PRECAP-Anuj is Anu's Gunehgar because - Page 3

Originally posted by: magicalM

Mera measn regret se nahi she will not regret par she will think that situation . Think or regret mein difference hai.

I guess I misread ur post …my needle was still stuck in Anuj’s regret toh I might have read this too as regret😂

Originally posted by: arya212002

Regret is such a strong emotion that we often hear that even God forgives the one who regrets from heart.

From Anuj’s view, his saying gunehgar is his guilt n regret…. Had he said it to her once - the possibility of no is altogether a diff scenario, but had he said, they could have been together, she never would have to suffer, he could have been more happier and life would have been better, relationship with sister would have never estranged, Mukku might have not disliked Anu, the pain of someone disliking his love wouldn’t have been there, he might not have ever needed to hide it from Anu abt Mukku n thus him hurting her won’t have happened …so all in all he didn’t confess which led to all this….that’s his thoughts….his regrets. On top of it, he has been lonely all along, 26!yrs without love, 10 yrs without sister, 20 yrs without parents - today he is in pain seeing his sister n Anu both in pain- all together a mess.


Now from Anu’s view - he hasn’t done any wrong by not confessing earlier hence she has not anger in her towards him for that.

I believe that we rather look at his emotional state and the mess he is in rather than taking the words in literal sense.

Does it make sense🤔

This guy really needs a hug and all the love in the world...the sleep in her lap, bet after 26 years he would have slept so peacefully finally..

@bold : the sad and painful reality of his life..

However I need Anu to speak up and free him from this guilt which is not needed. We make or break our own destiny.. here, his not proposing on time had such adverse effects on his life.

he needs to learn that he is not responsible for others life... note this is how even Anu used to think, blaming herself for any fault in shah house..they both are so similar pure souls ❤️❤️

He is guilty towards Anu as per me on just one count, which is not sharing his pain with her.. basically related to this muku thing

Yaar I want to give a tight hug to this man...this cute bacha has my heart 😘😘😘

Originally posted by: Km181

This guy really needs a hug and all the love in the world...the sleep in her lap, bet after 26 years he would have slept so peacefully finally..

@bold : the sad and painful reality of his life..

However I need Anu to speak up and free him from this guilt which is not needed. We make or break our own destiny.. here, his not proposing on time had such adverse effects on his life.

he needs to learn that he is not responsible for others life... note this is how even Anu used to think, blaming herself for any fault in shah house..they both are so similar pure souls ❤️❤️

He is guilty towards Anu as per me on just one count, which is not sharing his pain with her.. basically related to this muku thing

Yaar I want to give a tight hug to this man...this cute bacha has my heart 😘😘😘

I think they would have that talk next day- in that new MaAn pic thread, I mentioned it could be a temple scene- so keeping your thoughts n precap in mind, I am sure they both won’t get a chance in night and next day, she could talk n release from burden -what better place than temple

Originally posted by: arya212002

I think they would have that talk next day- in that new MaAn pic thread, I mentioned it could be a temple scene- so keeping your thoughts n precap in mind, I am sure they both won’t get a chance in night and next day, she could talk n release from burden -what better place than temple

Wow, would love to see that... temple has such soothing effect on my mind.. I mean personally for me and I see here for MaAn too ❤️

Originally posted by: Km181

This guy really needs a hug and all the love in the world...the sleep in her lap, bet after 26 years he would have slept so peacefully finally..

@bold : the sad and painful reality of his life..

However I need Anu to speak up and free him from this guilt which is not needed. We make or break our own destiny.. here, his not proposing on time had such adverse effects on his life.

he needs to learn that he is not responsible for others life... note this is how even Anu used to think, blaming herself for any fault in shah house..they both are so similar pure souls ❤️❤️

He is guilty towards Anu as per me on just one count, which is not sharing his pain with her.. basically related to this muku thing

Yaar I want to give a tight hug to this man...this cute bacha has my heart 😘😘😘

No i feel he said Mukku ke saath tumhara bhi gunehgaar hoon so this means he is guilty for ruining Anu' s life by not proposing her at right time 26 yrs back. This i am saying as he said that thing in ME(2 oct) ki meri wajay se Anu ko wo zindagi nahi mili jo milni chahiye thi . And Mukku thing share naa karna koi gunaah thodi naa ho gaya . here Gunaah towards Anu means ruining Anu's life by not saying his dil ki baat on time in college. So his not saying on time basically wasted Anu precious 25 yrs of her life😭

Originally posted by: magicalM

Are u ar taking it wrong means jab use pyaar hua to prosose karna chahiya tha, vanraaj ka rishta to bahut baad mein aaya tha Anu ke pass. Anu ne poore 6-7 months waste kiya the Anu ko batane mein. Anu parents were ready for marriage but Anuj fight mein ilajh gaya tha.

