Originally posted by: musicalstorm
Anupama signs on the papers. But I am very scared for it. Something has gone wrong. I am getting a bad vibe. Vanraj is aware about Dholakia's behavior then how he didn't take any stand for Kavya. And why he didn't get a bad vibe when Dholkia personally called Kavya? Atleast while leaving the job, he could have said that Dholakia's behavior is very....He wasn't worried for Kavya at all.
Vanraj is ready to hit Dholakia. It's right to get angry, but in a method. And Nandini I thought she is practical, but she also. This Vanraj worked in the corporate world. He knows how to sort this out at least. Not like Anupama he is unaware of the process. Anupama is giving the lecture which I didn't like at all. Her lecture was not needed at all.
Kinjal is questioning that why Anupama told everyone regarding the harassment. Anupama your lecture is right, but the situation is wrong. Agar uska sadak pe harassment hua hota, to baat alag thi. Par yeh kaam par hua hai. They are behaving as if life of Kinjal has ended. In the roads, harassment happens with different reasons, and in office it happens differently. And they brought up victim shaming and all. There is a procedure and you are encouraging Kinjal but still you are not showing how she should fight. Family is with Kinjal, but what about office? The case of office is handled differently.
The whole case was shifted on girls being raped and all. Office mein shayad rape tak baat nahi aati hogi, par aise double meaning wale comments bahut hote hai. And then comes Kavya, First of all I felt she talked right that kitne office mein jaake lecture doge. But the moment she said ignore it. I got so angry. Behen tere saath bhi hua tha, kyun ignore nahi kiya. She was right when talked that handle karna aana chahiye. Kinjal ko aana chahiye, agar nahi aata to Kavya
Anupama was being very very emotional and Kavya was being shrewd but a partially practical. Anupama's lecture was not relevant at all, atleast not in office harassment. Kavya was right when she said handle karna aana chahiye. Bol to diya tumne, par Kinjal ko bolo ki kaise handle kare? . Tum to handle karne mein expert ho. To Kinjal ko bhi vamp type banao aise matter par
There were 3 viewpoints. anupama's view point was the unrealistic. Kavya's view point was all shrewd and selfish. And Toshu glad to see he didn't question Kinjal but he asked Kinjal to not fight and to compromise her career and her development
I don't comment much but this topic compelled me to give my POV.
This show was never realistic. I hated to concept to the core. But I liked the episode where the betrayal was portrayed and the nuances of all the relationships explored.
Even the divorce track(initial few episodes) handled well. But living in the same house with your ex who betrayed you and trampled on your self respect and the other woman..talk about cringe feeling you get.
What are they trying to tell us?? Man after being all the roles he still get to have everything?? Where is the accountability??
To be a mahan woman every other relation treated like nothing...men, women, daughter, sons, in-laws none of them have any self respect other than the great Anupama .
Something is very wrong when this show is topping the chart where majority of the viewing audiences are women.
For Anupama's greatness(ego) we like to see all other characters spineless. Talk about narcicisam..
How is she a perfect role model when she couldn't save her self respect be it before and after the divorce?? Didn't raise any self confident mature kids who could handle their life??
Coming back to this sexual harrasment which is a real problem for working women which can only be solved by the great Anupama.. Why not Vanraj or even the working women Kavya/Raaki(who is shown as a classless womann most of the time)
Would it kill the makers to show in one track that Anupama doesn't have solutions to all the problems of the world(family)..
As always the ITV made this track look so unreal and brushed it under the carpet. As long as audiences(mostly women) who watches these shows there is no hope for any progressive concepts. No use blaming the makers they are giving what sells.
