Anuj deserves a baarat!!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

Agreed that the news of becoming a gradma is big deal. But she could have at least told Kinjal when they both were talking in her room. Anu could ahve talked to Kinjal about her apprehensions of announcing of her marriage when she is at the verge of becoming grandma.

So that way, Anu could break the news of Kinjal's preg and Kinjal could tell them that her mummy is moving on as well. A good opportunity to give Kinjal some role to speak about breaking the norms!

Frankly I never want her to say this in public so I am happy with the private moment.

Anupama charecteristic will not change she will first think of others then herself she has just started to think of herself yaar give her sometime . For her it was a big thing and it's not that she haven't feel bad she has that why she was crying alone so it will come when anu will say proudly all about anuj but have patience remember here we are idolizing a guy who is waiting for last 26 years and can wait whole life . One day may come for her she priorities anuj more than anyone else

Originally posted by: Kras1

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behen agar ye hota na to twitter par log itna jyada halla macha dete na ki bss pucho mat

aaj twitter par 6months of anuj trend nahi ho raha hota

balki RIPANUJ trend ho raha hota🤣

aur kuch log to anuj ko vanraj se compare karne ke extreme level tak bhi chale jate🤣🤣

Thats the problem yaar...kyu hate karte anuj ko. Kya problem hai agar ek bar wo selfish ho jaye.

Anupama will always be biased towards her turu lobe (her toxic family) so why cant anuj choose his happiness over her. Banda thodi si self respect dikha dega to kya nuksaan hai.

Mujhe kabhi itna bura nahi laga the anuj ke liye pehle jitna aaj laga. Her line ki main bhul gayi thi....it hurt alot. I mean its ok to even prioritize things, the news was actually very happy one but totally forgetting about the man in your life... Unacceptable.

Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

@red i felt exactly the same.

Infact mujhe to itna bura laga ki anu ke shadi ke liye haan kehne par bhi maine tv switch off kar diya....pura mood kharab kar diya usne.. maine maan hug bhi nahi dekha...agar main writer hoti toh anuj ka reaction kuch aur hi hota...in my mind i was imagining anuj to say-

Anu, main tumse jitna pyar karta hoon shayad...shayad nahi, mujhe yakeen hai tum kabhi mujhse utna pyar nahi kar paogi. Tumahre liye main last mein aata hoon jabki tum hamesha se hi meri pehli prority rehti ho. Jab tak ummeed nahi thi dard bhi nahi tha lekin jab se tumse ummeed laga baitha hoon tab se sirf dard hi dard mila hai. Bhale hi tum kitni koshish kar lo lekin main ab ye samajh chuka hoon ki tum chahkar bhi apni purani life, abusive marriage, shah family se apna toxic relationship kabhi tod nahi paogi. Isliye maine aaj ek decision liya hai. I dont want to continue my relationship with you. Yes, i am breaking up with you because pyar ke bina jiya ja sakta hai lekin aise pyar ke sath jiya nahi ja sakta jaha aapke hisse sirf intezar, na umeedi aur akelapan hi aaye. Main aise pyar ke sath nahi jee sakta anu aur mujhe pata hai ki tum mujhe wo pyar wo sammaan nahi de sakti jo mujhe chahiye isliye main hum dono ko is bandhan se azaad karta hoon.

Yes you read it right. Today i wanted maan breakup. Sirf anuj ka hi nahi anupama ne aaj anuj ko ignore karke mera bhi dil tod diya. Her "yes" seemed like a consolation prize jo bheek mein di gayi khushi jaisa lag raha tha. This dadi track is total bakwaas. Waise isse koi problem nahi thi mujhe lekin is track ne sabit kar diya ki anupama ki life shahs ke around hi ghumti rahegi hamesha. Aur mujhe anuj ke liye ye dadi amma nahi chahiye.. isko bolo ki ja apne pote/poti ki nappies badal aur khush reh, anuj ko akela chhod de.

Yes I am being rude and also age shaming anupama for being dadi... Because not physically, she has aged mentally. Ye mansik taur par budhi, dependent, kamjor aurat mujhe anuj ke aas paas bhi nahi chahiye. It was like classic anupama, ek kadam aage aur 10 kadam peechhe.

Aajka maan ka wo scene was end for me. End of maan saga. Let the dadi enjoy with her grand children. Anuj ko phir se US bhej do.

Sorry for the long rant...was dying to share all this amd vent out my frustration ever since I saw that scene.

I agree...Anu has her priorities wrong and Anuj is compromising in his love. This is not a match I am looking forward to.

I have stopped watching since long as i don't agree with story anymore since they butchered Anuj's character.

A FL and side character never make an equal match. Never ever. MaAn is dead for me, as they are not equal. Anuj is good but only as supporting character like Samar, Kinjal or Bapuji, got the gist.

They can have Trash as the Hero or ML for all I care.

First, she should have given answer to Anuj in private. Her biggest happiness in life she wants to share with Shah first.. nope I should say - Baa, Vanraj and Toshu. Other Shah were present at night too.

