Question to Kinjal supporters - Page 7

Both kinjal and Toshu are same as children. One disrespect his mother and other her mother. There's no difference.

Toshu should have told kinjal before getting married to treat his mother, like he does. That would be better.

If he would have did that then maybe kinjal would have turned like him and we would be spared from Anupama part 2.

Everything keep aside, I will not blame Kinjal for Toshu's fling story because koi bhi aurat ye deserve nhi karti and I will not going to do arrange marriage Vs love marriage, Kinjal jaanti thi Toshu apni mummy ki respect nhi karta, usne K ke saamne hi V ke EMA ko ignore kiya tha, wo banda K ke liye apni poori family ko chodh ke aaya tha, aur ye sab usne shaadi se pahle kiya tha i repeat it shaadi se pahle kiya tha, ek 21- 22 saal ki young, modern, educated ladki itna sab ignore karke kisi ladke se bhaag ke shaadi kaise kar sakti h wo bhi tab jab wo dekh chuki thi ki uski MIL ki us ghar mein kya respect aur position h, sorry main kisi se kitna bhi pyaar karun, ye toh mujhse nhi hoga.

Originally posted by: Ishabharatdwaj

Everything keep aside, I will not blame Kinjal for Toshu's fling story because koi bhi aurat ye deserve nhi karti and I will not going to do arrange marriage Vs love marriage, Kinjal jaanti thi Toshu apni mummy ki respect nhi karta, usne K ke saamne hi V ke EMA ko ignore kiya tha, wo banda K ke liye apni poori family ko chodh ke aaya tha, aur ye sab usne shaadi se pahle kiya tha i repeat it shaadi se pahle kiya tha, ek 21- 22 saal ki young, modern, educated ladki itna sab ignore karke kisi ladke se bhaag ke shaadi kaise kar sakti h wo bhi tab jab wo dekh chuki thi ki uski MIL ki us ghar mein kya respect aur position h, sorry main kisi se kitna bhi pyaar karun, ye toh mujhse nhi hoga.

I will blame her and I will not keep everything aside. This cheating is her karma and she deserves it very much.

Originally posted by: shubhK2308

I never said Pakhi deserves to get cheated,kindly read it carefully,I said no one deserves to be cheated,how much ever you dislike the character.

I am not talking about you go read thr thread about Pakhi where some users commented on how she deserves to get cheated just because she doesnt agree with or support Anupamaa. So why should kinjal be treated ant differently when she has done the same thing to Rakhi?

When someone slams anupamaa and Kinjal the forum and its users are called negative? Why is everyone here expected to praise them all the time. What about when similar remarks are made about Pakhi and Rakhi? That time no one remembers this sort of "negativity"

Just another day a post was made about blaming Rakhi for supposedly killing Paritosh's guilt on cheating kinjal, that time everyone was supporting that post against Rakhi. Why? Is Rakhi to be blamed for Paritosh not feeling guilty?

Originally posted by: Rein123

Is it true or not that Rakhi had warned her about Paritosh's true nature being the same as Vanraj when it comes to infidelity? as far as I remember she did, but what did Kinjal do? she didn't listen to her mother and still married Paritosh. So why is she so surprised now?? So why is Pakhi being judged for disregarding Anupamaa and siding with her brother? Kinjal should also be called out for disregarding Rakhi because at the end Rakhi turned out to be right all along.

Was Kinjal ever a good wife to Paritosh? I don't think so. She has always deserted him whenever he needed her the most, the penthouse incident where she chose living with the shah family over moving out with him is a good example. For her being a good Bahu was a priority over being a good wife so why is she so surprised at him cheating her and betraying their superficial plastic love? There was never love between them to begin with.

Is kinjal's behaviour towards Rakhi justified? Rakhi could have literally been like "i told you so" but she didn't because she didn't want to hurt her or shatter her world. Yes Paritosh cheated on her and she deserves to know but the way everything was brought out was just so rushed. Instead of trying to understand her perspective she was just lashing out at Rakhi and then she talks about how one should behave with their mother. She didn't even consider going back to dave residence or informing Rakhi about leaving the Shah house. Disgusting behaviour. Also if Rakhi had told her about Paritosh cheating on her would she have believed Rakhi or just dismissed her accusations saying that she is just trying to break her family apart. When on earth has Kinjal ever listened to Rakhi anyways?

Do I feel sorry for Kinjal that she got cheated? No I don't! She brought this upon herself the day she married Paritosh and totally deserves it. I have no sympathy for this sorry excuse of a character.

Now the biggest question, will Kinjal who adviced and pushed Anupamaa to divorce Vanraj do the same or will she go back on her own words and continue with the marriage?

Pakhi is wrong because she's saying that Anupama should have stayed SILENT like Rakhi was.

Why would you support your husband's gold digger intentions when he wants to live in some lavish penthouse while insulting his own family?

