Why so partial?

Sometimes I feel Anupama is the biggest hypocrite...she actually differentiates the most among her children...Pakhi was so rude to her and everyone,yet she not once asked her to apologize to any elders also,let alone her.Paritosh literally insulted everyone,and he is not even let apologize fully,jhat se maaf kardiya...but Samar never insults or is rude to anyone in the house for his own selfish needs,not even Vanraj...only once he brought Nandini to the Shivratri pooja and he was told to touch Vanraj's feet and apologize??She was even upset and not talking and ignoring him for like 2-3 days..why???

Also Anupama herself scolds Samar if he scolds Pakhi or tells anything to Toshu even when they are not present there,but never tells anything to Both of them if they insult Samar on his face...

Sometimes tho I feel not Samar,but Anupama takes Samar for granted,as she knows he will not question her or back answer her..

Agreed that she has done a lot for Samar,but she has done a lot for her other 2 kids also,but when they have the right to do badtameezi and not apologize,why Samar should?

In today everyone did apologize to him,but when he does any smallest of mistakes,he will be taken on radar like anything..