Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 22 Mar 2022 - Page 10

Originally posted by: Kras1

This scene broke me 😭😭

https://twitter.com/AthenaHebe/status/1506082093708681220?s=20&t=e6UsLw-fBft5qHqoSFNEYA

Baapuji is truely a father figure to these 2 lost souls who have no parent in blood left.

Originally posted by: Kras1

This scene broke me 😭😭

https://twitter.com/AthenaHebe/status/1506082093708681220?s=20&t=e6UsLw-fBft5qHqoSFNEYA

I empathise with Anu in the situation and we all know obviously she’s going to choose Anuj over all , but I feel the makers have failed to bring her side of the love story convincingly ...That’s why every other episode most of us end up feeling her love is not adequate, Anuj is stuck in a no win situation etc though technically it is not like that ... I mean why does she need an accident or Devika again to make her realise ...

Anuj’s love was portrayed much better ( and maybe played more convincingly by GK ) , Anu’s got convoluted amongst some very shoddy storylines ... Suprising , since the writers on the show are women 😒

Or maybe they were held back by considerations of how a 45 year old mom should “ behave “ in love 🤔

At the end of the day It’s quite an injustice to her character....

Originally posted by: ayushijindal

Yes. She is hurt and complaining why always she is on pedestal to choose. Why cannot she has both. The family she gave everything, she understand this family and in return they cannot understand her love. People are selfish here. She is hurt coz Anuj always has to go through the same because of her, this is love. She is thinking about love only. This is her style of grieving.

Its never b easy to choose one whether the other one deserves this or no. Its you who love them dearly with their 1000 of flaws and you have to choose one.

What I feel is she doesn't give up, words hurt her from baa and pakhi. Once she overcome this hurt she will give them a befitting reply..

@bold - exactly. It’s us who choose to love whether the other person deserves it or not. When we love someone, it pains our heart more when we ourselves have to hurt them. It will hurt us to see the one we love hurt.

here Anu’s decision to marry will cause hurt to Baa n Pakhi. She will cause them hurt which is painful to her and also the pain they go through will also hurt her. All in all she will be hurt whereas she wanted only happiness.

It’s tough to decide but once decision made and strengthened own heart, things will be easier to overcome.

maine pehle bhi bola h aaj bhi bol rahi

anupama ko khud ko badalne ki bahut need h i know puri life uske paas koi nahi tha jise wo apni takleefe apne dard bata sake par aaj h ek aisa insaan jo uski har takleef sunne ke liye har waqt ready h jo kabhi use akela nahi chodega bhale hi use peeche kyu na khada rehna pade and jab ek aisa insaan aapki life mein h to usse baatein share karna seekho

ye anu first time nahi kar rahi mukku ke time bhi yehi kiya usne i know yaha baat alag h
but anuj ko waha bhi haq tha aur yaha bhi h waha bhi anuj janna chahta tha yaha bhi janna chahta tha

like today he said jab ek rishta hota h to saamne wale ke sirf sukh par nahi balki har dard har takleef har aasun par bhi aapka haq hota h aur wo dard dur karna aapki responsibility

ye baat ki main unhe dard nahi dena chahti issiliye nahi bata rahi

ye cheej saamne wale ko aur jyada dard aur takleef deti h

like i said duniya ka sabse close and open relation hota h yr better half ardhangini aise hi nahi bolte

jab aap har mayne mein ek h to aapke dil ka har raaj har dard har khushi ek honi chahiye aur agar aap aisa nahi karte to wo rishta hamesha adhura rahega

Originally posted by: arya212002

@bold - exactly. It’s us who choose to love whether the other person deserves it or not. When we love someone, it pains our heart more when we ourselves have to hurt them. It will hurt us to see the one we love hurt.

here Anu’s decision to marry will cause hurt to Baa n Pakhi. She will cause them hurt which is painful to her and also the pain they go through will also hurt her. All in all she will be hurt whereas she wanted only happiness.

It’s tough to decide but once decision made and strengthened own heart, things will be easier to overcome.