Just like her birthday she made marriage also all about herself only. Anuj was in side for his own marriage announcement. Couples hold there hands and announce the marriage to family together.

But humari mahaan heroine will announce by her own with a sindoor ki dibbi. Forget dadi, have you ever seen a girl announce like this, badi society upbringing ki baat kar rahi thi. Mukku ke time she said, bade mil ke decide karte hai, why didn't she let Bapuji announce to family. Double standards.

And Anuj will know at same time as world that she is ready to marry him. Anuj lost his self respect long back, what should I say.

Even today, fine she was so happy on becoming dadi, whom would you share the news first. People you love the most right. Nope, she didn't go to Anuj to share the biggest news. It was Shah family, Baa and she shared a handhold with Vanraj, Anuj was in corner.

She can forget about her marriage, everything else but did she forgot that she loves Anuj and should have ran to Anuj instinctively and said "Anuj, main dadi ban gayi". Nope, this proved, Anuj is, was and will always be last after Shah incl. Vanraj for her.

I won't be surprised if Anu will run back to stay at Shah house to take care of Kinjal. Be it Sreemoyee or AK3 from DKP, they showed FL with some respect. Not crazy for Baa, zero self respect and not V as hero.. Here, its very regressive to be honest.

Anu was and is still encouraging the devil in Baa and other 3 by always running there and looking for validation. Anuj should go back to USA for me.

To be honest, at times I feel Anu is in love with the thought of being in love.

I know writers itna dimaag nahi lagate and Anu kabhi galat nahi hoti hai. Tumhara serial hai jo karna hai karo, bhad main jao, mera kya...

Originally posted by: Km181

I agree...Anu has her priorities wrong and Anuj is compromising in his love. This is not a match I am looking forward to.

I have stopped watching since long as i don't agree with story anymore since they butchered Anuj's character.

A FL and side character never make an equal match. Never ever. MaAn is dead for me, as they are not equal. Anuj is good but only as supporting character like Samar, Kinjal or Bapuji, got the gist.

They can have Trash as the Hero or ML for all I care.

First, she should have given answer to Anuj in private. Her biggest happiness in life she wants to share with Shah first.. nope I should say - Baa, Vanraj and Toshu. Other Shah were present at night too.

Just like her birthday she made marriage also all about herself only. Anuj was in side for his own marriage announcement. Couples hold there hands and announce the marriage to family together.

But humari mahaan heroine will announce by her own with a sindoor ki dibbi. Forget dadi, have you ever seen a girl announce like this, badi society upbringing ki baat kar rahi thi. Mukku ke time she said, bade mil ke decide karte hai, why didn't she let Bapuji announce to family. Double standards.

And Anuj will know at same time as world that she is ready to marry him. Anuj lost his self respect long back, what should I say.

Even today, fine she was so happy on becoming dadi, whom would you share the news first. People you love the most right. Nope, she didn't go to Anuj to share the biggest news. It was Shah family, Baa and she shared a handhold with Vanraj, Anuj was in corner.

She can forget about her marriage, everything else but did she forgot that she loves Anuj and should have ran to Anuj instinctively and said "Anuj, main dadi ban gayi". Nope, this proved, Anuj is, was and will always be last after Shah incl. Vanraj for her.

I won't be surprised if Anu will run back to stay at Shah house to take care of Kinjal. Be it Sreemoyee or AK3 from DKP, they showed FL with some respect. Not crazy for Baa, zero self respect and not V as hero.. Here, its very regressive to be honest.

Anu was and is still encouraging the devil in Baa and other 3 by always running there and looking for validation. Anuj should go back to USA for me.

To be honest, at times I feel Anu is in love with the thought of being in love.

I know writers itna dimaag nahi lagate and Anu kabhi galat nahi hoti hai. Tumhara serial hai jo karna hai karo, bhad main jao, mera kya...

Absolutely correct.

Agree with each and every word. Tumne to mere dil ki baat keh di.

And dont get me even started on that trashraj ke sath hand holding🤢 abhi ek din pehle ye vanraj vanraj bolke uski aisi taisi kar rahi thi. Tu tadak par aane ki baat kar rahi hai aur ab sedhe haath pakadne pahuch gayi. Ye toh achha hua ki makers jyada hi senti nahi hue vanraj prem mein nahi to anuraj hug bhi jhelna padta hume🤢 phir acid se aankhne dhone ke baad bhi wo ghatiya scene nahi jata dimag se🤢

What I mean to say is after getting the news a polite smile or saying congratulations was enough. Hath pakadne ya kuch bhi aur pakda pakdi karne ki jarurat bilkul nahi thi. Matlab, anupama anuj ko excitement mein bhi kabhi hug nahi karti and she gets all touchy with trashraj on getting good news. Itihas mein koi aisi dadi bata do jo naach naach ke sabko batayi ho ki wo dadi banne wali hai.

