Question to Kinjal supporters - Page 8

Originally posted by: Rein123

Rakhi may have normalised it but she never supported it, in fact Paritosh wasn't even guilty about what he did until he was confronted by Rakhi. Forget that he was never guilty about it at all because according to him his needs justified his actions. Anupamaa too was like "your father was still in love with another woman" so shall I say that anupamaa also killed his guilt? In fact even Anupamaa remained silent about Vanraj's affair for a while it was Rakhi who exposed him. Was Paritosh feeling guilty even after exposed in front of everyone? The answer is no! He was never feeling guilty so cut the crap about Rakhi killing his guilt.

Oh you say you don't slam a character or rather they should be criticised? But here I only see characters like Pakhi getting slammed when one says she should vet cheated so don't really get to tell me what I get to do with a character unless you tell the others first.

About the negativity comment, if you are newbie then I am also not someone who visits this forum 24x7. In fact i don't even make that many threads unless there is something I really want to discuss moreover i wasn't even talking about you. I pointing fingers at the fact how anyone that even criticises/slams anupamaa or her supporters is called negative but when the same thing happens to other characters example Pakhi then no one bothers to talk about negativity.

I'm not gonna talk to you about anything, because you're not someone I'd like to considering your behavior, nature etc. But just to point out what a f#cking liar you're, here's a ss. You tagged me and then simultaneously you're not talking about me. Seriously funny. Please spare me this teenage bitchy drama. I'd no idea there are people like you in this forum, but I want no part of this. So just don't talk to me.

https://ibb.co/m67DFRn

Originally posted by: TianaWrites

No woman deserves to be cheated or abused. Neither Pakhi nor Kinjal. Right now I don't feel sympathetic with either of them.

Kinjal knew well before her wedding how Toshu behaved when his father's ema was revealed and how he treated his mother. So that should have been a huge red flag.

Pakhi is again making the same mistake after seeing Adhik normalizing Toshu's ema, she isn't keeping any distance.

Both Pakhi's mother and Kinjal's mother aren't happy with the relationship. Pakhis mother because she feels it's too early. So technically both are against their mothers. Both disrespect their mothers.

Pakhi didn't like her mother since she wasn't educated or classy enough like Kavya. Kinjal didn't like her mother because she wasn't there full time like Anupama.

So IMO, not much difference between the two. Just the same.

Oh and I feel Kinjal wasn't a 'perfect wife' either. But that doesn't give the guy a free pass to cheat just as it doesn't give Adhik a free pass to cheat Pakhi because she is a 'brat'.

Thank you so much for saying it.

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

I'm not gonna talk to you about anything, because you're not someone I'd like to considering your behavior, nature etc. But just to point out what a f#cking liar you're, here's a ss. You tagged me and then you're not talking about me. Seriously funny. Please spare me this teenage bitchy drama. I'd no idea there are people like you in this forum, but I want no part of this. So just don't talk to me.

https://ibb.co/m67DFRn

Where did I lie? What lie are you even talking about? Did I say you slammed Pakhi or made that post about her or even Rakhi? Yes I tagged you because you were talking about negativity not because you said anything about these characters.

Originally posted by: Rein123

Oh so all people should think like you and just blindly support kinjal. Pakhi is wrong then so is Kinjal. Rakhi stayed silent because she didn't want Kinjal to suffer the way she did on learning about her husbands affair but kinjal obviously wouldn't bother to understand that POV. If that is the case then why didn't she listen to Rakhi earlier?

Lmao tf. How am I 'blindly' supporting Kinjal? Care to elaborate? You act like that's a crime though. 😂

Lol don't you think Kinjal would suffer regardless being with someone like Toshu, who doesn't even UNDERSTAND his mistakes? Despite her mother's well intentions, it was still wrong and she still has the right to be frustrated that her mother would think of keeping it from her. However, she shouldn't hold that against her long term because it was only to protect her, but temporarily I think she still has the right to be angry.

Yes she messed up by not listening to Rakhi earlier.

