Solid Confusion N No Consistency from Viewers N Writers

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Well the inconsistency in story telling is due to lack of trust, confidence on writers part to actually take story in different practical directions and also inconsistency on viewers end, as much as they want Anu to be different somewhere they cheer her up after an episode of explosive drama where she puts her side 60% as 40% is all about confusion that stems from Mary go circles drama.

If writers had confidence, trust, believed maintaining message rather than trp, they would have shown Maans love story in a much better way (not saying what they showed was not good, the maturity with which she respects his love and tells him I cant offer more was beautiful and his reaction was classic). I wish they should have gone with same family drama and found a way in balancing her journey in work, emotions and learning/growing, working on self esteem, and having more depth awareness of her love for him by self, that would have easily been shown in 2-3 months, give audience the needed family chillana and handle her growth in balanced way, but they give family drama more weight 95% and her journey 5% hence her ckt is sabotaged and mocked mercilesly. Even Anuj would have had more words to encourage her, by god I can never forget the way he encouraged her during Bhoomi Pooja, the questions he asked were practical and writers never allowed explaining or making her thing on them especially "who is happy with u staying there, more than anyone are you?' Also 'before u tolerate something ask yourself is it worth tolerating, as if u tolerate now it will teach ppl how to treat u in future', these are asked by someone who genuinely care for you, ur friends, loved ones and to take it next step therapist as it leads to introspection on emotions n consequences based on situations.

Since her growth was never consistent when Anuj transferred property it was not disgested well, may be he did that caz of what makers failed to show onscreen, he saw potential n the growth she had and took her to next level of learning and growing as an independent women in handling more responsibilities. They could have shown this beautifully and viewers would have appreciated it more.

Also, the reason why makers keep pulling V and Shah nonsense is due to difference in viewership. Viewers are all across ages and individuals who are in 30-50 may be enjoying how Anu can take a stand after horrible treatment as some can relate to it. While other age grps wanted consistency and focus on self growth n self confidence n boundaries, well not gonna happen overnight, when writers are not able to balance drama with growth, there is no growth in ckt and hence the shaming by viewers, family happens to Anu Royally. They could have shown the Downfall and Raise of Anuj Beautifully along with his own insecurities and trauma and I love him for living everything for Mukku and choosing love, he never left his sister he left the property and gave space for sister to come look for him, I know ppl have different opinions. He wanted her to learn from experience same he did with Anu too when he made her project partner, some call him foolish I call him trusting his gut and potential and he was always around to guide not that he blindly left.

Like I said , they never had to drag the house warming so badly with so much drama. Yes some thing were good but they went OTT. How is that makers have no memory that Anuj comes from high profile business man status, despite him being humble and down to earth, where is his life style n influence shown in depth esp on Anu? She was surrounded by press and they never ever touched that life again at all. There was NO FREAKING BALANCE. IT IS AND ALWAYS ONE SIDE SHOW.

I said before, they missed a golden chance of showing her further growth as a home maker, wife, individual, working lady after.marriage with adjusting into a complete new life style, and balancing Shah drama and Makers would have satisfied viewers of all generation and shown more about empowernent.

For me the only saving grace is Maan relationship that is full of respect, honesty, expressing freely concerns n disappointments, his safety zone of her pallu talks about the comfort n safety he never felt and loved for, yes he loved family but he also needed that from someone he longs for. Another being Anuj who is watching everything won't push unless it reaches to tolerance level as he always maintained that boundary, space and learning by experience in all his interactions with Anu and Shah family. He knows he cannot confront or ask Shah family to learn and he never hesitated to say same asking Anu to see and learn, ppl learn in their own time and Anuj was aware of this and always planted the seed, Anu is someone I adore n love, despite the utter ckt messyness, that ladys ckt is pulled in different directions without properly giving her space to process, sometimes due to writers low confidence they didn't keep that consistency with Anu.

Why she tolerates , caz that is how families work. I am taking about the ones I see in everyday life, even in my personal. I get angry n frustrated how easily my family forgave my father who did nothing but abuse and damage and was forgiven at every time n he did 50lacks fraud to my BIL and they forgave him. When I try expressing my emotions or more or bring up the inter generational trauma, they don't understand, and my sisters are well educated, n other is just that the lack of support, normalization of abuse or stigma of mental health is so horrible that ppl are not open to different realities , I am 80's kid and my thought process n behavior was always different, as I valued myself n needs more than giving into others n society nonsense n I was aggressive arrogant in doing so n hurt family, when I ask them to see it now and how we don't have any emotional bond with other and our relationship is that of a duty relationships they r not open to see as things that ex is is ted for ages are not gonna simply go away with a talk, processing is needed. This is why I understand what they show for Anu and the nonsense of Shah family n tolerance of Anu and lack of consistency in her ckt, they bring awareness in her and in next moment it is gone as some viewers love to see her blasting ppl after horrible assisination of her ckt, as ppl themselves want to do thst in their life but cannot hence they love drama n raise in trps


PS :Ignore the spelling mistakes and crammer, typing from phone.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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The writers only care about short term Trps. They don't care about the story and characters. Characters keep changing overnight just to gain ratings. A story is left midway. This show has the worst written characters ever. All her half baked. Not a single track had a proper closure.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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They are confused what they want to show

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