Murkhata ka Pradashan

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Anupama is crying. Crying is not the symbol of weak, you need to cry sometimes. Just to get ourselves light. But what Anupama is doing is crying only. That's not done. You need to act strong. But Anupama is hearing to all the tantrums of everyone. Just hearing it all and so Bachho ko bhi aadat ho gai hai. Ek baar aur sun legi mummy. Hasmukh said that Meri Wajah se Pakhi, Toshu Dukhi Hai. He was wrong. They are sad and angry because of themselves.


Now what Kavya said reminded me of the iconic friendship of Krishna and Sudama. Only few friendship like this exist. Between a rich and a poor. Rest rich has rich friends. Poor has poor friends. Kavya's dominating complex is so much that she has friends of a high class. Now if she will tell that they are gonna be poor after some point of time. She is worried about the reputation. Kavya, do you seriously call them your friends? If they were true friends, then they would have accepted irrespective of the money. In fact they might help you.


I know a mother get angry but can also help her kid. In fact my mother and I if have a fight, then my mother would have slapped me. Then she would have said, karo apni dress khud hi thik. Jab mujhe struggle karta hua dekhegi, tab bolegi ki lao kar deti hu. Aur phir 50 pages ka daant degi. Aisi hoti hai mummy. The mothers don't react as Anupama, they know how to bring a child back to path. Pakhi crossed all the limits again. What should I now write to describe her?


I don't wanna more discuss about Pakhi and Anupama fight. Because in the discussion we all are gonna discuss the same. Kinjal said every family fights. That's the truest line of the day. But this is a question we need to ask ourselves. That when we fight no one is to let go off. That anger which is in Toshu's and Pakhi's mind. We all in our angry time we fight so badly. Even I fight badly, because the anger is all in our heads. But after we fight and get calm, we don't have a habit of speaking Sorry. Unintentionally we have hurt someone closest to us...So Sorry to Banta Hai


Anupama's sorry mode is the something I hate. But she speaking sorry is great. But she is not speaking sorry at the right point of time. Her timing is wrong to speak a sorry. Pakhi has set the new benchmark of rudeness. Kavya has set new benchmark of hypocrisy. Toshu has set new benchmark of being pathetic. I know I am not discussing the fight. While Anupama set the new benchmark of being tooo tooo humble. Leela was the only amazing today


Now Toshu as a brother needs to improve Pakhi. But he is not. Why he is not being able to do that? Now he is much angry on the family over all. When anger rules you, you do a demonstration of your own foolishness. Toshu's anger is making him foolish. Now same is applicable to Pakhi. Manushya ki soch aisi hoti hai, agar mera chaha nai ho raha hai, to gussa aata hai. Gusse ke baad murkhata ka pradarshan


It's ok to fight with family. But have a manner to say sorry. Why we say sorry only when others initiate? Can we not initiate? For the hurt we have caused to someone. The anger should be vanished within a second. That's how our power of mind should be. This is not something I speaking as a lecture, but this is what I practice...


WE ALL ARE GONNA DISCUSS ABOUT THE FIGHT, SO MY POST DIDN'T DISCUSS THE FIGHT AS I WANTED IT TO BE POSITIVE

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Very disappointed episode I would say. For a change, I agreed with Toshu (🤏🏻 ittusa) that this family only fights and argues. First of all, Anupama don't have to stich Pakhi's dress or whatever, when she knows what "fight" is going on in between both of them. Chalo maan liya maa ka dil hai aur kar di beti ki help, but then when Pakhi started shouting like that it was her responsibility to give a tight slap to her daughter. I agree slapping is not a solution, but when the kids are like this then isn't it a mother's responsibility to bring them on the right track.? And when Baa was scolding Pakhi correctly, then Anupama jump in between and actioned Baa to keep quiet.? Khud to bas roti rehti hai aur koi baccho ko sudhare to wo bhi isko nahi sehen ho pata. I would say Baa is much better than Anupama for baccho ki parwarish. Atleast Vanraj and Dolly don't talk that way with their parents as Toshu and Pakhi does.

