What vanraj is doing comes under harassment - Page 4

I was thinking the same too. He avoided being colored by her when they were married. But now that she plans on being colored by another, he is adamant on being the first one. He is a man-child and a dirt bag to boot. It is also true, that Anu's lack of boundaries is one of the reasons why he feels he can do whatever to her.

If tomorrow she would have been colored by vanraj, and bashed him left and right for acting against her consent, it would have been. But this won't happen. And sadly anu's grand lectures are all bark and no bite, so even if she would lecture him about maryada, the two will be playing dandiya the next day.

Also, ye kavya kesi biwi hai? Kaha gya Inka 9 saal ka pyaar, inn dono ka hi maan main interest ek doosre se zada hai.

Ghar ki murgi dal barabar suits this duo absolutely.

Originally posted by: Apurvachanda90

True.. Even I have the same thought about Vanraj. As to there is no need to show him in the show. If it happened in real world, vanraj kabhi dikhai hi nahi deta.. According to story vanraj important hai bhi nahi story main. Anu, Anu’s new life, Anu Anuj relationship, mid 40 Married couple problems is what I am interested in. Not this Vanraj shit.
Anu is I guess just fascinated by Anuj n his kindness. There’s no love from her side. Atleast I can’t see it. Her reactions are always thanda compared to him .

Also, She goes more touchy touchy with vanraj even after divorce and all that drama.. but with Anuj she still maintain a fair distance

I disagree here , its obvious Anuj love is always more in compared to Anu's love as wo 26 yrs se pyaar karta hai but iska matlab ye nahi Anu does not love Anuj i completely disagree here. Regarding Vanraaj he is still her children father he will be always be in show accept it or not. Anu ke mann mein Anuj ko khone ke darr bahut haan ye pyaar hi hai jab wo khai mein girne wala tha tab bhi she hugs him out of fear, and now she is opening showing her love towards Anuj in front of her whole family, Problem is she is still tied to that Shah house because of her children but its not fair to say that Anu does not love him . She loves Anuj a lot in my opinion.

Originally posted by: nish_vir

I was thinking the same too. He avoided being colored by her when they were married. But now that she plans on being colored by another, he is adamant on being the first one. He is a man-child and a dirt bag to boot. It is also true, that Anu's lack of boundaries is one of the reasons why he feels he can do whatever to her.

If tomorrow she would have been colored by vanraj, and bashed him left and right for acting against her consent, it would have been. But this won't happen. And sadly anu's grand lectures are all bark and no bite, so even if she would lecture him about maryada, the two will be playing dandiya the next day.

Also, ye kavya kesi biwi hai? Kaha gya Inka 9 saal ka pyaar, inn dono ka hi maan main interest ek doosre se zada hai.

Ghar ki murgi dal barabar suits this duo absolutely.

Vanraaj ke haath mein ganda wala purple colour tha look🤣kehte hai pink aur red pyaar ka rang hota hai par ye to ganda waala puple colour le aaya Anu ko rangne ke liye this only shows he is just desperate to rang Anu no matter what cheap colour.

Originally posted by: Apurvachanda90

True.. Even I have the same thought about Vanraj. As to there is no need to show him in the show. If it happened in real world, vanraj kabhi dikhai hi nahi deta.. According to story vanraj important hai bhi nahi story main. Anu, Anu’s new life, Anu Anuj relationship, mid 40 Married couple problems is what I am interested in. Not this Vanraj shit.
Anu is I guess just fascinated by Anuj n his kindness. There’s no love from her side. Atleast I can’t see it. Her reactions are always thanda compared to him .

Also, She goes more touchy touchy with vanraj even after divorce and all that drama.. but with Anuj she still maintain a fair distance

Totally agree

But its not about Vanraj only. Even Baa's cheap comments, taunts, insults are not acceptable just bcoz of her age.

Its not their mistake only, its anupama who is fanning their ego and insolence.

She is trying to pretend that she is an ideal DIL even after divorce. She is in that house which is not hers, its Kavya's now. No woman can tolerate ex and her interference in everything in her house, her insecurities and anger are justified.

Nowdays, no couple wants to work together in the same company bcoz they want to keep their personal n professional life separate. Even in many companies, there is rule that couples can not be in same dept. but our Anupama ji is working in same office, having coffee together, living in home, behaving like gf or wife with ex.

All this is nonsense... it is just spreading the negativity. we r simply enduring all this s%&t bcoz of our love for Gaurav Khanna. Other wise no one has time to think so much about this.. we want just to be entertained, have good content and smile on our faces.

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

Totally agree

But its not about Vanraj only. Even Baa's cheap comments, taunts, insults are not acceptable just bcoz of her age.

Its not their mistake only, its anupama who is fanning their ego and insolence.