Aur kinju baby ka kya hi kahu, itihaas mein koi aisi aurat batao jisne apni pregnancy ke bare mein apni pati se bhi pehle apni saas ko bataya ho. Saas bahu dono ki hi priority gadbad hain🤣

I guess people are forgetting in anuj love

Anupama is mother mother in law now dadi she may now not be Bahu and wife

But your children and grandchildren will anyways be above all main shayed baat samjha nahi paa rahi ya aap log Anupama ko samajh nahi paa rahe

Anuj kapadia is anuj kapadia because of his selfless and love he has and he understands Anupama life journey I bet log chathe hain woh selfish ho jis din woh selfy hua logon ko usmain aur itv leads main difference nahi samjhega he is special because he is different and like this

Selfish manhandline apni feelings important rakhna woh to itv main bhara hua hain anuj is sensation because of the sellessness

He himself wants to be anuj anupam Joshi which itself says woh uski pehchaan uske rishtey saath leke chalega 😛

Anyways cya I can understand the frustration but here I love maan equally . Mera frustration aisa hua hain baki couple ke time idhar i. Blessed i don't have chalo cya

Originally posted by: mithilalovesksg

I guess people are forgetting in anuj love

Anupama is mother mother in law now dadi she may now not be Bahu and wife

Yes, so why Baa and Vanraj have more importance than Anuj. I would have loved, if she ran to Anuj and shared with him first that she is becoming dadi, her happiest day.

But your children and grandchildren will anyways be above all main shayed baat samjha nahi paa rahi ya aap log Anupama ko samajh nahi paa rahe

Anuj in priority can be after Anu's kids and parents but he should be above Vanraj which is not case. Even today, she was physically close to Vanraj, that should change.

Anuj kapadia is anuj kapadia because of his selfless and love he has and he understands Anupama life journey I bet log chathe hain woh selfish ho jis din woh selfy hua logon ko usmain aur itv leads main difference nahi samjhega he is special because he is different and like this

Anuj is selfless right but his giving away his empire and not doing something about it is stupidity not selflessness. He should protect his love, family from Vanraj but he is not doing that.

And selfless doesn't mean zero respect, he deserves to know answer in private, be it yes or no. Not with Shah family.

Imagine Akshara from YRKkH with sindoor ki dibbi saying she will marry Abhi without even telling him. Come on, dadi kya koi ladki ye nahi karegi, this was OTT. And then excuse of society upbringing on how Dadi should act ..first learn how a girl acts. Hence, I said it's all about Anu only.

Selfish manhandline apni feelings important rakhna woh to itv main bhara hua hain anuj is sensation because of the sellessness

You have the question and answer both in your reply.

See my reply above

When Anuj said today that he doesn’t know what it feels to have all these relationships, it stung me too.

And when Anu said she forgot about him in her happiness of becoming grandmother, again it stung.

Yes, in this regard they are not compatible. Anupama has this baggage she can never get rid of. The children and bapuji is understandable. But baa and vanraj she needs to erase them from her life. The physical proximity that they continue to show between Anu and Vanraj baffles the crap out of me.

I somewhat understand Anupama’s predicament. She is used to this people, however crappy they may be, since over 2 decades. She loves Anuj yes, but it will take time for her to make him priority number 1.

As for Anuj, he loves her too much for his own good. He deserves everything. He deserves a woman who is devoted to him, deserves to be a dulha, have his own children, etc etc

But what he wants is Anupama. Therein lies his tragedy, and his fate.

Now how much of this Anupama can give him, remains to be seen.

Originally posted by: Fighter03

When Anuj said today that he doesn’t know what it feels to have all these relationships, it stung me too.

And when Anu said she forgot about him in her happiness of becoming grandmother, again it stung.

Yes, in this regard they are not compatible. Anupama has this baggage she can never get rid of. The children and bapuji is understandable. But baa and vanraj she needs to erase them from her life. The physical proximity that they continue to show between Anu and Vanraj baffles the crap out of me.

I somewhat understand Anupama’s predicament. She is used to this people, however crappy they may be, since over 2 decades. She loves Anuj yes, but it will take time for her to make him priority number 1.

As for Anuj, he loves her too much for his own good. He deserves everything. He deserves a woman who is devoted to him, deserves to be a dulha, have his own children, etc etc

But what he wants is Anupama. Therein lies his tragedy, and his fate.

Now how much of this Anupama can give him, remains to be seen.

She was profusely apologizing for disappointing him. Well done. But naye naye pyaar main uss insaan ko hi bhool gayi. I was so disheartened by anuj's face here. It felt like he was asked to wait another 26. Atleast stop this kabhi ex kabhi dada nonsense with v!

Tum logon ki basic problem ma'an hain hi nahi

Why vanraj gets importance yeh hain to that to creative la partiality towards him matter hain woh kissi ke kuch bhi karne se thik na hoga

When anuj came i always wants anuj vs vanraj but now i learnt it alway be vanraj vs anu we like it or not beggers can't be choosers mujhe maan dekhna hain will see anuj na hota to mera tata bye bye kab ka ho gaya tha when after all this Anu was helping vanraj setting cafe 😛