Btw, this doesn't change what you said, which is that Kinjal deserved to be cheated on. That's still pretty low thinking. You're being evasive and avoiding that point that YOU made.

Originally posted by: Kabhi18

Lmao tf. How am I 'blindly' supporting Kinjal? Care to elaborate? You act like that's a crime though. 😂

Lol don't you think Kinjal would suffer regardless being with someone like Toshu, who doesn't even UNDERSTAND his mistakes? Despite her mother's well intentions, it was still wrong and she still has the right to be frustrated that her mother would think of keeping it from her. However, she shouldn't hold that against her long term because it was only to protect her, but temporarily I think she still has the right to be angry.

Yes she messed up by not listening to Rakhi earlier.

Btw, this doesn't change what you said, which is that Kinjal deserved to be cheated on. That's still pretty low thinking. You're being evasive and avoiding that point that YOU made.

How is it low? I don't think so, i feel she deserves whatever has come her way. And why does it bother you even if I think that way is it a crime to feel that way? These are my thoughts and my opinion about the entire matter. Why do you have a problem with it? She has the right to be angry okay that's understandable but I don't think she has ever been considerate of Rakhi even otherwise.

Defending kinjal by saying she doesn't deserve what she got at the end of the day is the same as supporting her. If Paritosh is a gold digger then why did she marry a gold digger? Was she so naive to not know that he is a gold digger? I think ditching his family once and moving into the Dave mansion was pretty much a good hint of what sort of person he was. Forget that penthouse for her even moving out into even a normal apartment was an issue too simply because she wanted to stay with the Shah family while being completely inconsiderate towards his emotional needs and why? Because she didnt want Rakhi to have what she wanted even though Paritosh also wanted the same thing. This is not a justification it's an explanation. At the end of the both are bad but to think kinjal never saw this coming is quite funny. Okay let's say you are indeed right that she doesn't deserve to be cheated that still doesn't change the fact that she didn't really see this coming towards her earlier. If she would have suffered regardless of being with someone like toshu, well she chose this suffering now didn't she? So why should I sympathise with someone like her?

Originally posted by: Rein123

How is it low? I don't think so, i feel she deserves whatever has come her way. And why does it bother you even if I think that way is it a crime to feel that way? These are my thoughts and my opinion about the entire matter. Why do you have a problem with it? She has the right to be angry okay that's understandable but I don't think she has ever been considerate of Rakhi even otherwise.

Defending kinjal by saying she doesn't deserve what she got at the end of the day is the same as supporting her. If Paritosh is a gold digger then why did she marry a gold digger? Was she so naive to not know that he is a gold digger? I think ditching his family once and moving into the Dave mansion was pretty much a good hint of what sort of person he was. Forget that penthouse for her even moving out into even a normal apartment was an issue too simply because she wanted to stay with the Shah family while being completely inconsiderate towards his emotional needs and why? Because she didnt want Rakhi to have what she wanted even though Paritosh also wanted the same thing. This is not a justification it's an explanation. At the end of the both are bad but to think kinjal never saw this coming is quite funny. Okay let's say you are indeed right that she doesn't deserve to be cheated that still doesn't change the fact that she didn't really see this coming towards her earlier. If she would have suffered regardless of being with someone like toshu, well she chose this suffering now didn't she? So why should I sympathise with someone like her?

I can flip everything you say onto you. I explained why I think it's low because I don't think ANYONE deserves to be cheated on. Why can't that bother me? It might not be a crime but that is disturbing. These are my thoughts and opinions about the matter as well. Why do you have a problem with me being bothered?

"Defending kinjal by saying she doesn't deserve what she got at the end of the day is the same as supporting her." You clearly don't think cheating is that big of a deal to be able to say this easily. 😂 Yes, I just made an assumption about you, but the victim blaming is insane on this forum even though I understand why it exists. Even if you don't support a character, you can criticize an action that was done against them. Defending/supporting one thing is not the same thing as supporting the whole character. It's not the same thing. That's just oversimplification and black and white thinking. She fell in love with a gold digger unfortunately.

Fine, you don't have to sympathize with her, never said you had to. That's your prerogative.