Why can’t they give refreshing look to Anupama?? DT NOTE Pg13 - Page 9

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

It's so beyond ridiculous what they are showing in the name of mahaanta/sanskaars, agar saari zindagi aisi hi rehni thi toh phir divorce kis liye?? 😵

Maata ji has touched new heights in doormat behaviour, even in ITV 🤢

Also kids are no excuse in this situation, they are all adults or nearly adults, one of her sons is even married for heaven's sake...

And asking Baa's permission is just absurd but what better can we expect from a person who still performs all DIL's duties even after divorce and remarriage of her former husband in the same of sanskaar 😵

Anuj is my last hope from this show lol, if he doesn't give Maata ji some tough love and finally bring about a permanent change in her character, I think I'll just stop watching again.

Because these CVs are well capable of showing Anuj becoming mahaan under Anu maata's influence and moving into chidiyaghar with her instead!

Do you remember we all were so happy the day divorce happened and anupama shifted to another villa!!

What happened after this?! Nothing?! They came back to ahmedabad and everything is back to square and we never get a chance to see anupama’s villa attitude again.
We all were quite hopeful in the forum and had discussed about new beginnings from the divorce day but till date nothing is changed after divorce.

As you said Anuj is last hope , agar Anuj bhi mataji ke influence mai shah familiar ka doormat bann gaya toh I guess humko bhi iss forum + show ko Tata -bye-bye karne ka time aa jayega 😆

Originally posted by: Krithzz

You edited and added this para.

So missed out this .so quoting again.

This is the point ! people are just discussing , declaring here only about external maker only .atleast majority.🤔 They should point out makers about internal,mental change attitude for lead. This is needed first but it will take time. This is a show .for trp all drama needed. Like I said in reality it takes time for people like anu to come out of the shell and in serials it will take years 🤣

Iss forum mai sab daily basis par internal / mental attitude par post banate hai ! There are numerous threads on this topic and numerous pages of discussion too 😆😆welcome to the forum 😆😆 Kindly go through all the threads which we had created about mental emotion health . I know it’s too much to read but it will cover the bases .

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Mental attitude kabhi ITV heroine ka strong nahi hota . Sab ki sab doormat , damsel in distress, abla nari he hoti hai till the last episode of the show.

Mental attitude change karna he hota toh jaise anupama resort mai dusre villa mai shift ho gayi thi waise he ahmedabad wapas aa kar bhi shift ho gayi hoti ! So it’s clear from maker’s side that they are not interested in changing Anupama ‘s mental attitude just like other itv heroines. That’s why after months of divorce still nothing is changed.

So better to ask for both mental change and refreshing look at a same time! Kya pata koi ek wish Puri ho jaye 😆😆

Wishes will be full filled depending on trp🤣 sab trp ka maya 🤣 if audiences who like doormat attitude are giving trp then this is what they will show . This is what tv serials heroines majority is all about because this what gives them trp from ages . Few online viewers like us might discuss or not like all this but trp givers are different set of people and makers know it well

Originally posted by: chenjulia110

Anupama is low key suffering from stockholm syndrome where she has developed feelings of attachment and positive emotions to baa and has developed a sense of sympathy for vanraj.

Anupama will not grow as a person and start treating herself like she deserves to be treated as long as the underlying psychological issues arent addressed and treated.

Anupama has been able to call out kavya for her behavior because she has not suffered abuse at her hands and kavya has never been in a position of authority in anupama's life. Hardly the same can be said about vanraj and baa

I knew it since long time that Anupama has some psychological issue but I was not aware with the name which you said “ Stockholm syndrome “

The thing is who will focus on her psychological issue and help her ? Seeing her attitude, it’s very difficult for people like her to accept it as first step !

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Iss forum mai sab daily basis par internal / mental attitude par post banate hai ! There are numerous threads on this topic and numerous pages of discussion too 😆😆welcome to the forum 😆😆 Kindly go through all the threads which we had created about mental emotion health . I know it’s too much to read but it will cover the bases .

🤣 🤣 thank you but looks like you are warning me🤣beware 🤣 topics are crazy just like Anupama and family members🤣

The very first thing anupama needs to do is to leave that narcissistic shah family.. once she leaves the house, she’ll become more confident. She’ll be more happy and will have time for herself.

Originally posted by: Krithzz

🤣 🤣 thank you but looks like you are warning me🤣beware 🤣 topics are crazy just like Anupama and family members🤣

🤣🤣

Exactly! Because topics bane he hai Shah family ke uper 😆😆

Originally posted by: aptl123

The very first thing anupama needs to do is to leave that narcissistic shah family.. once she leaves the house, she’ll become more confident. She’ll be more happy and will have time for herself.

She needs to do this . This should be the first change. House is nothing less than circus🤣 any sane person will go crazy there even if they stay for a day .just imagine anu is there from 20+ years

Originally posted by: aptl123

The very first thing anupama needs to do is to leave that narcissistic shah family.. once she leaves the house, she’ll become more confident. She’ll be more happy and will have time for herself.

Muje lagta hai anupama ki dusri shaddi hogi toh he wo Yaha jayegi otherwise yahi rahegi !!

it all depends on bapuji s diplomacy , he made her stay there for their own benefits he allowed her to get the loan from Rakhi so blame only falls on Anupama ,by being the sweet towards her he is the main culprit ,baa only talks and what did he say Leela accepted me with all my faults .but why he never said that i accepted her which all her faults ?