Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 22 Mar 2022 - Page 11

Ree, from what I observed Anu answers back immediately when it comes to defend her character or Anuj- for example, bhumi pujan, dussera or Shivratri and the leaving house event.

But when it’s life altering decisions, she takes in everything and processes it then decides. Once decided she never goes back on it. Her decision for divorce and accepting partnership are some examples.

Before fighting, she herself has to decide then only she can fight toh wahi situation is now. She is processing n deciding

Originally posted by: Kras1

uske character ki sabse badi problem h inconsistency i mean 1 day she is bold next day she is vulnerable

ok i can understand this

but one day she said shukar h tu tadak par nahi utri to vanraj

second day wo usi vanraj ke saath haste khelte dikhate h

one day she is like who the bloody hell are you i m anuj ki anupama not your slave anupama

but next day again she listens to them aur unhi ghatiya logo ke chakkar mein khud ko bhi dard deti h aut jo use itna chahte h unhe bhi dard deti h

one day she is like ok i m cheering for you i m doing pooja with you in front of everyone with all the haq . i m fighting for you i m standing with you i m running here and ther because main aapse rang lagwana chahti hu phr sabke saamne aapke saath dance bhi karungi

but next day i need a push from bapuji devika samar aur pata nahi kaun kaun

so ye inconsistency ye meri samajh ke bahar h yehi wajah h main aksar relate nahi kar pati anu se

main uska dard samajhti hu but ye inconsistency nahi

All of this boils down to story changes due to trp.

The way they save small moments like holding hands or hugs, make them big promo events, and then milk it for more drama.

The only drama they can think of is Anu reconsidering her decisions again and again. Don't know why they don't realise there are so many storylines if they want a progressive show!

Originally posted by: arya212002

Yes this isn’t time to play tu tu mai mai.. she doesn’t need to answer back in high decibels.

A strong answer said in low decibel will hit hard than shouting at high decibel.

In shouting, people don’t listen to what you are saying.. it just hurts ego and escalates the fight. Whereas when answered in a calm n composed way, the other party is compelled to listen. Also when firm decision is made the others just have to abide by.

All in all track is moving in super jet speed like really fast in a jiffy state. They will show us confirmed marriage proposal this week. We will get by thursday.

https://twitter.com/subha_suresh28/status/1506097633458536448?s=20&t=MeXSXuL9PGmyWwqB3nAnQg

ye scene alag hi level ka tha i just love love love this scene

my most favorite moment of today's episode

Originally posted by: arya212002

Ree, from what I observed Anu answers back immediately when it comes to defend her character or Anuj- for example, bhumi pujan, dussera or Shivratri and the leaving house event.

But when it’s life altering decisions, she takes in everything and processes it then decides. Once decided she never goes back on it. Her decision for divorce and accepting partnership are some examples.

Before fighting, she herself has to decide then only she can fight toh wahi situation is now. She is processing n deciding

True, and this is real life too. We usually fight when we have to defend ourself and our loved ones. We kept quite when decision has to make. Ree you usually think na before taking any step further, for example career choices, choosing a life partner, family growth anything those are changing your life. Similarly it is with Anu, before it was to become a working woman to house wife life changing, now to have her own life as better half. We even fight with our parents, siblings even kids too when they misunderstood and accusing us that was with her too like ghar chodna, dussehra etc. even when Anuj fight for Anu on diwali.

Originally posted by: arya212002

Yes this isn’t time to play tu tu mai mai.. she doesn’t need to answer back in high decibels.

A strong answer said in low decibel will hit hard than shouting at high decibel.

In shouting, people don’t listen to what you are saying.. it just hurts ego and escalates the fight. Whereas when answered in a calm n composed way, the other party is compelled to listen. Also when firm decision is made the others just have to abide by.

This is so true, I keep telling everyone around me, that they should happily disappoint their family when they expect more than they should.

What is most likely to happen is that they'll be upset for a bit, but they'll come around (in most cases, although there are crazy exceptions)

I do wish they show her talking to pakhi though. It's so sad that there's not one strong mother-daughter bond shown in this show. Anu's relationship with her mother is so empty, same with Anu and Pakhi, baa and Dolly are at loggerheads, kavya doesn't have one, neither does mukku.

Actually now that i think about it, there isn't one good father-son relationship either, if you discount Anuj and gk.

Originally posted by: Miniwatch

I do wish they show her talking to pakhi though. It's so sad that there's not one strong mother-daughter bond shown in this show. Anu's relationship with her mother is so empty, same with Anu and Pakhi, baa and Dolly are at loggerheads, kavya doesn't have one, neither does mukku.

Actually now that i think about it, there isn't one good father-son relationship either, if you discount Anuj and gk.

inhone rishte aise dikhaye h jyadatar jo sirf ek dusre ko use karte h apne selfish motives ke liye

Originally posted by: ayushijindal

True, and this is real life too. We usually fight when we have to defend ourself and our loved ones. We kept quite when decision has to make. Ree you usually think na before taking any step further, for example career choices, choosing a life partner, family growth anything those are changing your life. Similarly it is with Anu, before it was to become a working woman to house wife life changing, now to have her own life as better half. We even fight with our parents, siblings even kids too when they misunderstood and accusing us that was with her too like ghar chodna, dussehra etc. even when Anuj fight for Anu on diwali.

mujhe bss problem h uske character ki inconsistency aur usse bhi badi uske apne dard aur takleef share na karne se jo sabse jyada takleef bhi use hi deti h

ye jo anu itne lambe lambe bhashan deti h wo isi ka nateeja h

ki jab ise apne dard share karne hote h ye nahi karti apne andar bharti rehti h aur ek din achanak phat padti h

aur ye sabse jyada khatarnak sign hota h that you are not emotionally healthy

i said it before anupama really needs a psychologist warna iska past baggage kabhi iska peecha nahi chodega

apna dard share na karna kisi ke aage na rona apni takleef chupana ye sab iske past baggage ka hi hissa h

she really needs a lots of healing and uske liye sabse pehle use anuj se apni past life share karni chahiye

kasam se makers kitna accha scene dikha sakte the usme kitne episodes nikal sakte the jab anu anuj ko sab batati past ke baare mein anuj use sambhalta

aur anuj anu ko sab batata

but ye to seedha shadi par kud gaye

Originally posted by: Kras1

you are forgetting kinjal and RD

inhone rishte aise dikhaye h jyadatar jo sirf ek dusre ko use karte h apne selfish motives ke liye

Oh yeah, that. Another dysfunctional mother daughter relationship!

I wish they show Pakhi and anu becoming close, maybe Anuj can even help this happen

Oh man, I just got a maan wish. I want to see Anuj and anupama have a happy family dinner with just her kids. That will be setting progressive goals. I so want this for the both of them.