Anupamaa LIVE Update and Daily Discussion Thread 31 Jan 2022 - Page 6

track dekhana tha dekhate lekin barabar ki takkar dekhate now they are taking that route after so much chaous

frankly mukku showing so much dumb didnt went well with audience after her background and anupama hiding things when she got clear indication

frankly truth is audience are tired with vanraj same thing again and again general viewer also my home no everyone are online but they cant see his face they should have handel things smartly with not such cringy stuffs with mukku ❤️ story acha hona alag baat hain but way you tell the story and make people cinnected are two diffretnt thing inam saying this again i watch this show from begining those who watch with me they will agree this is the worst track till date though manny time they went down with story i never got connected with anupama vanraj freindship track neither the divorce track got extended but they were sure what they were showing situation itni buri nahi thi abhi to woh log hi confused hain karna kya hain i am a person who clearly got hint vanraj dont desrnve secind chance after he played with anupama and his family emotions for last 9 years affair hone se to problem nahi thi but hiding and making one to work for his parents and other as for his other pleasures will alwasy be cringy to aundinece secondly they way he used to treat anuapama as door mat and saying all that nonsence wroters can forget viewre scant usse second chance nahi degi jis din creatives ko yeh baat clear hogi shayed usi din they will get clear view what they should show warna pedulum hi hoga as the main concept of the story is over now the story and focus is lost focus anupama ki journey pe hona tha na ki vanraj ki

Originally posted by: RainFire125

Right now Mukku is attempting to take control over her own life choices hence the executive decision about Mumbai. She is also looking for affection and love. We don’t know how Akshay treated her but we know the trauma her ex husband inflicted. And Vanraj may not be a “womanizer” but he knows how to manipulate women easily including his own mother. Today’s tactic: wanting empathy because “his spouse do no longer cares now that she’s progressing”. Vanraj wants women in his life to progress at his will. Without instigating him, Anu would have given Anuj clues about Vanraj’s tactics and they could have handled the situation tactfully. What Anui needs to understand was Anu wasn’t trying to hide the truth from him; but as she is building a relationship with Mukku, she also needs to build that trust so Mukku will be receptive to her advice. Yet, any big brother would be angered knowing your sister is trapped by the worst type of evil again. Vanraj knows how to alter himself to fit the needs/ wants of the women he preys on because he managed to this for eight years between his wife and his mistress. In this moment Mukku is blind and not willing to listen because Vanraj has already groomed and presented himself as a loving, caring, individual who is misjudged and taken advantage off. What Mukku needs to understand was Anu’s diplomacy was keeping peace between herself and the father of her children which Vanraj could never uphold. Truthfully when it comes to his ego and Anu; Vanraj is capable of murder curtained by an accident because Anu was never a human being to him. Yes, there may have been moments he cared for as the mother of his children but the beast of his ego forever awakens when Anu becomes “threat” to his life. However, Anu is no longer protected by a family that stands up at their convenience yet still feels intimated by Vanraj; Anuj is a shield of protecting that can never break. I found it interesting that Baa and Kinjal find it Abu’s responsibility to handle Mukku regarding Vanraj’s business plan but nobody is assessing or willing to speak up to Vanraj. At one point Baa needs to take away the blind fold and realize who her son truly is capable off.

READ this guys .. i exactly feel this and hence am copy pasting from insta (written by someone who follows Anupamaa). The writers are not able to show this properly at all and keeping too many loop holes. hence we are getting very annoyed as we are unable to connect.

I agree to this 100% Mukku really needs a talk from Anu regarding how horrible Vanraj is, was and will forever be... if she actually listens to what happened to her then she might realise that it's not less than the trauma she has been through in her marriage.

I actually feel bad for Anu sometimes that the entire family depends on her to solve the tiniest of their problems even after moving out...sometimes she voluntarily interferes (which is infuriating sometimes, but idk maybe a mother can't tolerate her children, (however big they are) living in such toxic environment, so she tries to solve them).

