PRECAP-Anuj is Anu's Gunehgar because

In precap Anuj said to Anu ki wo Mukku ke saath saath uska bhi gunehgaar hai because he thinks ki agar usne Anu ko 26 yrs pehle apne dil ki baat keh di hoti❤️ to uski life aise naa hoti jaise abhi hai. Yes this is the reason why he thinks he is Anu's gunehgaar . He said so so sorry to Anu by breaking down in her lap🥺He thinks he is responsible for her 25 yrs of misery usne ye baat 2 oct ME mein GK se kahi thi.

Originally posted by: magicalM

In precap Anuj said to Anu ki wo Mukku ke saath saath uska bhi gunehgaar hai because he thinks ki agar usne Anu ko 26 yrs pehle apne dil ki baat keh di hoti❤️ to uski life aise naa hoti jaise abhi hai. Yes this is the reason why he thinks he is Anu's gunehgaar . He said so so sorry to Anu by breaking down in her lap🥺He thinks he is responsible for her 25 yrs of misery usne ye baat 2 oct ME mein GK se kahi thi.

Isn't that stupidity, Anu would have said No to him then.. remember on the reunion night when he offered to drop home her answer was no..and Devika pointed out even during college days her answer would have been no. Only if he had directly involved his parents to her parents, he might have had a chance.

Yes I remember that episode and even then I felt he was wrong

Originally posted by: Km181

Isn't that stupidity, Anu would have said No to him then.. remember on the reunion night when he offered to drop home her answer was no..and Devika pointed out even during college days her answer would have been no. Only if he had directly involved his parents to her parents, he might have had a chance.

Yes I remember that episode and even then I felt he was wrong

He said naa har baat kehne mein der kar jaata hoon yahi reason hai agar usne apne dil ki baat Anu ko 26 yrs pehle batayi hoti to aaj Anu ki life aise naa hoti. Varna Gunehgaar wo Anu ka kaise ho gaya dekhan yahi reason hoga.

Originally posted by: Km181

Isn't that stupidity, Anu would have said No to him then.. remember on the reunion night when he offered to drop home her answer was no..and Devika pointed out even during college days her answer would have been no. Only if he had directly involved his parents to her parents, he might have had a chance.

Yes I remember that episode and even then I felt he was wrong

And noticed one thing when he said in Precap wo Mukku ke saath Anu ka bhi Gunehgaar hai to Anu ke face pe koi anger nahi tha agar koi aur baat hoti chupi hui to Anu ka facial expression kuch aur hota. Anuj apne dil mein yahi sochta hai ki agar usne sahi time pe Anu ko college mein hi propose kar diya hota to uski life aaj fairytale hoti.

No dear its not stupidity. Anu turning him down is secondary but the fact that he dint express himself is the regret. Anu saying no was definitely a possibility but Anuj not expressing his love is a reality that he is living with. so he is only guilty of something that could have been even if the chances of it happening was 1% but knowing he dint even try is what is eating him up for all these decades. Hope I could articulate it in a sensible way🤗🤗😋

Originally posted by: sunshine36

No dear its not stupidity. Anu turning him down is secondary but the fact that he dint express himself is the regret. Anu saying no was definitely a possibility but Anuj not expressing his love is a reality that he is living with. so he is only guilty of something that could have been even if the chances of it happening was 1% but knowing he dint even try is what is eating him up for all these decades. Hope I could articulate it in a sensible way🤗🤗😋

Yes he said ki har baat kehne mein der kar jaata hoon. I wonder if Anuj parents were ready to make Anu their bahu or not

Originally posted by: sunshine36

No dear its not stupidity. Anu turning him down is secondary but the fact that he dint express himself is the regret. Anu saying no was definitely a possibility but Anuj not expressing his love is a reality that he is living with. so he is only guilty of something that could have been even if the chances of it happening was 1% but knowing he dint even try is what is eating him up for all these decades. Hope I could articulate it in a sensible way🤗🤗😋

I will be back on this in a while🙂..,lil busy now but have many things to share

After Anu, kavya and Vanraj leave after their presentation in the initial episodes..Anuj does mention to GK on how his parents too pushed him to go and express his feelings. Thats when he speaks of bunty and the scooter🙂..so it was not about parents not being ready..everything was in his favor except 'time'...he waited for right timr and that unfortunately ended up in a 26 yr wait..ughhh!!😒

Originally posted by: sunshine36

No dear its not stupidity. Anu turning him down is secondary but the fact that he dint express himself is the regret. Anu saying no was definitely a possibility but Anuj not expressing his love is a reality that he is living with. so he is only guilty of something that could have been even if the chances of it happening was 1% but knowing he dint even try is what is eating him up for all these decades. Hope I could articulate it in a sensible way🤗🤗😋

Agreed, if you look from that perspective... Yes, that way he even blames himself for fight because of which he was in hospital for 10 days and reached on her wedding day..

Imagine the fiasco if for some reason he had seen a sad Anu and proposed her on her marriage..the bad name her family would have got..

Me being a practical person felt, in a way it was better for Anu that he didn't propose...her marriage was fixed anyways... Otherwise like ae dil hai mushkil during those 25 years she would have always compared and thought what if I had married Anuj then.. who knows she might still do now...

Also, being a man he doesn't understand the repercussions. Anu might have got scolding from her mother then. Recall her mother dialogues that they would lock the girl if a boy follows... His proposal then would have made things only worst for her...

Trust me, it's no joke. I have seen firsthand a girl being penalized because some guy in class fancy her. I know how scare she was, poor girl could never enjoy her college life.. we don't get this chance twice...till date, she has that regret of not being able to enjoy her college. How could one then differentiate Anuj from roadside Romeo..

Originally posted by: sunshine36

After Anu, kavya and Vanraj leave after their presentation in the initial episodes..Anuj does mention to GK on how his parents too pushed him to go and express his feelings. Thats when he speaks of bunty and the scooter🙂..so it was not about parents not being ready..everything was in his favor except 'time'...he waited for right timr and that unfortunately ended up in a 26 yr wait..ughhh!!😒

Yes, I believe he took his Mom's kangan to propose on valentine's day...all I meant was he should have send his parents directly to her parents...

His proposal would have had no effect and only made things worse for her.