Anupamaa's mother got her married that early because she was a poor widow & Vanraj was an earning man from a better-off family.

Kya ho jata Anuj ke confess karne se? Anupamaa was never rebellious enough to fight for anything (divorce & separation bhi badi mushkil se hui hai). Anupamaa's mother wouldn't have waited on some 19-year-old boy to grow up & marry her daughter. She would have made Anupamaa sit at home out of fear of badnaami & still gotten her married to Vanraj (or another similar older, well-earning, suitable arranged match)

Look around you. Ye Indian families mein bohot common story hai.

Originally posted by: usernameyrkkh

Anupamaa's mother got her married that early because she was a poor widower & Vanraj was an earning man from a better-off family.

Kya ho jata Anuj ke confess karne se? Anupamaa was never rebellious enough to fight for anything (divorce & separation bhi badi mushkil se hui hai). Anupamaa's mother wouldn't have waited on some 19-year-old boy to grow up & marry her daughter. She would have made Anupamaa sit at home out of fear of badnaami & still gotten her married to Vanraj (or another similar older, well-earning, suitable arranged match)

Look around you. Ye Indian families mein bohot common story hai.

I feel wo yahi kahega ki agar maine propose kiya hota to main gunehgaar hoon as he had said this with GK. Baaki kal dekhte hai.

Originally posted by: magicalM

No i feel he said Mukku ke saath tumhara bhi gunehgaar hoon so this means he is guilty for ruining Anu' s life by not proposing her at right time 26 yrs back. This i am saying as he said that thing in ME(2 oct) ki meri wajay se Anu ko wo zindagi nahi mili jo milni chahiye thi . And Mukku thing share naa karna koi gunaah thodi naa ho gaya . here Gunaah towards Anu means ruining Anu's life by not saying his dil ki baat on time in college. So his not saying on time basically wasted Anu precious 25 yrs of her life😭

Probably you didn't read my comments fully or maybe I wasn't clear

I never said hiding Muku thing was gunaah..all I said was that he was guilty of that one and only thing towards Anu..

Next comes, what Anuj thinks his gunaah is for Anu. But I don't agree with him and want Anu to make it clear to him.. copying again.

However I need Anu to speak up and free him from this guilt which is not needed. We make or break our own destiny.. here, his not proposing on time had such adverse effects on his life.

he needs to learn that he is not responsible for others life... note this is how even Anu used to think, blaming herself for any fault in shah house..they both are so similar pure souls ❤️❤️

So what happened with Anu in those 26 years is not his fault...

His fault is towards himself for his own hurt for 26 years.. had he spoken up on time..he would have had that consolation that he tried, he shared his feelings... In the end choice was Anu's only na.

Originally posted by: sunshine36

After Anu, kavya and Vanraj leave after their presentation in the initial episodes..Anuj does mention to GK on how his parents too pushed him to go and express his feelings. Thats when he speaks of bunty and the scooter🙂..so it was not about parents not being ready..everything was in his favor except 'time'...he waited for right timr and that unfortunately ended up in a 26 yr wait..ughhh!!😒

Absolutely agreed that the support system in Kapadia House was very different from Tamashah House.

Anujs intention of bashing folks with his hockey stick too was censured by his parents.

Anuj the college kid was impetuous. He was fiercely protective of his Anu even then but right through he had maintaonted his maryadha. He never crossed the line. This delay he feels came in the way of what could have been a fairytale wedding,

Not sure if Kanthaben would have accepted Anujs proposal. Ladlas dadi must have known the family she saw in Anupama a bahu that Leela could never have been and so despite Leelas POV brought home Anupama.

Our liberty ends with our nose! We can only be held responsible for what ouractions and words are! By not voicing his love Anuj had lost the opportunity and as it turned out both their lives were lonely. Hers despite giving her all was a abusive relationship living her scarred, anuj thus carries guilt. Blaming himself for not speaking up when required.

Life has a lot of ifs and buts. When we are at a crossroad we do ponder and choose what then seems a better option. Kantaben could have had the option, it could have been hobsons choice that made her settle for Ladla. The effort atleast could have been made. That remains his regret. He could have been turned down yet he would have the solace that he tried. He doesn't have it now.