Originally posted by: RainFire125

Right now Mukku is attempting to take control over her own life choices hence the executive decision about Mumbai. She is also looking for affection and love. We don’t know how Akshay treated her but we know the trauma her ex husband inflicted. And Vanraj may not be a “womanizer” but he knows how to manipulate women easily including his own mother. Today’s tactic: wanting empathy because “his spouse do no longer cares now that she’s progressing”. Vanraj wants women in his life to progress at his will. Without instigating him, Anu would have given Anuj clues about Vanraj’s tactics and they could have handled the situation tactfully. What Anui needs to understand was Anu wasn’t trying to hide the truth from him; but as she is building a relationship with Mukku, she also needs to build that trust so Mukku will be receptive to her advice. Yet, any big brother would be angered knowing your sister is trapped by the worst type of evil again. Vanraj knows how to alter himself to fit the needs/ wants of the women he preys on because he managed to this for eight years between his wife and his mistress. In this moment Mukku is blind and not willing to listen because Vanraj has already groomed and presented himself as a loving, caring, individual who is misjudged and taken advantage off. What Mukku needs to understand was Anu’s diplomacy was keeping peace between herself and the father of her children which Vanraj could never uphold. Truthfully when it comes to his ego and Anu; Vanraj is capable of murder curtained by an accident because Anu was never a human being to him. Yes, there may have been moments he cared for as the mother of his children but the beast of his ego forever awakens when Anu becomes “threat” to his life. However, Anu is no longer protected by a family that stands up at their convenience yet still feels intimated by Vanraj; Anuj is a shield of protecting that can never break. I found it interesting that Baa and Kinjal find it Abu’s responsibility to handle Mukku regarding Vanraj’s business plan but nobody is assessing or willing to speak up to Vanraj. At one point Baa needs to take away the blind fold and realize who her son truly is capable off.

READ this guys .. i exactly feel this and hence am copy pasting from insta (written by someone who follows Anupamaa). The writers are not able to show this properly at all and keeping too many loop holes. hence we are getting very annoyed as we are unable to connect.

Very true… V knows how to manipulate woman accordingly. He changes shades faster than chameleon.



Vanraj wants women in his life to progress at his will.

Anu had mentioned same thing post bhumi pujan and then again on the last argument between them at Shahs.
For now, Mukku is agreeing to all his whims and fancies, also sympathizing with his dukh n dard. It gives him a boost in ego and new high every day. Tomm when Mukku disagrees, then his reactions has to seen - how he masks his anger.

Mukku at that point didn’t seemed like some one who can be pacified anyone other than Anu. That Mukku can be calmed only by a level headed and composed person which would be Anu. Neither protective brother Anuj nor egotistic V can handle her. She needs patient ears when she seems to vent out or express herself rather than inputting their views. Anu listens to people and gives fair opinions to others but she becomes dumb when it’s her turn. Anyways that’s off topic for now.


Maybe there can be an altercation between V n M due to inflated ego of V, which might give an opportunity for Anu put across her point of how V isn’t the victim as he tries to portray.

Originally posted by: RainFire125

Right now Mukku is attempting to take control over her own life choices hence the executive decision about Mumbai. She is also looking for affection and love. We don’t know how Akshay treated her but we know the trauma her ex husband inflicted. And Vanraj may not be a “womanizer” but he knows how to manipulate women easily including his own mother. Today’s tactic: wanting empathy because “his spouse do no longer cares now that she’s progressing”. Vanraj wants women in his life to progress at his will. Without instigating him, Anu would have given Anuj clues about Vanraj’s tactics and they could have handled the situation tactfully. What Anui needs to understand was Anu wasn’t trying to hide the truth from him; but as she is building a relationship with Mukku, she also needs to build that trust so Mukku will be receptive to her advice. Yet, any big brother would be angered knowing your sister is trapped by the worst type of evil again. Vanraj knows how to alter himself to fit the needs/ wants of the women he preys on because he managed to this for eight years between his wife and his mistress. In this moment Mukku is blind and not willing to listen because Vanraj has already groomed and presented himself as a loving, caring, individual who is misjudged and taken advantage off. What Mukku needs to understand was Anu’s diplomacy was keeping peace between herself and the father of her children which Vanraj could never uphold. Truthfully when it comes to his ego and Anu; Vanraj is capable of murder curtained by an accident because Anu was never a human being to him. Yes, there may have been moments he cared for as the mother of his children but the beast of his ego forever awakens when Anu becomes “threat” to his life. However, Anu is no longer protected by a family that stands up at their convenience yet still feels intimated by Vanraj; Anuj is a shield of protecting that can never break. I found it interesting that Baa and Kinjal find it Abu’s responsibility to handle Mukku regarding Vanraj’s business plan but nobody is assessing or willing to speak up to Vanraj. At one point Baa needs to take away the blind fold and realize who her son truly is capable off.