She is trying to pretend that she is an ideal DIL even after divorce. She is in that house which is not hers, its Kavya's now. No woman can tolerate ex and her interference in everything in her house, her insecurities and anger are justified.

Nowdays, no couple wants to work together in the same company bcoz they want to keep their personal n professional life separate. Even in many companies, there is rule that couples can not be in same dept. but our Anupama ji is working in same office, having coffee together, living in home, behaving like gf or wife with ex.

All this is nonsense... it is just spreading the negativity. we r simply enduring all this s%&t bcoz of our love for Gaurav Khanna. Other wise no one has time to think so much about this.. we want just to be entertained, have good content and smile on our faces.

@bold - that is exactly what boggles my mind. First of all, I dont get how Anu is okay with it.

Anu, given her background she might still have old values, uneducated etc, doesnt know where to draw the line. But how does Kavya tolerate this nonsense? Not sure why she is letting everyone treat her like garbage!

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

Totally agree

But its not about Vanraj only. Even Baa's cheap comments, taunts, insults are not acceptable just bcoz of her age.

Its not their mistake only, its anupama who is fanning their ego and insolence.

She is trying to pretend that she is an ideal DIL even after divorce. She is in that house which is not hers, its Kavya's now. No woman can tolerate ex and her interference in everything in her house, her insecurities and anger are justified.

Nowdays, no couple wants to work together in the same company bcoz they want to keep their personal n professional life separate. Even in many companies, there is rule that couples can not be in same dept. but our Anupama ji is working in same office, having coffee together, living in home, behaving like gf or wife with ex.

All this is nonsense... it is just spreading the negativity. we r simply enduring all this s%&t bcoz of our love for Gaurav Khanna. Other wise no one has time to think so much about this.. we want just to be entertained, have good content and smile on our faces.

Pakhi ko kabhi kyu nahi kha ke Samar bada hai izzat kar. Toshu ko kyu nahi bola ke main badi hu.
Earlier she had problem with Kavya, because Kavya used to take the limelight that she deserved as the bahu of that house, Even her husbands eyes were always on Kavya.. Now what she is doing, she is doing exactly the same.

Interefering in Kavya’s house, getting touchy with her husband, Kavya’s husband is eyeing on Anupama. Now isn’t it wrong morally n ethically.

Earlier it was Kavya and now it’s Anupama. That’s it

Originally posted by: magicworld

I disagree here , its obvious Anuj love is always more in compared to Anu's love as wo 26 yrs se pyaar karta hai but iska matlab ye nahi Anu does not love Anuj i completely disagree here. Regarding Vanraaj he is still her children father he will be always be in show accept it or not. Anu ke mann mein Anuj ko khone ke darr bahut haan ye pyaar hi hai jab wo khai mein girne wala tha tab bhi she hugs him out of fear, and now she is opening showing her love towards Anuj in front of her whole family, Problem is she is still tied to that Shah house because of her children but its not fair to say that Anu does not love him . She loves Anuj a lot in my opinion.

But what about vanraj. He is the father of her children, but how can she forget what he has done to her.
Also what about Kavya n baa.. Is it right that she is still staying at Shah house, doing all the household work as if she is the bahu of the House. Aur Anuj se pyaar karti hogi.. lekin jo baar baar vanraj ko console karti hai Anuj ke samne uska kya..

Baa bapuji ki Aniversary ke time as a couple pose krke photos click karwa rahi thi uska kya

Thoda to distance maintain kare bhai.. Chahe Anupama single ho yaa kisi ke saath ho lekin Vanraj se toh atleast distance maintain karke rakhe

Originally posted by: Miniwatch

Recently changed! It's now illegal!

Oh you missed the madness that happened on twitter then. All the sexist men came out against it and said they'll go on a #MarriageStrike said they'll never get married, lol, they didn't realise that's what we also want 🤣

No it's still not criminalized, the whole madness of #marriagestrike happened because the Delhi high court just made a suggestion that marital rape should be criminalized...

Unfortunately it's still not illegal

Originally posted by: Peppss

No it's still not criminalized, the whole madness of #marriagestrike happened because the Delhi high court just made a suggestion that marital rape should be criminalized...

Unfortunately it's still not illegal

Oh sheesh, just realised that High court hasn't ruled on it yet.

Originally posted by: Km181

@bold : agree completely. Never for once, have i felt that she really loves Anuj. She did loved Vanraj once and now is in love with thought of being in love enamoured by Man who worshipped her for 26 years and counting.

Exactly. She admired anuj's determination. Rest is bull-shit from her end.

You are not a sane person if you still talk lovey-dovey to an abuser and fraud as if nothing happened.

But she never did anything aside from giving ever boring lecture to vanraj and baa. I really pity anuj. He got more dis-respected by anupama's silence and inbehaviour towards baa and vanraj when they insulted him and cheated mukku in comarision to the actual insult he received from by vanraj and baa.