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Posted: 4 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Why anupama talk is unrealistic. I can undertand ki anupama aur shah family are not Financial strong that they can Fight easily with dholakia

But what other reason that anupama talk make unrealistic

I want to know anupama isme kaise galat hai


Anupama's lecture is true for molestation, eve teasing etc in general. But the current problem at hand is that of a professional setting. One size does not fit all, we cannot apply the same solution of slapping people in a professional environment.

Her approach to solving the problem is wrong.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#12

Kal ka episode to dekh len phir kehte hain anupama sahi hai nahin

And in think u missed dialogue of anupama in yesterday episode. Anupama didi say to kinjal if slapping is not possible then complain karo . Anupama didi ask kinjal to complain, internet mein daalo

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Anupama signs on the papers. But I am very scared for it. Something has gone wrong. I am getting a bad vibe. Vanraj is aware about Dholakia's behavior then how he didn't take any stand for Kavya. And why he didn't get a bad vibe when Dholkia personally called Kavya? Atleast while leaving the job, he could have said that Dholakia's behavior is very....He wasn't worried for Kavya at all.

Vanraj is ready to hit Dholakia. It's right to get angry, but in a method. And Nandini I thought she is practical, but she also. This Vanraj worked in the corporate world. He knows how to sort this out at least. Not like Anupama he is unaware of the process. Anupama is giving the lecture which I didn't like at all. Her lecture was not needed at all.


Kinjal is questioning that why Anupama told everyone regarding the harassment. Anupama your lecture is right, but the situation is wrong. Agar uska sadak pe harassment hua hota, to baat alag thi. Par yeh kaam par hua hai. They are behaving as if life of Kinjal has ended. In the roads, harassment happens with different reasons, and in office it happens differently. And they brought up victim shaming and all. There is a procedure and you are encouraging Kinjal but still you are not showing how she should fight. Family is with Kinjal, but what about office? The case of office is handled differently.


The whole case was shifted on girls being raped and all. Office mein shayad rape tak baat nahi aati hogi, par aise double meaning wale comments bahut hote hai. And then comes Kavya, First of all I felt she talked right that kitne office mein jaake lecture doge. But the moment she said ignore it. I got so angry. Behen tere saath bhi hua tha, kyun ignore nahi kiya. She was right when talked that handle karna aana chahiye. Kinjal ko aana chahiye, agar nahi aata to Kavya


Anupama was being very very emotional and Kavya was being shrewd but a partially practical. Anupama's lecture was not relevant at all, atleast not in office harassment. Kavya was right when she said handle karna aana chahiye. Bol to diya tumne, par Kinjal ko bolo ki kaise handle kare? . Tum to handle karne mein expert ho. To Kinjal ko bhi vamp type banao aise matter par


There were 3 viewpoints. anupama's view point was the unrealistic. Kavya's view point was all shrewd and selfish. And Toshu glad to see he didn't question Kinjal but he asked Kinjal to not fight and to compromise her career and her development

I understand Kavya and Paritosh's point. If the news or gossip breaks out in the corporate world then the guy harassing the lady won't suffer as much as the lady herself, moreover they would believe the lady is lying and think twice before hiring her, it's the same as with whistle-blowers, people and managers think many times before hiring them.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Why anupama talk is unrealistic. I can undertand ki anupama aur shah family are not Financial strong that they can Fight easily with dholakia

But what other reason that anupama talk make unrealistic

I want to know anupama isme kaise galat hai


It is unrealistic because she herself has no idea of how the corporate world works. When it comes to workplace harassment especially sexual harassment women are at a disadvantage, because even if they report the issue or take any sort of action against the perpetrator, once the matter becomes public other employers will be vary of hiring the lady, the perpetrator will get destroyed no doubt but so will the victim because there will always be a doubt in the mind of the employers who are mostly male that the case she filed could either be fake, or if they are perverts themselves then they would definitely give her resume a pass. That's how the world works.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rein123

It is unrealistic because she herself has no idea of how the corporate world works. When it comes to workplace harassment especially sexual harassment women are at a disadvantage, because even if they report the issue or take any sort of action against the perpetrator, once the matter becomes public other employers will be vary of hiring the lady, the perpetrator will get destroyed no doubt but so will the victim because there will always be a doubt in the mind of the employers who are mostly male that the case she filed could either be fake, or if they are perverts themselves then they would definitely give her resume a pass. That's how the world works.

Sad and bitter, but it is the reality of corporate world.!

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Posted: 4 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: Saumya96

I didn't shared this yesterday, but I got doubt the previous episode only, on that two people who had visited for loan. There is some more trouble coming there way and I am sure the fingers will be pointed at Anupama, specially of Kavya's.

Talking about Kinjal, I didn't got agreed with anyone today. Yes Kavya was right till one point, but when she asked Kinjal to ignore Dholakia that time she too got down in front of me. This we are discussing from Saturday, about how things are handled in a corporate world. But they are not showing about the solution which we are discussing. Already knew that Anupama will find some tikdam to solve this, already knew that Kavya will be opposing this, already knew that Toshu will tell Kinjal to switch the job.! So no surprise for me in today's episode.

Acha, am I the only one who feels that the dialogues these days are built in a weird way. Jaise aaj Kavya ne Anupama se bola- "tum stand logi, jo 25 saal me khudka stand nahi le payi wo aaj kisi aur ke liye stand legi, kaise.?" Was this 25 saal wala question and "kaise" really needed here.? Matlab Anupama ka lecture shuru karne se pehele they design the stage for her, kahi na kahi se aisa create karte hai ki Anupama ko abb shuru hona hai and then one, two, three and go... uske baad she starts with the background music.!

Well jokes apart, if they are showing real problems then they have to show real solutions too.!

Some how everything is about Anupama 🙂 and every thing eventually gets too how Anu was tortured for 25 years be it baa saying, kavya taunting, V realising every one else

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Posted: 4 years ago
#17

I am surprise how anupama no have idea that how coaprate world work. Aakhir vanraj ne corparate world mein kaam kiyakiya hai to how anupama no idea of how coaprate world work. . Even when I cross teenage I have some idea about system where my father use to work

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saumya96

Sad and bitter, but it is the reality of corporate world.!

It is sad. That's why women should try having a side business as well and make investments early on. If only there were companies where most of the employees are female.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I am surprise how anupama no have idea that how coaprate world work. Aakhir vanraj ne corparate world mein kaam kiyakiya hai to how anupama no idea of how coaprate world work. . Even when I cross teenage I have some idea about system where my father use to work

She is too idealistic, also I don't think Vanraj ever bothered to share things like this with her.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Paras kalwant aka samar ko best son international iconic television award mila hai

Aur madalasa chakroborty aka ko kavya ko best khalnaayak ka award mila hai


I dont know how to react. I dont like both of them at all

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