Why can’t they give refreshing look to Anupama?? DT NOTE Pg13 - Page 8

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Exactly! She looks way more older than most of her contemporaries! AND makers are doing this forcefully!! She is around 44-45 but they give her dressing like 50-55 years old lady.

Since day 1 anupama’s life is full of majduri, I think Leela /vanraj ne usko kabhi shopping bhi nahi karne deti hogi and saloon bhi nahi jane deti hogi! Dekha na Aj bhi Leela kaise anupama ke reunion party mai jane ke against thi!!!

Jab 18 ki age mai pehla baccha ho gaya ho tab mothers itna agewali nahi dikhti hai! It’s nothing like anupama become first timemother at the age of 35 so she is older mother. Definitely she is quite younger mother of 3.

Yeah they should either dress her younger, or make her contemporaries look older because this is just looking weird...

If being a middle class housewife and having a somewhat unhappy marriage (up until she found out about the cheating around a year ago) destroys your health and makes you look 10 years older than your age (as some here are claiming), then most women in my family would be looking 60+ at 50 🤣!

Only poor health or extreme stress/abuse (none of which Anu suffered all these years) can actually make someone age prematurely like that...

Also on a side note it's funny how some of Anu's supporters here will exaggerate Baa and Vanraj's wrongdoings to the point of claiming they physically abused her (which has to be pure imagination because I never saw either of them hurt her physically 🤓) and blaming all her faults on said abuse, but won't question why Anu is herself choosing to stay with these people (plus Kavya which makes everything far worse) even AFTER divorce?

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

Yeah they should either dress her younger, or make her contemporaries look older because this is just looking weird...

If being a middle class housewife and having a somewhat unhappy marriage (up until she found out about the cheating around a year ago) destroys your health and makes you look 10 years older than your age (as some here are claiming), then most women in my family would be looking 60+ at 50 🤣!

Only poor health or extreme stress/abuse (none of which Anu suffered all these years) can actually make someone age prematurely like that...

Also on a side note it's funny how some of Anu's supporters here will exaggerate Baa and Vanraj's wrongdoings to the point of claiming they physically abused her (which has to be pure imagination because I never saw either of them hurt her physically 🤓) and blaming all her faults on said abuse, but won't question why Anu is herself choosing to stay with these people (plus Kavya which makes everything far worse) even AFTER divorce?

Lol anupama is the first woman I am seeing who is living with ex-in laws after divorce for children’s sake!!! Dunia mai itne sare divorce hote hai kya kisi ke bacche nahi hote hai ?!

And aisa toh hai nahi ki anupama ka divorce just yesterday hua hai ! It’s been months now! Still she continues doormat life specifically in front of baa and vanraj!! Why??? Did you watch today how she was waiting for baa’s permission?!

Agar Kavya ko bol sakti hai that she has to go to rakhi for her mistake then why she can’t show same guts in front of baa?! Aur kitna time baa and vanraj ke samne doormat life continue karegi??

People just want make over for Anu from outside not internally,mentally this is not romantic show to match up with hero and look young . 🤣🤣🤣Anu looks or say anyone's depends on body type and how they have maintained and how they think mentally and environment they are in and how they are treated and how they are made to think by other family members and all this make look people different be it under 50 or 50 + or 60+ also . Even I have seen this in my family and around 🤣🤣🤣 🤣I can say this with experience , confidence . Anu maker over should be gradually and first she should have make over mentally and then physically, dress , hairstyle .

Originally posted by: Krithzz

People just want make over for Anu from outside not internally,mentally this is not romantic show to match up with hero and look young . 🤣Anu looks or say anyone's depends on body type and how they have maintained and how they think mentally and environment they are in and how they are treated and how they are made to think by other family members and all this make look people different be it under 50 or 50 + or 60+ also . Even I have seen this in my family and around 🤣 I can say this with experience , confidence . Anu maker over should be gradually and first it should be make over mentally

Internally make over nahi chahte hote toh Aj bhi anupama ne baa ka permission liya uss baat ka humko kharab nahi lagta ! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Agar external fresh look ko discuss kar rahe hai sab that doesn’t mean log internal change nahi chahte aisa declare kar do 🤢

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Internally make over nahi chahte hote toh Aj bhi anupama ne baa ka permission liya uss baat ka humko kharab nahi lagta ! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

🤣🤣🤣 This is the point. She needs this change first . Audiences should point out this first to makers 🤣🤣🤣 wardrobe change should be next . First let makers change her mental attitude, emotional thing in her need to change and then rest

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Lol anupama is the first woman I am seeing who is living with ex-in laws after divorce for children’s sake!!! Dunia mai itne sare divorce hote hai kya kisi ke bacche nahi hote hai ?!

