Why can't they handle Pakhi's situation like mature adults?

Pakhi is not a toddler who can be controlled by slapping or caring. She is a rebellious teenager who needs to be handled with maturity. But here all the parents are acting like immature brats and expecting a teenager to behave maturely. First of all, why did Anuj announce that Anu is Kapadia business's signing authority publicly? Transfer your property to anyone you like but what's the need to tell it to every Tom, Dick and Harry? Does he not realize it will make Anu a target. Adhik targeted Pakhi because she is AnupaMaa's daughter. Why ain't Anuj talking to BB and AB about their failed business? Why can't he shift them to another house? Once P gets to know Adhik is not rich, she will automatically lose interest on him. V should stop paying Pakhi's tution fees and ask her to join a part time job. Baa instead of shouting at P should stop cooking and cleaning for her. Pakhi needs to see the real world. She needs to earn, cook, clean and manage her chores. Neither V nor Anu knows how to raise kids. Daily lectures on Maryada, Samman, Sanskar do not produce responsible mature humans, taking responsibility of one's life makes one responsible and mature. When will AnuRaj ever let any of their kids take responsibility of their lives? Babying your grown up kid is the first step to his destruction.

Affair karne ki age hai toh aapna khayal rakhne ki age bhi hai means cleaning your home help in cooking n also do some part time job to pay your date bill n no luxury mean car n cards then see

Then understand pakhi n adhik kitne paani mein hain

They have been very contradictory when teaching and dealing with Pakhi.....

At the start, she did not respect anupama and no one corrected that ...... Then vanraj and his affair came out and Pakhi jumped here and there with no guidance and do as u feel wala scene......

The difference in kavya made her realise the (helper) Anu ka worth and came back...... But again tantrums when any got Anuj.....

Now she is continuing the same thing of do as u please and we will decide

But vanraj is opposing due to ego and doubt on kapadias and anupama is refusing due to barka politics.... And Pakhi can't stand the opposition for a reason she does not understand.

Bagavat toh hona hi hai.....plus Pakhi has already made it clear that she is going to be jealous of choti Anu..... So going beserk .....

Originally posted by: MSgayatri

They have been very contradictory when teaching and dealing with Pakhi.....

At the start, she did not respect anupama and no one corrected that ...... Then vanraj and his affair came out and Pakhi jumped here and there with no guidance and do as u feel wala scene......

The difference in kavya made her realise the (helper) Anu ka worth and came back...... But again tantrums when any got Anuj.....

Now she is continuing the same thing of do as u please and we will decide

But vanraj is opposing due to ego and doubt on kapadias and anupama is refusing due to barka politics.... And Pakhi can't stand the opposition for a reason she does not understand.

Bagavat toh hona hi hai.....plus Pakhi has already made it clear that she is going to be jealous of choti Anu..... So going beserk .....

Vanraj and Baa never used to respect Anupamaa so they didn't care when Pakhi also used to treat her like dirt and all this while she used to hero worship her dad. But this family couldn't stand it when the same daughter turned on them and started misbehaving with them due to their lack of wealth and/or their unwillingness to enable her tantrums. When you breed a snake, you can't expect it to not bite you.

Is it possible for the Shahs to show maturity ever?😂😂

If there is no cheekhna chillana, no Tamashah and no Tamashah=no drama for CVs to recycle same tracks and do timepass.

One can put food in other mouth but khane wala ko mooh khud chalana padta है mooh koi nahi chal ea sakta

Similarly anupama aur vanraj jo bhi method apnaye to discipline pakhi but obey karna us baat ko accept karna pakhi ki responsibility hai aur jo pakhi karne wali nahi

Anupama chahe pyar se samjhya ya daant ke samjhaye pakhi. Pakhi ko to anupama ki baat to Sunni hi nahi

Anupama bus keh sakti hai pakhi agar is raaste jaaogi to iska yeh consequence hoga baaki anupama ki baat ko sunna samjhana yeh kaam pakhi khud ka hai

Advice guidance ki baat ko sunna aur samjhana aur us par apply karwans koi nahi kara sakta jub tuk pakhi khud willing na ho

But there are no mature adults in shah house! Only toddler heroes and heroines

I think we forget that the writers are not necessarily mature adults. 😁 Sometimes I think about the squabbles they have when thinking of new ideas or story (non) progression.

Kinjal kis mooh se Pakhi ko samjha sakti hain. Ek toh Pakhi out of control hain, Itna kuch bol chuki hain, Palat kar Pakhi bhi bolegi, aapki Maa jab Shah house aati hain toh aapne bhi kitni khari khoti sunayi hain unhe. Leela aur Dolly tak unko itna sunati hain tab toh aap kuch nahin karti mujhe kya Bata rahe ho?.

Shouldn't Shahs and Anuj and Anupama take a really strong stand teach her some manners. Lectures, emotional dialogues and chances won't help. She needs to experience life for what it is. Starting with something like studying in a college and staying at a hostel?