This family sucks - Page 4

Originally posted by: Krishnapanchali

Yes anupama is earning and the property s share is something that she had EARNED for all that she gave to that family. I don't see what is so wrong in accepting her right.

How is it ok to be dependent on sons and brother ayd mother but not make good use of the property that s her by law. Why should she let go of her property because of vanraj??

She can anyday move out and live on her own but tbe the property where she is living is also hers.

Then why not just accept the property without living there? After all even Dolly got a share in the property, but that didn't mean she had to bring her husband and daughter to come and live in Shah family's house from now on.

And why would Anu be dependant on her mother, brother, sons or anyone else for that matter if she is earning money?

Accepting the property in return for living there is basically trading your self respect, and peace of mind for money (despite having options), which I don't think is anything really to be proud of.

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

Then why not just accept the property without living there? After all even Dolly got a share in the property, but that didn't mean she had to bring her husband and daughter to come and live in Shah family's house from now on.

And why would Anu be dependant on her mother, brother, sons or anyone else for that matter if she is earning money?

Accepting the property in return for living there is basically trading your self respect, and peace of mind for money (despite having options), which I don't think is anything really to be proud of.

You are completely missing my point Anupama can accept the property make a good use of it. Move out as and when she is absolutely ready and fully secured.

There is no trading of self respect in accepting her right or making good use of HER PROPERTY.

And about brother and sons and their jobs you brought them i didn't.

If you did not want to debate that line you should not have brought it up.

Bus anupama ki zindagi shah family mein bus maid ki zindag hi i hai. Promo mein dikha rahe hain ki anupama akele sabke liye khadi bana rahi phir tray mein khaana rakha kur apne lazy bacchon aur baa bapuji ko dene jaa rahi hai

Anupama ki position mein koi change nahi hai

Anupama wahi maid ki tarah kaam karti and lazy shah family koi kaam nahin karte only diference is that ab anupama vanraj shah nahin rahi nahin to anupama khud ki identy mein kya change aaya

Yeh shah family toh koi ghar ke kaam karti nahin. Kaam na karna pade ishliye shah family ne anupama ko rakha hai

Originally posted by: Krishnapanchali

You are completely missing my point Anupama can accept the property make a good use of it. Move out as and when she is absolutely ready and fully secured.

There is no trading of self respect in accepting her right or making good use of HER PROPERTY.

And about brother and sons and their jobs you brought them i didn't.

If you did not want to debate that line you should not have brought it up.

I brought up her sons and brother because they are there to help her out to some extent if she needs it, not because she'd need to be wholly dependant on them.

And it would be better if she at least moved out and lived independently later on, but I highly doubt they will show that judging by what apparently happened in Sreemoyee.

I Dont know why it is shown that bahu be good bahu only if she day night work for sasuraal only

Yes we should do some house hold work but does not mean being bahu bahu live cant live her own life

Like going kitty party doing shopping and watching TV. It is not sin neither it is crime if she want to spend time for her self

When anupama was alone I think anupama jyaada khush thi

Originally posted by: Krishnapanchali

The point is why should she leave the house vanraj was wrong he messed up but still it should be Anupama who should leave her children behind why???

And how are we sure that brother and sister in law will treat her well

As bapuji said what if her brother throws her out of the house then what??

Here atleast she is living is hers by law.

Ofcourse i would prefer she moves out to a new place but once het academy starts to flourish more. .

Then she can move to a new flat and use this share as investment.

@bold: the only problem is that her ex husband who cheated her, is in the same house with his new wife. thats the only problem. everything else is right. whatever bapuji said was all right except for the fact that he cant keep these two under the same roof. How would Anu feel everyday? of course Vanraj will be enjoying with Kavya and eating Anus food as Baa said today that whenever he is hungry he will come and eat.

Another thing for the CVs and their need to show some drama, they could have easily done these daily drama everyday. of course Anu can visit anytime for her kids and parents. do the drama then. well make someone sick so she has to come stay for few days.

