Anuj deserves a baarat!!!

Watched the episode now and Anuj made me cry when he said I don't even know ki dulha ban na kya hota hai.

He deserves every god damn thing

Pehli baar mujhe lga ki Anupama has too much baggage, and she may not be able to be the partner that Anuj has been raving for.

Her line- main sab kuch bhool gyi thi stung. Bahot bura laga anuj ke lie. He deserves 1000% of her, rather than just being a part of her shah drama filled life.

Aaj pehli baar laga ki Anu ka pyaar anuj se kam hi rahega. Hamesha. I realized it now that yes, Anu is not ready for marriage to anuj ( unless and until she stops prioritizing ladai with vanraj, kavya ka useless support and baa ka useless jaap).

P.s was I the only one who was thinking 🤔 ki Anu baar baar shaadi ko haan kar rahi hai, and Anuj baar baar ekdum stumped reaction de rha hai

1. Main sabke saamne batana chahti thi

2. Ki main aapse shaadi karna chahti hu

3. Haa...haan...

🤓

Get married already🤔 shaadi ke lie haan ka yahi matlab hai na😵

Originally posted by: nish_vir

Watched the episode now and Anuj made me cry when he said I don't even know ki dulha ban na kya hota hai.

He deserves every god damn thing

Pehli baar mujhe lga ki Anupama has too much baggage, and she may not be able to be the partner that Anuj has been raving for.

Her line- main sab kuch bhool gyi thi stung. Bahot bura anuj ke lie. He deserves 1000% of her, rather than just being a part of her shah drama filled life.

Aaj pehli baar laga ki Anu ka pyaar anuj se kam hi rahega. Hamesha. I realized it now that yes, Anu is not ready for marriage to anuj ( unless and until she stops prioritizing ladai with vanraj, kavya ka useless support and baa ka useless jaap).

P.s was I the only one who was thinking 🤔 ki Anu baar baar shaadi ko haan kar rahi hai, and Anuj baar baar ekdum stumped reaction de rha hai

1. Main sabke saamne batana chahti thi

2. Ki main aapse shaadi karna chahti hu

3. Haa...haan...

🤓

Get married already🤔 shaadi ke lie haan ka yahi matlab hai na😵

@red : exactly. This is why I am disappointed. I can understand her reason behind not being able to say...BUT this lady forgot completely and was dancing as mad.

She should have been crying there too. She realised only when it was in her face and she saw Anuj crying. What the heck was that pulling him in tamashah family dance.

However this is Shah House serial, so Anu will never leave that family, Anuj was and will remain side character. We need to either move on or make truce.

He deserves lots of thing...

Me sab kuch bhul gayi literally stung....I know lady becoming dadi is big thing but u forget about the person who stood with you..wht about his happiness....

Anuj deserves lots n lots n I just hope ki anu mem ye shah circus ke chakkar me use na hurt kare aur jyada...

BTW today she said na ki ye hath nai chhutega chahe sans chhut jaye ,ya duniya..🤔abb uski duniya to vahi sada hua ghosla he..bhgwan hi Jane kya dikhayege aage.. ..

She really need to make distance with tht family..Pura din ba ba🤢

Originally posted by: nish_vir

Watched the episode now and Anuj made me cry when he said I don't even know ki dulha ban na kya hota hai.

He deserves every god damn thing

Pehli baar mujhe lga ki Anupama has too much baggage, and she may not be able to be the partner that Anuj has been raving for.

Her line- main sab kuch bhool gyi thi stung. Bahot bura laga anuj ke lie. He deserves 1000% of her, rather than just being a part of her shah drama filled life.

Aaj pehli baar laga ki Anu ka pyaar anuj se kam hi rahega. Hamesha. I realized it now that yes, Anu is not ready for marriage to anuj ( unless and until she stops prioritizing ladai with vanraj, kavya ka useless support and baa ka useless jaap).

P.s was I the only one who was thinking 🤔 ki Anu baar baar shaadi ko haan kar rahi hai, and Anuj baar baar ekdum stumped reaction de rha hai

1. Main sabke saamne batana chahti thi

2. Ki main aapse shaadi karna chahti hu

3. Haa...haan...

🤓

Get married already🤔 shaadi ke lie haan ka yahi matlab hai na😵

She is and never was the right one for anuj..but it's sad that he loves her so madly..anupama apna purana baggage kabhi nahi chodegi because use unki aadat hai..or kaafi jyada gandi aadat hai..🤢

Or isi baggage ke saath anuj ko apni life ab waste karni hai..

Originally posted by: nish_vir

Watched the episode now and Anuj made me cry when he said I don't even know ki dulha ban na kya hota hai.

He deserves every god damn thing

Pehli baar mujhe lga ki Anupama has too much baggage, and she may not be able to be the partner that Anuj has been raving for.