READ this guys .. i exactly feel this and hence am copy pasting from insta (written by someone who follows Anupamaa). The writers are not able to show this properly at all and keeping too many loop holes. hence we are getting very annoyed as we are unable to connect.

I agree that Anu needs to take Mukku in confidence that if Anu says something then She will listen and follow it. Anuj is some king of unbreakable sheild for Anu.

But being a brother I still believe that he needs to know what his sister is about to indulge into so that he can prepare for the battle, even ready for mind games if it requires.

Originally posted by: RainFire125

Right now Mukku is attempting to take control over her own life choices hence the executive decision about Mumbai. She is also looking for affection and love. We don’t know how Akshay treated her but we know the trauma her ex husband inflicted. And Vanraj may not be a “womanizer” but he knows how to manipulate women easily including his own mother. Today’s tactic: wanting empathy because “his spouse do no longer cares now that she’s progressing”. Vanraj wants women in his life to progress at his will. Without instigating him, Anu would have given Anuj clues about Vanraj’s tactics and they could have handled the situation tactfully. What Anui needs to understand was Anu wasn’t trying to hide the truth from him; but as she is building a relationship with Mukku, she also needs to build that trust so Mukku will be receptive to her advice. Yet, any big brother would be angered knowing your sister is trapped by the worst type of evil again. Vanraj knows how to alter himself to fit the needs/ wants of the women he preys on because he managed to this for eight years between his wife and his mistress. In this moment Mukku is blind and not willing to listen because Vanraj has already groomed and presented himself as a loving, caring, individual who is misjudged and taken advantage off. What Mukku needs to understand was Anu’s diplomacy was keeping peace between herself and the father of her children which Vanraj could never uphold. Truthfully when it comes to his ego and Anu; Vanraj is capable of murder curtained by an accident because Anu was never a human being to him. Yes, there may have been moments he cared for as the mother of his children but the beast of his ego forever awakens when Anu becomes “threat” to his life. However, Anu is no longer protected by a family that stands up at their convenience yet still feels intimated by Vanraj; Anuj is a shield of protecting that can never break. I found it interesting that Baa and Kinjal find it Abu’s responsibility to handle Mukku regarding Vanraj’s business plan but nobody is assessing or willing to speak up to Vanraj. At one point Baa needs to take away the blind fold and realize who her son truly is capable off.

READ this guys .. i exactly feel this and hence am copy pasting from insta (written by someone who follows Anupamaa). The writers are not able to show this properly at all and keeping too many loop holes. hence we are getting very annoyed as we are unable to connect.

Why am I not surprised and can totally relate to this, at least most part of it..

Infact G, you and I could have written this too...

Only point I disagree is Anu is intimated by Vanraj even today, despite having Anuj by her side.. I strongly feel it's her attachment, it's her "I can handle it all" what you also said...

I feel what we saw today is another damage control like DV flashback. Now to get viewers like Anu they are all of sudden throwing this angle.. till now, not even in one scene she never felt intimated, her bhashan, getting Kavya in office.

Once again her words today and past actions are not in sync... I would say a good cover up once again at cost of Anuj/Maan... He could never gain her trust and made her secure enough if she feels intimated by Vanraj even today.

or even if she is scared of Anuj's anger, then my dear lady you don't know this man yet. Hold on to your horses before you confess your love.. after Vanraj, anger should have been 1st thing you check in the man.

Thought process we all can relate but why it is still the same for these characters. Where is the growth?

And why viewers are treated like fool who don't need any explanation. Or some mind reader who will still understand everything.