Again a disappointment from Kinjal, is she getting ready to shift to pent house, is she agreeing with Toshu somewhere in her heart.? If yes, then I would like to see them living separate from the Shahs for sometime, may be. Toshu needs to understand the meaning of family, only when he stays away and when he will witness Rakhi's real face.

Vanraj, rather than scolding his daughter, who only listens to him, he is getting irritated with everyone including Anupama. I don't want to talk about Mrs V, she is damn irritating.!

Only one sentence from Anupama at the last made me to sigh, when she said Toshu to leave the house right now.!

PRECAP, again why Anupama has to be so soft for Pakhi.? Let her loose I say, maa ko kadak bhi aur kadwa bhi banna padta hai yar.!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I know everyone will say why Anu need to help Pakhi, knowing ki she will not like, milne dete usse sabak jab stage pe dress ka issue hota. How can a mother knowing that her daughter can face embarassment of wardrobe malfunction on stage in front of whole school and not help. Arre mummy toh kya, main apne kisi apne dushman ke liye bhi kabhi wish na karu ki unko kabhi wardrobe malfunction jaisi situation se guzarna pade. And agar Anupamaa wapas kisi aur ko bolti, toh bhi pakhi bolne hi wali thi again remote controlled mahanta. But in no case a mother knowing about possible wardrobe malfunction that can happen with her daughter and not help or not fix it, chahe kitni bhi badtameez beti ho, ya kitna bhi issue ho dono ke bich. Because agar sach main kuch issue hota stage pe, mother will always blame herself and never forgive herself that in her ego and just to not show mahaanta, she didn't help her daughter and today she had to face embarassment and it can also lead to trauma, bcoz aaj ke SM ke zamaane main, aise videos viral hone main time nahi lagta. Just imagine the impact on the life of that girl. No girl deserves this, chahe kaisi bhi ho. So expecting a mother to not help is such situation is totally wrong. Also then there will be people in such situation say that, Anupamaa ko aise toh mahaan banne ka shauk hai, humesha madad karti hai, jab actually karni chahiye thi tab nahi ki, how could she let such thing happen to her daughter, she is not a good mother.


Please ask Toshu to leave, I can't tolerate him and hope he takes pakhi also with him.


And what happened to Vanraj, he is not even believing his parents that pakhi is misbehaving and not saying a word to her.


Hope by end of this week, this dance competition drama ends and toshu also moves out of the house and with pakhi toh aur bhi better.

Edited by neo7 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saumya96

Again a disappointment from Kinjal, is she getting ready to shift to pent house, is she agreeing with Toshu somewhere in her heart.? If yes, then I would like to see them living separate from the Shahs for sometime, may be. Toshu needs to understand the meaning of family, only when he stays away and when he will witness Rakhi's real face.

It is ok if Kinjal wants to shift. Who would want to live in a place where there is only fighting and tension. Shahs are not family anymore. They are all unhappy people stuck together. Reminds me of Big boss house. Kinjal can leave with Toshu if she wants. Nothing wrong in that. But she should rent an apartment or house and not take her mother's precious penthouse. Toshu wanted to live separately and have some peace right. So give it to him, but in her own terms.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Somebody delete "suri" word from Anupama's dictionary. So tired of hearing her repeat it over and over in every episode.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: janecastle

It is ok if Kinjal wants to shift. Who would want to live in a place where there is only fighting and tension. Shahs are not family anymore. They are all unhappy people stuck together. Reminds me of Big boss house. Kinjal can leave with Toshu if she wants. Nothing wrong in that. But she should rent an apartment or house and not take her mother's precious penthouse. Toshu wanted to live separately and have some peace right. So give it to him, but in her own terms.

Kinjal should say ki alag rehte hai but not at mom ka penthouse. Then see Toshu ka answer, U turn le lega for sure

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saumya96

Kinjal should say ki alag rehte hai but not at mom ka penthouse. Then see Toshu ka answer, U turn le lega for sure

That's what I am waiting for. Let's see if Toshu really wants peace or just free luxury. Kinjal should play smartly now. Both her husband and mom are becoming way too irritating. So she should reply to them in their own language.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: janecastle

That's what I am waiting for. Let's see if Toshu really wants peace or just free luxury. Kinjal should play smartly now. Both her husband and mom are becoming way too irritating. So she should reply to them in their own language.