And aisa toh hai nahi ki anupama ka divorce just yesterday hua hai ! It’s been months now! Still she continues doormat life specifically in front of baa and vanraj!! Why??? Did you watch today how she was waiting for baa’s permission?!

Agar Kavya ko bol sakti hai that she has to go to rakhi for her mistake then why she can’t show same guts in front of baa?! Aur kitna time baa and vanraj ke samne doormat life continue karegi??

It's so beyond ridiculous what they are showing in the name of mahaanta/sanskaars, agar saari zindagi aisi hi rehni thi toh phir divorce kis liye?? 😵

Maata ji has touched new heights in doormat behaviour, even in ITV 🤢

Also kids are no excuse in this situation, they are all adults or nearly adults, one of her sons is even married for heaven's sake...

And asking Baa's permission is just absurd but what better can we expect from a person who still performs all DIL's duties even after divorce and remarriage of her former husband in the same of sanskaar 😵

Anuj is my last hope from this show lol, if he doesn't give Maata ji some tough love and finally bring about a permanent change in her character, I think I'll just stop watching again.

Because these CVs are well capable of showing Anuj becoming mahaan under Anu maata's influence and moving into chidiyaghar with her instead!

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Lol anupama is the first woman I am seeing who is living with ex-in laws after divorce for children’s sake!!! Dunia mai itne sare divorce hote hai kya kisi ke bacche nahi hote hai ?!

And aisa toh hai nahi ki anupama ka divorce just yesterday hua hai ! It’s been months now! Still she continues doormat life specifically in front of baa and vanraj!! Why??? Did you watch today how she was waiting for baa’s permission?!

Agar Kavya ko bol sakti hai that she has to go to rakhi for her mistake then why she can’t show same guts in front of baa?! Aur kitna time baa and vanraj ke samne doormat life continue karegi??

Anupama is low key suffering from stockholm syndrome where she has developed feelings of attachment and positive emotions to baa and has developed a sense of sympathy for vanraj.

Anupama will not grow as a person and start treating herself like she deserves to be treated as long as the underlying psychological issues arent addressed and treated.

Anupama has been able to call out kavya for her behavior because she has not suffered abuse at her hands and kavya has never been in a position of authority in anupama's life. Hardly the same can be said about vanraj and baa

Originally posted by: Moongdal

It would be odd if they changed her overnight. She has been victim for 25 years. She has lost interest in herself. All life the Shah family treated her like servant. It would be unreal overnight she changed or over night she gains confidence.

She is changing gradually for sure. Like today episode she told Kavya to go get ur check, I am not going. She stood for herself. Even stood in front of Vanraj that signing think was a mistake. It happened with you too, a frd cheated on u. She did keep her points.

I am hoping with Anuj, she will start loving and respecting herself. Falling in love, taking care of herself. It is going to be very interesting. Relationship can change a person so much. Vanraj was pure toxic and with Anuj she can finally understand Love.

Rightly said . Though she came to know about vanraj affair recently but she was in toxic realtionship and was put down by all and made to feel,look down by all and this will effect any normal person mentally however strong they are in one or other way and they need time to heal and come out of this

Originally posted by: Krithzz

🤣🤣🤣 This is the point. She needs this change first . Audiences should point out this first to makers 🤣🤣🤣 wardrobe change should be next . First let makers change her mental attitude, emotional thing in her need to change and then rest

Mental attitude kabhi ITV heroine ka strong nahi hota . Sab ki sab doormat , damsel in distress, abla nari he hoti hai till the last episode of the show.

Mental attitude change karna he hota toh jaise anupama resort mai dusre villa mai shift ho gayi thi waise he ahmedabad wapas aa kar bhi shift ho gayi hoti ! So it’s clear from maker’s side that they are not interested in changing Anupama ‘s mental attitude just like other itv heroines. That’s why after months of divorce still nothing is changed.

So better to ask for both mental change and refreshing look at a same time! Kya pata koi ek wish Puri ho jaye 😆😆

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Agar external fresh look ko discuss kar rahe hai sab that doesn’t mean log internal change nahi chahte aisa declare kar do 🤢

You edited and added this para.

So missed out this .so quoting again.

This is the point ! people are just discussing , declaring here only about external maker only .atleast majority.🤔 They should point out makers about internal,mental change attitude for lead. This is needed first but it will take time. This is a show .for trp all drama needed. Like I said in reality it takes time for people like anu to come out of the shell and in serials it will take years 🤣