others life

What is this always praising her kids and shahs? Who are worst among all others in show by character and values and capability

Did Rakhi ever told pakhi toshu to respect her mother anupama so why should anupama told kinjal to respect her mother

Even rakhi use to tell to anupama that unki ( dave )family sabse best hai shah family kharaab hai in earlier episode .jub rakhi khud apni family ko best Bata thi jub rakhi ke Ghar mein khud loop holes hai to anupama kyon peeche Rahe

BTW barkha and rakhi first started insultimg anupama and anupama try to giive both them respect