Till the time you are determined and know what you want and what you have to do for the same, things will be sorted and before you will struggle. That is the struggle Anu is seeing today. Plus we have issue that she didn't utter a word to baa or anybody. This is not the situation to fight with high decibels. This is the life changing decision and if she spoke and fought, family came to know her decision and more fights will occur. So be quiet and explode the bomb on time so that no one question you further. Meanwhile you can thing rationally.

My review of today’s episode it was ok idk y the shah can’t see anupama happy she lived and died for tht family does everything

She needs to live in peace 🙏

PC I hope it’s anupama’s dream

My rating 2/5

Originally posted by: ga1986

I empathise with Anu in the situation and we all know obviously she’s going to choose Anuj over all , but I feel the makers have failed to bring her side of the love story convincingly ...That’s why every other episode most of us end up feeling her love is not adequate, Anuj is stuck in a no win situation etc though technically it is not like that ... I mean why does she need an accident or Devika again to make her realise ...

Anuj’s love was portrayed much better ( and maybe played more convincingly by GK ) , Anu’s got convoluted amongst some very shoddy storylines ... Suprising , since the writers on the show are women 😒

Or maybe they were held back by considerations of how a 45 year old mom should “ behave “ in love 🤔

At the end of the day It’s quite an injustice to her character....

Wow that's so well put!

Originally posted by: ga1986

I empathise with Anu in the situation and we all know obviously she’s going to choose Anuj over all , but I feel the makers have failed to bring her side of the love story convincingly ...That’s why every other episode most of us end up feeling her love is not adequate, Anuj is stuck in a no win situation etc though technically it is not like that ... I mean why does she need an accident or Devika again to make her realise ...

Anuj’s love was portrayed much better ( and maybe played more convincingly by GK ) , Anu’s got convoluted amongst some very shoddy storylines ... Suprising , since the writers on the show are women 😒

Or maybe they were held back by considerations of how a 45 year old mom should “ behave “ in love 🤔

At the end of the day It’s quite an injustice to her character....

ok i can understand this

but one day she said shukar h tu tadak par nahi utri to vanraj

second day wo usi vanraj ke saath haste khelte dikhate h

one day she is like who the bloody hell are you i m anuj ki anupama not your slave anupama

but next day again she listens to them aur unhi ghatiya logo ke chakkar mein khud ko bhi dard deti h aut jo use itna chahte h unhe bhi dard deti h

one day she is like ok i m cheering for you i m doing pooja with you in front of everyone with all the haq . i m fighting for you i m standing with you i m running here and ther because main aapse rang lagwana chahti hu phr sabke saamne aapke saath dance bhi karungi

but next day i need a push from bapuji devika samar aur pata nahi kaun kaun

so ye inconsistency ye meri samajh ke bahar h yehi wajah h main aksar relate nahi kar pati anu se

main uska dard samajhti hu but ye inconsistency nahi

Originally posted by: ayushijindal

Till the time you are determined and know what you want and what you have to do for the same, things will be sorted and before you will struggle. That is the struggle Anu is seeing today. Plus we have issue that she didn't utter a word to baa or anybody. This is not the situation to fight with high decibels. This is the life changing decision and if she spoke and fought, family came to know her decision and more fights will occur. So be quiet and explode the bomb on time so that no one question you further. Meanwhile you can thing rationally.

Yes this isn’t time to play tu tu mai mai.. she doesn’t need to answer back in high decibels.

A strong answer said in low decibel will hit hard than shouting at high decibel.

In shouting, people don’t listen to what you are saying.. it just hurts ego and escalates the fight. Whereas when answered in a calm n composed way, the other party is compelled to listen. Also when firm decision is made the others just have to abide by.

Originally posted by: Miniwatch

Wow that's so well put!

And the kind of decisions she ends up taking are sometimes mind numbingly painful and stupid ... I mean I know Pakhi is bit of a freak and all , but shouldn’t Anu gave at least had a talk with her to get her onboard before assuming she’ll be ok with the Shaadi... I mean , she’s a child after all 🤔

And then the entire Birthday fiasco where she “ forgot about Anuj “ cz she became a Dadi