can you be with a man who never tells you he loves you?

there has been a shift in opinion regarding the "confession" this past week.

she give him everything under the kitchen sink in that (un)confession except ilu.

it is insulting to my intelligence that "i wont tooh grow old witchu" was what he was waiting for her say since July 1995.

could you commit your life to a partner who might never tell you those 3 magical words?

(p.s. i know you guys have probably discussed this to death, but i missed it cuz what else do i write about besides swing, bicep and willy wonka? got to come up for air sometimes.)

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

there has been a shift in opinion regarding the "confession" this past week.

she give him everything under the kitchen sink in that (un)confession except ilu.

it is insulting to my intelligence that "i wont tooh grow old witchu" was what he was waiting to see her say since July 1995.

could you commit your life to a partner who might never tell you those 3 magical words?

(p.s. i know you guys have probably discussed this to death, but i missed it cuz what else do i write about besides swing, bicep and willy wonka? got to come up for air sometimes.)

In this case, he knows she loves him and she has been very clear in all the hints including the confession “speech”. And he understands her and has accepted her like that.

IRL, more than words, actions matter. Kaafi log hote hai who can’t express them much via words but their gestures speak a lot. Shayad the 3 words are important lekin in a world, where everyone is randomly throwing around these words, iska essence aur charm nikal gaya hai.

Haan agreed shayad once in a while reassurance ke liye sunna Accha lagta hai but IMHO, jataaana still takes preference than bataaana💖

Originally posted by: ektag06

well it actually depends and this may not be a very popular opinion. - all opinions welcomed

In this case, he knows she loves him and she has been very clear in all the hints including the confession “speech”. clear about what tho? what she means to him. even during ek din aap/aaye ho meri his expressions were like...okay this is nice, but what is the bottom line here, Anu ?

And he understands her and has accepted her like that. - i disagree with this. for months he's waited for her to say "pyar". it mattered to him that she expressed it like that. where and when did he decide he was okay with her not saying it anymore? so he's just gonna tell her that loves her for the rest of his life and she's gonna say " yeah baby, i want to grow old with you?" tf is that??? 🤣

IRL, more than words, actions matter.

Kaafi log hote hai who can’t express them much via words but their gestures speak a lot. - i know you just wrote about IRL, but im gonna relate it back to Anupamaa. Anupamaa does not have a problem expressing herself. She can go on and on and on...she why is she holding back i love you? this is not some shy woman who barely talks.

Shayad the 3 words are important lekin in a world, where everyone is randomly throwing around these words, iska essence aur charm nikal gaya hai. - yes they are important. if they had no meaning he wouldnt tell her he loves her all the time. at some point, it's gonna sting him to say it and not hear it back. i wonder what she would do if he stopped telling her he loved her and started telling he wanted to grow old with her instead? 🙄

Haan agreed shayad once in a while reassurance ke liye sunna Accha lagta hai but IMHO, jataaana still takes preference than bataaana💖 it's not reassurance tho, its expression. the ultimate expression. it's talk and action.

sorry im heated. ✌🏽🤣

I toh did not even understand her confession

She was like i want to grow old with you but then they are showing right now that she is confused about marriage😕

What did she mean by that aap k sath ye karna chahti hu aap k sath wo karna chahti hu...ye sab kya padosi ban k karegi🤡

Confession ka matlab kya tha when she did not even say that she loves him...all those "i want to grow old with you" would have sounded good only if she meant that she wanted to marry him, otherwise they were just hollow words😪

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

sorry im heated. ✌🏽🤣

Ha ha Ali, I think my problem with their relationship now is that it feels cold. Like why did the makers stop her from hugging him? Thats just plain stupid.. fine even if she's conscious around her family, still, I miss their conversations. Now it's just her talking or him talking,. never them talking. And I'm bored of all the dance.

I don't particularly mind that she hasn't said I love you to him. I mind that she wants to wait to say it in public before saying it in private. In my opinion, a connected couple has this "us vs the rest of the world" feeling and i don't see that anymore.

I've been ranting continuously, i should go and do something else :) see you all later!

Originally posted by: ektag06

well it actually depends and this may not be a very popular opinion.

In this case, he knows she loves him and she has been very clear in all the hints including the confession “speech”. And he understands her and has accepted her like that.

IRL, more than words, actions matter. Kaafi log hote hai who can’t express them much via words but their gestures speak a lot. Shayad the 3 words are important lekin in a world, where everyone is randomly throwing around these words, iska essence aur charm nikal gaya hai.

Haan agreed shayad once in a while reassurance ke liye sunna Accha lagta hai but IMHO, jataaana still takes preference than bataaana💖

Echo these thoughts. Easier to say, but actions speak louder than words.👍🏼

Originally posted by: DJ_3

Echo these thoughts. Easier to say, but actions speak louder than words.👍🏼

Originally posted by: shriz

I toh did not even understand her confession

She was like i want to grow old with you but then they are showing right now that she is confused about marriage😕

What did she mean by that aap k sath ye karna chahti hu aap k sath wo karna chahti hu...ye sab kya padosi ban k karegi🤡

Confession ka matlab kya tha when she did not even say that she loves him...all those "i want to grow old with you" would have sounded good only if she meant that she wanted to marry him, otherwise they were just hollow words😪

Well, in that case, they are all gonna grow old with each other..coz everyone is growing older every minute, she didn't have to dance around for that!

Originally posted by: Miniwatch

Ha ha Ali, I think my problem with their relationship now is that it feels cold. Like why did the makers stop her from hugging him? Thats just plain stupid.. fine even if she's conscious around her family, still, I miss their conversations. Now it's just her talking or him talking,. never them talking. And I'm bored of all the dance.

I don't particularly mind that she hasn't said I love you to him. I mind that she wants to wait to say it in public before saying it in private. In my opinion, a connected couple has this "us vs the rest of the world" feeling and i don't see that anymore.

I've been ranting continuously, i should go and do something else :) see you all later!

So she wants to say I will marry you and then he can not even hug her, he will just smile and say thank you Anu. or maybe wave at her coz u know in front of shahs he can not even hold her hands!

Originally posted by: shriz

I toh did not even understand her confession

She was like i want to grow old with you but then they are showing right now that she is confused about marriage😕

What did she mean by that aap k sath ye karna chahti hu aap k sath wo karna chahti hu...ye sab kya padosi ban k karegi🤡

Confession ka matlab kya tha when she did not even say that she loves him...all those "i want to grow old with you" would have sounded good only if she meant that she wanted to marry him, otherwise they were just hollow words😪