Blaming someone for being cheated on and saying they deserve it is disgusting. Seriously? Yes she shouldn't have married this Toshu animal and yes she should have listened to her mother. But saying that is astonishing and that she should have expected him to cheat. I'm actually surprised people agree with that on this forum. Yikes.

Originally posted by: Rein123

When someone slams anupamaa and Kinjal the forum and its users are called negative? Why is everyone here expected to praise them all the time. What about when similar remarks are made about Pakhi and Rakhi? That time no one remembers this sort of "negativity"

Just another day a post was made about blaming Rakhi for supposedly killing Paritosh's guilt on cheating kinjal, that time everyone was supporting that post against Rakhi. Why? Is Rakhi to be blamed for Paritosh not feeling guilty?

I've no idea wtf are you talking about but that's not weird at all considering you barely talk sense. But lemme break it down to you.

First of all, that's the problem, you're slamming. That's not what you do to a character. You criticise it. Don't praise them, nobody asked you to.

Second, Rakhi did help normalise things. She's the one who just said, yeah it's done, lets move on now. Despite knowing what cheating does to a woman, to a family, and how it ruined her own life. As usual, she thought she's protecting Kinjal but she's hurting her.

Third, If you've read the negativity comment then you must have also read that I'm a newbie here in this forum. Unless you just pick out things selectively, in which case nobody can help you. How tf I can say about something when I wasn't even here? Why would you tag me about an issue where I was not even present.

Originally posted by: Kabhi18

Pakhi is wrong because she's saying that Anupama should have stayed SILENT like Rakhi was.

So Pakhi deserves to get cheated because of this?

Why would you support your husband's gold digger intentions when he wants to live in some lavish penthouse while insulting his own family?

Blaming someone for being cheated on and saying they deserve it is disgusting. Seriously? Yes she shouldn't have married this Toshu animal and yes she should have listened to her mother. But saying that is astonishing and that she should have expected him to cheat. I'm actually surprised people agree with that on this forum. Yikes.

Oh so all people should think like you and just blindly support kinjal. Pakhi is wrong then so is Kinjal. Rakhi stayed silent because she didn't want Kinjal to suffer the way she did on learning about her husbands affair but kinjal obviously wouldn't bother to understand that POV. If that is the case then why didn't she listen to Rakhi earlier?

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

I've no idea wtf are you talking about but that's not weird at all considering you barely talk sense. But lemme break it down to you.

First of all, that's the problem, you're slamming. That's not what you do to a character. You criticise it. Don't praise them, nobody asked you to.

Second, Rakhi did help normalise things. She's the one who just said, yeah it's done, lets move on now. Despite knowing what cheating does to a woman, to a family, and how it ruined her own life. As usual, she thought she's protecting Kinjal but she's hurting her.

Third, If you've read the negativity comment then you must have also read that I'm a newbie here in this forum. Unless you just pick out things selectively, in which case nobody can help you. How tf I can say about something when I wasn't even here? Why would you tag me about an issue where I was not even present.

Rakhi may have normalised it but she never supported it, in fact Paritosh wasn't even guilty about what he did until he was confronted by Rakhi. Forget that he was never guilty about it at all because according to him his needs justified his actions. Anupamaa too was like "your father was still in love with another woman" so shall I say that anupamaa also killed his guilt? In fact even Anupamaa remained silent about Vanraj's affair for a while it was Rakhi who exposed him. Was Paritosh feeling guilty even after exposed in front of everyone? The answer is no! He was never feeling guilty so cut the crap about Rakhi killing his guilt.

Oh you say you don't slam a character or rather they should be criticised? But here I only see characters like Pakhi getting slammed when one says she should vet cheated so don't really get to tell me what I get to do with a character unless you tell the others first.

About the negativity comment, if you are newbie then I am also not someone who visits this forum 24x7. In fact i don't even make that many threads unless there is something I really want to discuss moreover i wasn't even talking about you. I pointing fingers at the fact how anyone that even criticises/slams anupamaa or her supporters is called negative but when the same thing happens to other characters example Pakhi then no one bothers to talk about negativity.

No woman deserves to be cheated or abused. Neither Pakhi nor Kinjal. Right now I don't feel sympathetic with either of them.

Kinjal knew well before her wedding how Toshu behaved when his father's ema was revealed and how he treated his mother. So that should have been a huge red flag.

Pakhi is again making the same mistake after seeing Adhik normalizing Toshu's ema, she isn't keeping any distance.

Both Pakhi's mother and Kinjal's mother aren't happy with the relationship. Pakhis mother because she feels it's too early. So technically both are against their mothers. Both disrespect their mothers.

Pakhi didn't like her mother since she wasn't educated or classy enough like Kavya. Kinjal didn't like her mother because she wasn't there full time like Anupama.

So IMO, not much difference between the two. Just the same.

Oh and I feel Kinjal wasn't a 'perfect wife' either. But that doesn't give the guy a free pass to cheat just as it doesn't give Adhik a free pass to cheat Pakhi because she is a 'brat'.