We have seen enough of Anu taunting Kavya, even Rakhi Dave accepted that Kavya will never win against Anu. Its enough now. Show her journey away from all these. Just add the family for some side drama.

Originally posted by: puja0507

@bold: the only problem is that her ex husband who cheated her, is in the same house with his new wife. thats the only problem. everything else is right. whatever bapuji said was all right except for the fact that he cant keep these two under the same roof. How would Anu feel everyday? of course Vanraj will be enjoying with Kavya and eating Anus food as Baa said today that whenever he is hungry he will come and eat.

Another thing for the CVs and their need to show some drama, they could have easily done these daily drama everyday. of course Anu can visit anytime for her kids and parents. do the drama then. well make someone sick so she has to come stay for few days.

We have seen enough of Anu taunting Kavya, even Rakhi Dave accepted that Kavya will never win against Anu. Its enough now. Show her journey away from all these. Just add the family for some side drama.

Very well said!

CVS need to show something better in anupama’s life. Enough of this taunting and daily drama of sautans and now kitchen stuffs.

We are not here to see how much anupama is cooking, what Anupama is cooking, she is cooking for vanraj and kavya or not. They need to come out of this taunt drama and coffee/kadhi drama.

Originally posted by: CaNaBa

Agree alot with the bolded points. They have made Kavya such a crazy obssessed woman that you find yourself ALMOST feeling sorry for V ...I say almost because no chance in hell can I sympathize with V, they made his character so abusive and manipulative and downright mean that even when they try to get you on his side by showing things from his perspective and try and humanize him it does not work.

Kavya could have been a much bigger character without making her this childwoman who just wants to stamp her feet to get her way. All the little nuances they had given her in the begining (when she felt guilty for the affair, or when she used to challenge V and his backward thinking...like with Anu and the job ).

They could have had plenty of drama there just Kavya dealing with Mr V and his need to be babied and his mother's need to dominate. They did not need to make it an Anu Vs Kavya in that house.

Kavya had an affair with V for 8 years and never really seemed that bothered about Anu being his wife...she ate in their house and and could even claim Anu as her friend (that she pitied non the less)....now all of a sudden they have decided she is so insecure in this relationship which is finally out in the open that she is taking every opportunity to oneup Anu and not only that she is willing to destroy his family and end her life because of it?

Do the writers never get tired of writing these recycled childish storylines. When will we get a more realistic mature storyline....this show had so much promise but is ending up being just another one in a long line of cringe inducing shows bleeeeeeh

Yes, I always say that I was thinking of this show as progressive where the issues are real. Kavya's only mistake was she has EMA, but according to her (at least in the beginning), they were two people who were not happy with their marriage and found a companion in each other. Kavya was always open with her ex husband. She didnt go behind his back. It was V who kept her giving different excuses everytime.

And because of him, her insecurities kept increasing and the writers could have easily taken it from there. They did not have to go this far. They turned her into a psycho now. She had also told V to give the house to Anu and they can live happily with each other.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Very well said!

CVS need to show something better in anupama’s life. Enough of this taunting and daily drama of sautans and now kitchen stuffs.

We are not here to see how much anupama is cooking, what Anupama is cooking, she is cooking for vanraj and kavya or not. They need to come out of this taunt drama and coffee/kadhi drama.

Coffee ane kadhi tara dimaag main besi gayi che 😂😂

Tane joitu tu ne ke Anupamaa kundali maari ne bese 😂

Toh have taana waana toh chalsej 😂😂😂

Originally posted by: neo7

Coffee ane kadhi tara dimaag main besi gayi che 😂😂

Tane joitu tu ne ke Anupamaa kundali maari ne bese 😂

Toh have taana waana toh chalsej 😂😂😂

😝😝😝😝

Ha mare joitu hatu anupama kundli Mari ne bese pan kadhi cold coffee na test cases b avse aa vaat mara mind ma noti 😂😂😂

Joia kal thi kavya ben su banavse rasoda ma 😆

Surabhi ne haasshhhh thase kal thi rasoda ma anupama ne koik kam karavse a joi ne ! 😆