What could have Made Anupama a doormat? - Page 2

This cannot be more perfect. Yes she was brought up and send to her in law's like most of the girls that what to say and what not to, and no matter what do not say anything against in law's and always respect them even if they take her for granted or doormat.

Every once in a while I ask women to show me the debit card and many times they say it's at home and I probe further to ask where, with whom, who all know the pin. Sometimes I tell them I will notify bank your compliance is breached.

Agreed that we need to raise both genders to respect the other, we don't need folks like Vanraj and his Ladla neither do we need Kavyas.

Those of us who are in a position where we can influence others we can do our bit to make a change.

Folks can be like devika and Kinjal taking a stance for others.

Yes, I see that same conditioning in many women family members. We drive women to seek approval, from their parents first, their in-laws next, their husband, then their children and sometimes even the spouses of their children. Few women are able to break this conditional chain of seeking approval. 😭

My grandmother was a strong personality and finally stopped caring and decided to rule her own roost. But she wasn’t able to fix her daughters’ attitudes. Some of them have still not come out of this hole, while others are inching out slowly. ❤️

Yes I try to impart values during me lecture whenever possible.

About equality about financial freedom.

About toxic relationship with bf gf most of them are in that phase but obviously they don't say it

I even have a lot of good as well as bad examples of bf gf so o tell them if it'd turning out to be toxic it's better to walk away

This is good u asking the women about the debit cards and about compliance too

I think in our own small way if we empower the women around us it gives them a certain sense of self worth. I got married when I was doing my PG. I saw my mil did not have a bank account. I had a post office account as a kid and later a sb account and RD for money I'd save from my pocket money.

I started an SB account and insisted my husband should give her an amount every month. When my brother started working I told him to give my mom a fixed amount every month.

My MIL told me I was very money minded I smiled and let it pass.

Today many decades later she and I have a joint account. Just for her comfort.

I've ensured all my helpers have bank accounts that's the least I can do.

Yes change comes from within small things in our everyday lives in our families eventually the society

In Tamil Prakash Raj sir will tell in one film

Avan Avan thirunthina thaan seri aagum