Yup Toshu just wants luxury. It's so obvious that he's obsessed with Kinjal's mom because shes rich.. nothing else.

I want to see Toshu regret everything.. his mouth runs too much for someone that's kinda nothing without his family.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: neo7

I know everyone will say why Anu need to help Pakhi, knowing ki she will not like, milne dete usse sabak jab stage pe dress ka issue hota. How can a mother knowing that her daughter can face embarassment of wardrobe malfunction on stage in front of whole school and not help. Arre mummy toh kya, main apne kisi apne dushman ke liye bhi kabhi wish na karu ki unko kabhi wardrobe malfunction jaisi situation se guzarna pade. And agar Anupamaa wapas kisi aur ko bolti, toh bhi pakhi bolne hi wali thi again remote controlled mahanta. But in no case a mother knowing about possible wardrobe malfunction that can happen with her daughter and not help or not fix it, chahe kitni bhi badtameez beti ho, ya kitna bhi issue ho dono ke bich. Because agar sach main kuch issue hota stage pe, mother will always blame herself and never forgive herself that in her ego and just to not show mahaanta, she didn't help her daughter and today she had to face embarassment and it can also lead to trauma, bcoz aaj ke SM ke zamaane main, aise videos viral hone main time nahi lagta. Just imagine the impact on the life of that girl. No girl deserves this, chahe kaisi bhi ho. So expecting a mother to not help is such situation is totally wrong. Also then there will be people in such situation say that, Anupamaa ko aise toh mahaan banne ka shauk hai, humesha madad karti hai, jab actually karni chahiye thi tab nahi ki, how could she let such thing happen to her daughter, she is not a good mother.


Please ask Toshu to leave, I can't tolerate him and hope he takes pakhi also with him.


And what happened to Vanraj, he is not even believing his parents that pakhi is misbehaving and not saying a word to her.


Hope by end of this week, this dance competition drama ends and toshu also moves out of the house and with pakhi toh aur bhi better.

I completely agree to what u said.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saumya96

Very disappointed episode I would say. For a change, I agreed with Toshu (🤏🏻 ittusa) that this family only fights and argues. First of all, Anupama don't have to stich Pakhi's dress or whatever, when she knows what "fight" is going on in between both of them. Chalo maan liya maa ka dil hai aur kar di beti ki help, but then when Pakhi started shouting like that it was her responsibility to give a tight slap to her daughter. I agree slapping is not a solution, but when the kids are like this then isn't it a mother's responsibility to bring them on the right track.? And when Baa was scolding Pakhi correctly, then Anupama jump in between and actioned Baa to keep quiet.? Khud to bas roti rehti hai aur koi baccho ko sudhare to wo bhi isko nahi sehen ho pata. I would say Baa is much better than Anupama for baccho ki parwarish. Atleast Vanraj and Dolly don't talk that way with their parents as Toshu and Pakhi does.

Again a disappointment from Kinjal, is she getting ready to shift to pent house, is she agreeing with Toshu somewhere in her heart.? If yes, then I would like to see them living separate from the Shahs for sometime, may be. Toshu needs to understand the meaning of family, only when he stays away and when he will witness Rakhi's real face.

Vanraj, rather than scolding his daughter, who only listens to him, he is getting irritated with everyone including Anupama. I don't want to talk about Mrs V, she is damn irritating.!

Only one sentence from Anupama at the last made me to sigh, when she said Toshu to leave the house right now.!

PRECAP, again why Anupama has to be so soft for Pakhi.? Let her loose I say, maa ko kadak bhi aur kadwa bhi banna padta hai yar.!


Leela was the best today


Anupama the same today


Kinjal's character is disappointing me


Pakhi is a Vamp now


Toshu is a male Vamp


Vanraj bhatakti atma

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