It's us online folks who read all this but TRP audience if they can't relate they just change the channel. And that is what has happened.

Mukku problem even today has a very very simple solution. Anu need not even share her past nor Anuj needs any drastic measures. They can just ask Mukku to test her new partner on 2 aspects -

a) when she says no, how does he react (after a point vanraj ego will not take no, so far she is yes partner type). Like your husband, check this man's ego.

b) Money angle, tell him that she has returned all property to Anuj and need to move out of Anuj's office. Like Akshay cut the money loop

Anyways, this is ITV and they need kaand.. so I know it won't happen this way..then Hero needs to support his friend so Kavya will play a role, Anu will be become mahaan etc etc...

Originally posted by: Km181

Why am I not surprised and can totally relate to this, at least most part of it..

Infact G, you and I could have written this too...

Only point I disagree is Anu is intimated by Vanraj even today, despite having Anuj by her side.. I strongly feel it's her attachment, it's her "I can handle it all" what you also said...

I feel what we saw today is another damage control like DV flashback. Now to get viewers like Anu they are all of sudden throwing this angle.. till now, not even in one scene she never felt intimated, her bhashan, getting Kavya in office.

Once again her words today and past actions are not in sync... I would say a good cover up once again at cost of Anuj/Maan... He could never gain her trust and made her secure enough if she feels intimated by Vanraj even today.

or even if she is scared of Anuj's anger, then my dear lady you don't know this man yet. Hold on to your horses before you confess your love.. after Vanraj, anger should have been 1st thing you check in the man.

Thought process we all can relate but why it is still the same for these characters. Where is the growth?

And why viewers are treated like fool who don't need any explanation. Or some mind reader who will still understand everything.

It's us online folks who read all this but TRP audience if they can't relate they just change the channel. And that is what has happened.

Mukku problem even today has a very very simple solution. Anu need not even share her past nor Anuj needs any drastic measures. They can just ask Mukku to test her new partner on 2 aspects -

a) when she says no, how does he react (after a point vanraj ego will not take no, so far she is yes partner type). Like your husband, check this man's ego.

b) Money angle, tell him that she has returned all property to Anuj and need to move out of Anuj's office. Like Akshay cut the money loop

Anyways, this is ITV and they need kaand.. so I know it won't happen this way..then Hero needs to support his friend so Kavya will play a role, Anu will be become mahaan etc etc...

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Originally posted by: Km181

Why am I not surprised and can totally relate to this, at least most part of it..

Infact G, you and I could have written this too...

Only point I disagree is Anu is intimated by Vanraj even today, despite having Anuj by her side.. I strongly feel it's her attachment, it's her "I can handle it all" what you also said...

I feel what we saw today is another damage control like DV flashback. Now to get viewers like Anu they are all of sudden throwing this angle.. till now, not even in one scene she never felt intimated, her bhashan, getting Kavya in office.

Once again her words today and past actions are not in sync... I would say a good cover up once again at cost of Anuj/Maan... He could never gain her trust and made her secure enough if she feels intimated by Vanraj even today.

or even if she is scared of Anuj's anger, then my dear lady you don't know this man yet. Hold on to your horses before you confess your love.. after Vanraj, anger should have been 1st thing you check in the man.

Thought process we all can relate but why it is still the same for these characters. Where is the growth?

And why viewers are treated like fool who don't need any explanation. Or some mind reader who will still understand everything.

It's us online folks who read all this but TRP audience if they can't relate they just change the channel. And that is what has happened.

Mukku problem even today has a very very simple solution. Anu need not even share her past nor Anuj needs any drastic measures. They can just ask Mukku to test her new partner on 2 aspects -

a) when she says no, how does he react (after a point vanraj ego will not take no, so far she is yes partner type). Like your husband, check this man's ego.

b) Money angle, tell him that she has returned all property to Anuj and need to move out of Anuj's office. Like Akshay cut the money loop

Anyways, this is ITV and they need kaand.. so I know it won't happen this way..then Hero needs to support his friend so Kavya will play a role, Anu will be become mahaan etc etc...

hahaah, i was expecting something like this from you dear girl!!! :)

yeah, this could have been very well be written by any of us :) Infact at times what I think is so much in sync with this writer that i pinch myself...hahaha

