Question to Kinjal supporters - Page 4

Where I insult vibhishan ?

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Where I insult vibhishan ?

By comparing her with someone vile and ghatiya so called 'beti' like Kinjal.

Originally posted by: Rein123

Firstly stop calling her a victim because she isn't one so spare me the crap about victim blaming. Not everyone is entitled to a victim card. And no she was not a poor judge, you call one a poor judge of a character when they marry someone who seems to be perfect on the outside with no red flags at all but that was not the case with her given so many red flags were highlighted and brought to her attention which she willingly ignored.

Marrying a crappy man against your parents wish definitely makes you a crappy daughter. If marriage is a contract then you should forge a contract with someone who is worthy of it. You don't intentionally forge a contract with an untrustworthy party inspite of several people telling you otherwise.

@red why should we not talk about it? It is a universal fact so why should it be sidelined? Because it makes Kinjal look stupid?

@pink when you intentionally choose to get into an abusive relationship and stay in it then you only have yourself to blame. If you are fooled once it is the other person's fault but if you let yourself get fooled then you are the one to be blamed only.

Oh a newborn mom's husband cheats on her, just bcz he's horny, sure she's not the victim. If you use something called 'victim card' you're too immature to talk anything serious. Just be an edgelord I guess. unless Toshu told her that he's gonna be a cheater, she's not at fault. When you love someone you trust them.

And how do you judge a person whether they're crappy or not? Most indian parents are against love marriages bcz of religion, caste, race, money factor. So parents are right?

We should not talk about it because apples and trees is a cliche, idiotic thing with no scientific evidence. Toshu is 50% anu but he's nothing like her. Samar is 50% V yet hes nothing like her. It doesnt make kinjal look stupid, it makes people who use this cliche, look stupid. By this logic I guess we should just kill or throw kids of criminals as well in prison bcz hey, apple doesnt fall far from the tree.

Nobody deserves to be in an abusive relationship, even if they're staying in one. The onus is always on the abuser.

It is not comparison it is example and Maine yeh bhi nahi Kaja ki vibhishan galat tha ya sahi tha .

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

Oh a newborn mom's husband cheats on her, just bcz he's horny, sure she's not the victim. If you use something called 'victim card' you're too immature to talk anything serious. Just be an edgelord I guess. unless Toshu told her that he's gonna be a cheater, she's not at fault. When you love someone you trust them.

And how do you judge a person whether they're crappy or not? Most indian parents are against love marriages bcz of religion, caste, race, money factor. So parents are right?

We should not talk about it because apples and trees is a cliche, idiotic thing with no scientific evidence. Toshu is 50% anu but he's nothing like her. Samar is 50% V yet hes nothing like her. It doesnt make kinjal look stupid, it makes people who use this cliche, look stupid. By this logic I guess we should just kill or throw kids of criminals as well in prison bcz hey, apple doesnt fall far from the tree.

Nobody deserves to be in an abusive relationship, even if they're staying in one. The onus is always on the abuser.

Don't insult real victims by calling her victim so yes pulling out the victim card here is not going to make her the victim because she is not a victim and its got nothing to do with immaturity. Learn to call a spade a spade. Giving birth to a baby does not make a her victim for something she knew all this while.

Will a thief ever admit to being a thief unless he is caught? He kept denying his betrayal till Rakhi threatened and forced him to confess before her. Moreover Rakhi had told her about Paritosh's nature being no different from Vanraj because it is a general observation which does not require and higher level intelligence. Then what is so hard to figure the cheating aspect which Rakhi warned her about before marriage?

So you want to say parents are wrong? Also did she marry for love? No right? She had her own selfish reasons to marry him and it was certainly not love. Her reason was to get into a joint family. So are you now against the very idea of arranged marriages or trash the same just because you think it is all about just caste, race, money factor? Let's say it's about money factor or race? What is wrong in marrying someone who is financially stable and has the same social background as you? My parents had an arranged marriage but they belong to different castes. Also do people who opt for arranged marriages stupid? Yes cheating can happen there as well as in the case of Anupamaa but over there you do your best to ensure you get the best match possible with enough background checks done to avoid any bad apples. You don't willingly marry a person of poor character.

@red then why did she not marry Samar only? Also can you really guarantee samar wouldn't turn into a cheater as well?

The onus is on both. You don't blame the abuser alone, you blame the one who puts up with the abuse or allows themselves to get abused as well.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

It is not comparison it is example and Maine yeh bhi nahi Kaja ki vibhishan galat tha ya sahi tha .

Bahut galat example diya hain. Vibhishan atleast used to stand by his brother whenever he felt the need to but Kinjal. She is has always stood against Rakhi. So the example is very bad.

How example is Bad I don't know dhyaan mein vibhishan aaya isliye example diya but baat particular vibhonshaj ki nahi thi it is question of all those people .ki koi bete bhai isliye Bura Hota ha kyon usne apne blood relates bhai maa ko support nahi Kiya. ?

Originally posted by: Rein123

But you know what? Nobody in the show is going to call her out for her disgusting behavior, not even Anupamaa. She will continue to get glorified as an ideal bahu and so called daughter. Karma will hopefully hit her back when her own child does the same to her. It has already hit her hard in terms of her failed marriage but I'm just waiting for how her daughter is going to give it back to her the same way she treated Rakhi all this while.

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Kinjal has been ruined by the writers

She was more in love with Anupamaa than Toshu

I agree to your point of Kinjal not being a good daughter to Rakhi,but saying that Kinjal deserved to be cheated upon as she was never a good wife to Paritosh,I strongly disagree with it.

If kinjal was not a good wife,then paritosh was also not a good husband,forget about even being a decent human being.

And if Paritosh was not happy with Kinjal,he could have just asked for a separation and lived his life on own terms.

That is not an excuse to cheat on your spouse.

And no one deserves to be cheated on...

Plus,when you love someone,you tend to ignore many of their faults and shortcomings,you keep thinking that one day they will realize their mistakes and improve,same happened with Kinjal.

Plus, even though Vanraj and Paritosh are similar in nature,the relationships they were in was different.

Vanraj was married to Anupama not out of choice, but Paritosh married Kinjal out of choice and love, so trust and commitment is the basic thing you can expect from your partner.

What's wrong in that?