Her line- main sab kuch bhool gyi thi stung. Bahot bura laga anuj ke lie. He deserves 1000% of her, rather than just being a part of her shah drama filled life.

Aaj pehli baar laga ki Anu ka pyaar anuj se kam hi rahega. Hamesha. I realized it now that yes, Anu is not ready for marriage to anuj ( unless and until she stops prioritizing ladai with vanraj, kavya ka useless support and baa ka useless jaap).

P.s was I the only one who was thinking 🤔 ki Anu baar baar shaadi ko haan kar rahi hai, and Anuj baar baar ekdum stumped reaction de rha hai

1. Main sabke saamne batana chahti thi

2. Ki main aapse shaadi karna chahti hu

3. Haa...haan...

🤓

Get married already🤔 shaadi ke lie haan ka yahi matlab hai na😵

@red i felt exactly the same.

Infact mujhe to itna bura laga ki anu ke shadi ke liye haan kehne par bhi maine tv switch off kar diya....pura mood kharab kar diya usne.. maine maan hug bhi nahi dekha...agar main writer hoti toh anuj ka reaction kuch aur hi hota...in my mind i was imagining anuj to say-

Anu, main tumse jitna pyar karta hoon shayad...shayad nahi, mujhe yakeen hai tum kabhi mujhse utna pyar nahi kar paogi. Tumahre liye main last mein aata hoon jabki tum hamesha se hi meri pehli prority rehti ho. Jab tak ummeed nahi thi dard bhi nahi tha lekin jab se tumse ummeed laga baitha hoon tab se sirf dard hi dard mila hai. Bhale hi tum kitni koshish kar lo lekin main ab ye samajh chuka hoon ki tum chahkar bhi apni purani life, abusive marriage, shah family se apna toxic relationship kabhi tod nahi paogi. Isliye maine aaj ek decision liya hai. I dont want to continue my relationship with you. Yes, i am breaking up with you because pyar ke bina jiya ja sakta hai lekin aise pyar ke sath jiya nahi ja sakta jaha aapke hisse sirf intezar, na umeedi aur akelapan hi aaye. Main aise pyar ke sath nahi jee sakta anu aur mujhe pata hai ki tum mujhe wo pyar wo sammaan nahi de sakti jo mujhe chahiye isliye main hum dono ko is bandhan se azaad karta hoon.

Yes you read it right. Today i wanted maan breakup. Sirf anuj ka hi nahi anupama ne aaj anuj ko ignore karke mera bhi dil tod diya. Her "yes" seemed like a consolation prize jo bheek mein di gayi khushi jaisa lag raha tha. This dadi track is total bakwaas. Waise isse koi problem nahi thi mujhe lekin is track ne sabit kar diya ki anupama ki life shahs ke around hi ghumti rahegi hamesha. Aur mujhe anuj ke liye ye dadi amma nahi chahiye.. isko bolo ki ja apne pote/poti ki nappies badal aur khush reh, anuj ko akela chhod de.

Yes I am being rude and also age shaming anupama for being dadi... Because not physically, she has aged mentally. Ye mansik taur par budhi, dependent, kamjor aurat mujhe anuj ke aas paas bhi nahi chahiye. It was like classic anupama, ek kadam aage aur 10 kadam peechhe.

Aajka maan ka wo scene was end for me. End of maan saga. Let the dadi enjoy with her grand children. Anuj ko phir se US bhej do.

Sorry for the long rant...was dying to share all this amd vent out my frustration ever since I saw that scene.

For a man who loves her so much, it is indeed sad that Anupama has her priorities juxtaposed. I wonder how Anuj must feel to know that he isnt her priority at any given point of time. 😲

I get that she cannot cut herself off from the Shah house completely because of her children. But, it is high time she stops making their happiness a priority over everything else.

I wonder what it takes for her to do that?!

Anuj is just a lover to anupama he haven't had any other relationship nor he wants i also felt bad for him for that point

But at anu place she is not wrong either for her being dadi will be a huge thing in fact I love the fact she openly said that and he understood how manny couples have such understanding where you can say anything what ever you feel. No she loves anuj also but she has other responsibilities also that will only bring problem in thetre relationship and will see how they fight back together because it's clear anuj will always be there with her in any problem as anu will also be . I also felt bad for anuj but both are correct at there own places frankly 🤗

Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

@red i felt exactly the same.

