What vanraj is doing comes under harassment - Page 3

Originally posted by: Miniwatch

You're right. It's really problematic. I'm also concerned that it's marketed as a family show. Even the actors mention in their interviews that it's a family show, for everyone, which is simply not true.

The kind of powerplay and harassment constantly shown in this program qualifies for it to be rated only for adult viewership, and that too with appropriate trigger warnings. But unfortunately in India, we'll ban completely natural things like kissing while openly showing any and all acts of verbal harassment and many acts of physical harassment.

I have a friend who came out of a bad relationship who got so triggered by this content, it's not even funny.

I feel sometimes the show must have some trigger Warning Tag. Coz even we who have never faced such instances in life can very much get depressed with the episodes.

Originally posted by: DJ_3

Agreed, even V trying to colour her. i.e. touching would be considered as an assault.

Unfortunately India is country, where Marital rape is not even illegal. Hence for a lot of people, since V was her husband once upon a time, he still has other rights on her🤪.

Recently changed! It's now illegal!

Oh you missed the madness that happened on twitter then. All the sexist men came out against it and said they'll go on a #MarriageStrike said they'll never get married, lol, they didn't realise that's what we also want 🤣

Originally posted by: sporthy_smile28

Same behen same

Even i feel she didn't get to actually fall in love with him.. she's just enjoying the notion of being in love with a man who has downright worshipped her for 26 years of his life!

Phir samar n Bapuji ka gyan has led her into thinking she's actually in love with him!

It would have been great if she got the time to actually fall for him 🥺

But she's too tied up with the shah's to even think in that direction

Speaking of empowerment wasn't that dance competition around the corner they conveniently forgot about that too in between their colour co-ordinated festival celebrations😆

@bold : agree completely. Never for once, have i felt that she really loves Anuj. She did loved Vanraj once and now is in love with thought of being in love enamoured by Man who worshipped her for 26 years and counting.

Originally posted by: Miniwatch

You're right. It's really problematic. I'm also concerned that it's marketed as a family show. Even the actors mention in their interviews that it's a family show, for everyone, which is simply not true.

The kind of powerplay and harassment constantly shown in this program qualifies for it to be rated only for adult viewership, and that too with appropriate trigger warnings. But unfortunately in India, we'll ban completely natural things like kissing while openly showing any and all acts of verbal harassment and many acts of physical harassment.

I have a friend who came out of a bad relationship who got so triggered by this content, it's not even funny.

Totally agree.. this serial is problematic, the low they stoop starting from episode one then bhumi pujan, her character assassinations, the acts, dialogues and then the ease with which they conveniently forget or push under the carpet is worrying.

Anupama is definitely not real person, the way she dances with, gets physically close, play saheli, have coffee time with Vanraj is really disturbing, not humanly possible.

Originally posted by: Apurvachanda90

Same stuff happened with someone I know very well. During Anu’s breakdown episode.. She had anxiety attack because of this show. And even know, whenever if by any chance she sees some clips here n dere, she gets depressed because of the tone of Baa n Vanraj ..

I feel sometimes the show must have some trigger Warning Tag. Coz even we who have never faced such instances in life can very much get depressed with the episodes.

@bold : this is me. At times, this has affected me too and I was forced to cut all connections (SM, IG, IF) for my own sanity. I still do at times. I am not regular viewer since long, only follow updates and its only from Monday, have became a regular again.

I know in general, i am sensitive, even some of photos on net from war, syria baby affected me so much that i was depressed for days. I don't watch ITV much though, this is my first time because i am obsessed with Anuj to be honest.

Originally posted by: Km181

Totally agree.. this serial is problematic, the low they stoop starting from episode one then bhumi pujan, her character assassinations, the acts, dialogues and then the ease with which they conveniently forget or push under the carpet is worrying.

Anupama is definitely not real person, the way she dances with, gets physically close, play saheli, have coffee time with Vanraj is really disturbing, not humanly possible.

And then the whole Manipulation of domestic violence victim in the form of mukku

I get it they want to show k duniya me ayse log bhi hote hai

My point is just don't promote it on the name of family show or put out that Damn warning!!

Honestly speaking jab se anu stepped back into that house i give myself a mental push k koi nahi it's just a show drama hai bus... It's a fiction

But by God aaj kal I'm not able to handle it even though i fast-forward most of the nonsense by vanraj or baa 😔

It's just my love for RG and GK as actors whom i admire most I'm struck with this shit!!

And Thanks to this Forum agar ye na hota tho i would have gone to the therapist again💔

Originally posted by: sporthy_smile28

And then the whole Manipulation of domestic violence victim in the form of mukku

I get it they want to show k duniya me ayse log bhi hote hai

My point is just don't promote it on the name of family show or put out that Damn warning!!

Honestly speaking jab se anu stepped back into that house i give myself a mental push k koi nahi it's just a show drama hai bus... It's a fiction

But by God aaj kal I'm not able to handle it even though i fast-forward most of the nonsense by vanraj or baa 😔

It's just my love for RG and GK as actors whom i admire most I'm struck with this shit!!

And Thanks to this Forum agar ye na hota tho i would have gone to the therapist again💔

@bold : why do i read ''again" don't want to get poking in your private life. but please please take care.. and i can totally relate to everything you say. And yes, these things at times affect me too and i also shake myself and say this is just a story, story whose HERO is Vanraj, this is there sh***y attempt at dark humor in name of women empowerment.

Originally posted by: Miniwatch

Recently changed! It's now illegal!

Oh you missed the madness that happened on twitter then. All the sexist men came out against it and said they'll go on a #MarriageStrike said they'll never get married, lol, they didn't realise that's what we also want 🤣

Wow great news. 👏

Originally posted by: Km181

@bold : why do i read ''again" don't want to get poking in your private life. but please please take care.. and i can totally relate to everything you say. And yes, these things at times affect me too and i also shake myself and say this is just a story, story whose HERO is Vanraj, this is there sh***y attempt at dark humor in name of women empowerment.

Thanks sweets but no issues

Agar sach me zada hogaya toh I'll Stop watching or take a break

I'll go re-watch Friends or k drama for a while ya phir get back to my insane reading habit 😆 toh bus set set ho jayega no worries 😊

Right now not just this SP k sare top shows are crap!

There's no point even discussing which one more shitty😆

GN it was nice let out for me

N great to know I'm not alone on the boat🤗

Originally posted by: Km181

@bold : this is me. At times, this has affected me too and I was forced to cut all connections (SM, IG, IF) for my own sanity. I still do at times. I am not regular viewer since long, only follow updates and its only from Monday, have became a regular again.

I know in general, i am sensitive, even some of photos on net from war, syria baby affected me so much that i was depressed for days. I don't watch ITV much though, this is my first time because i am obsessed with Anuj to be honest.

Even I watch the show on on/off mode since even I can’t watch depressing scenes. I get sad very easily with everything very fast