Coming to Anu, yes she has a mahanta syndrom but lets set that aside for a bit, be in her shoes and think. Has she ever has a breather from Shahs - Nope. Will we all blame her for that - Yep, mostly so bec we feel she has not drawn the line. Maybe so, maybe its really tough for her ti draw lines. Does this give her that chance to think, weigh what she really wants and grow - YESS, absolutely!! Now coming to whether she is still intimidated by V - not in the real sense, but i feel there is that habitual fear deep down. I say this bec I have not seen Anu heal normally or rather evidently. So I am bound to assume that she is still effected. She has just pushed the feelings so deep taht she does not know it hersefl. She has to outrightly destroy his ego again and again and again and again!!! Then one day she will be free of that grip or fear she still has deep down.

BOLD - I agree!!! And we will see one glimpse tomorrow i think. But as you said this is a long running drama filled show and they need to have stupidity/illogical things play out!!

Originally posted by: arya212002

Very true… V knows how to manipulate woman accordingly. He changes shades faster than chameleon.



Vanraj wants women in his life to progress at his will.

Anu had mentioned same thing post bhumi pujan and then again on the last argument between them at Shahs.
For now, Mukku is agreeing to all his whims and fancies, also sympathizing with his dukh n dard. It gives him a boost in ego and new high every day. Tomm when Mukku disagrees, then his reactions has to seen - how he masks his anger.

Mukku at that point didn’t seemed like some one who can be pacified anyone other than Anu. That Mukku can be calmed only by a level headed and composed person which would be Anu. Neither protective brother Anuj nor egotistic V can handle her. She needs patient ears when she seems to vent out or express herself rather than inputting their views. Anu listens to people and gives fair opinions to others but she becomes dumb when it’s her turn. Anyways that’s off topic for now.


Maybe there can be an altercation between V n M due to inflated ego of V, which might give an opportunity for Anu put across her point of how V isn’t the victim as he tries to portray.

this is beauty about emotions and relations na Arya... how we listen, observe and handle. This also takes time. We cannot be impulsive or whimsical and if that leads to some loss so be it. For the longer run and for the benefit of that person whom i care about, i will accept any loss, wont i???

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Originally posted by: RainFire125

hahaah, i was expecting something like this from you dear girl!!! :)

yeah, this could have been very well be written by any of us :) Infact at times what I think is so much in sync with this writer that i pinch myself...hahaha

Coming to Anu, yes she has a mahanta syndrom but lets set that aside for a bit, be in her shoes and think. Has she ever has a breather from Shahs - Nope. Will we all blame her for that - Yep, mostly so bec we feel she has not drawn the line. Maybe so, maybe its really tough for her ti draw lines. Does this give her that chance to think, weigh what she really wants and grow - YESS, absolutely!! Now coming to whether she is still intimidated by V - not in the real sense, but i feel there is that habitual fear deep down. I say this bec I have not seen Anu heal normally or rather evidently. So I am bound to assume that she is still effected. She has just pushed the feelings so deep taht she does not know it hersefl. She has to outrightly destroy his ego again and again and again and again!!! Then one day she will be free of that grip or fear she still has deep down.

BOLD - I agree!!! And we will see one glimpse tomorrow i think. But as you said this is a long running drama filled show and they need to have stupidity/illogical things play out!!

Gosh... Now I feel we are giving this serial way more importance than it deserves.. it was good few months back...but now it's real s**t

Sorry for my crude language but makers have done real bad job and they have shown so so conflicting confusing sides. That viewer's are taking side and discussing which is right..

The fact is my dear..both are right...makers have shown both...so just take your pick but be aware that other is not wrong either..

It's two sides of the same coin...

You are so right, Anu is never shown to heal..she has never been able to draw boundaries..I will but question what prevented here...

She herself and her blind love for Baa-bapuji.

Initially, I didn't tag anyone but now. I will tag you to my two comments. Please read and let me know your thoughts, would love to know your perspective....

Today, I hate to see viewers being divided on topics like whether we are judging Anu harsh or being insensitive..

first it's fictional second the story has never been consistent..