Infact mujhe to itna bura laga ki anu ke shadi ke liye haan kehne par bhi maine tv switch off kar diya....pura mood kharab kar diya usne.. maine maan hug bhi nahi dekha...agar main writer hoti toh anuj ka reaction kuch aur hi hota...in my mind i was imagining anuj to say-

Anu, main tumse jitna pyar karta hoon shayad...shayad nahi, mujhe yakeen hai tum kabhi mujhse utna pyar nahi kar paogi. Tumahre liye main last mein aata hoon jabki tum hamesha se hi meri pehli prority rehti ho. Jab tak ummeed nahi thi dard bhi nahi tha lekin jab se tumse ummeed laga baitha hoon tab se sirf dard hi dard mila hai. Bhale hi tum kitni koshish kar lo lekin main ab ye samajh chuka hoon ki tum chahkar bhi apni purani life, abusive marriage, shah family se apna toxic relationship kabhi tod nahi paogi. Isliye maine aaj ek decision liya hai. I dont want to continue my relationship with you. Yes, i am breaking up with you because pyar ke bina jiya ja sakta hai lekin aise pyar ke sath jiya nahi ja sakta jaha aapke hisse sirf intezar, na umeedi aur akelapan hi aaye. Main aise pyar ke sath nahi jee sakta anu aur mujhe pata hai ki tum mujhe wo pyar wo sammaan nahi de sakti jo mujhe chahiye isliye main hum dono ko is bandhan se azaad karta hoon.

Yes you read it right. Today i wanted maan breakup. Sirf anuj ka hi nahi anupama ne aaj anuj ko ignore karke mera bhi dil tod diya. Her "yes" seemed like a consolation prize jo bheek mein di gayi khushi jaisa lag raha tha. This dadi track is total bakwaas. Waise isse koi problem nahi thi mujhe lekin is track ne sabit kar diya ki anupama ki life shahs ke around hi ghumti rahegi hamesha. Aur mujhe anuj ke liye ye dadi amma nahi chahiye.. isko bolo ki ja apne pote/poti ki nappies badal aur khush reh, anuj ko akela chhod de.

Yes I am being rude and also age shaming anupama for being dadi... Because not physically, she has aged mentally. Ye mansik taur par budhi, dependent, kamjor aurat mujhe anuj ke aas paas bhi nahi chahiye. It was like classic anupama, ek kadam aage aur 10 kadam peechhe.

Aajka maan ka wo scene was end for me. End of maan saga. Let the dadi enjoy with her grand children. Anuj ko phir se US bhej do.

Sorry for the long rant...was dying to share all this amd vent out my frustration ever since I saw that scene.

behen agar ye hota na to twitter par log itna jyada halla macha dete na ki bss pucho mat

aaj twitter par 6months of anuj trend nahi ho raha hota

balki RIPANUJ trend ho raha hota🤣

aur kuch log to anuj ko vanraj se compare karne ke extreme level tak bhi chale jate🤣🤣

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

For a man who loves her so much, it is indeed sad that Anupama has her priorities juxtaposed. I wonder how Anuj must feel to know that he isnt her priority at any given point of time. 😲

I get that she cannot cut herself off from the Shah house completely because of her children. But, it is high time she stops making their happiness a priority over everything else.

I wonder what it takes for her to do that?!

You know the beauty of it that both are at their vulnerable best. Both have been extremely honest about it all. They know what they've been missing out on too. I agree when you say that Anuj loves her more and rightly so. that's the only love he has known. Maybe she does too but because of her surroundings, she hasn't been able to express it as much as him. Today's hug initiation from her was probably the first step towards her realising all that she has been missing out on. He loves her more and she respects him more so I think it is fine.

Infact, in the whole run up to acceptance, she put him last as well, which I felt was slightly wrong, she should've said "hum" instead to give him that sense of priority.

Also, on that "main sabko batana chahti hoon" bit when he said sindoor bharne ka mann hai, I think she wants to tell the world how happy she is to have finally found someone who loves her for who she is (something she has been deprived of all her life)

I hope they really show the track progressing in the direction of her wants and needs along with her kids. and her insane obsession of being accepted by Baa needs to stop. if she hasn't accepted her in the last 26 years, she won't even in the next 26! Trash is next level so wouldn't even bother.

Originally posted by: mithilalovesksg

Anuj is just a lover to anupama he haven't had any other relationship nor he wants i also felt bad for him for that point

But at anu place she is not wrong either for her being dadi will be a huge thing in fact I love the fact she openly said that and he understood how manny couples have such understanding where you can say anything what ever you feel. No she loves anuj also but she has other responsibilities also that will only bring problem in thetre relationship and will see how they fight back together because it's clear anuj will always be there with her in any problem as anu will also be . I also felt bad for anuj but both are correct at there own places frankly 🤗

Agreed that the news of becoming a gradma is big deal. But she could have at least told Kinjal when they both were talking in her room. Anu could ahve talked to Kinjal about her apprehensions of announcing of her marriage when she is at the verge of becoming grandma.

So that way, Anu could break the news of Kinjal's preg and Kinjal could tell them that her mummy is moving on as well. A good opportunity to give Kinjal some role to speak about breaking the norms!