Originally posted by: puja0507
this is a total BS. Really if they really wanted to give her 'her rights', and if bapuji really meant that they shouldnt suffer because of Vanraj's mistakes, then he should have kicked Vanraj and his new wife out and welcomed Anupama.
If he did that, I would not have complained of Anupama doing all the housework and also managing her career. She would have been the example of how women can handle both if they want to, and Kinjal to concentrate more on her career because thats what she chooses too. (honestly thats what happens these days right? young generation does much less housework like makign achar, papad, etc unless they are all into it. our mothers did much more than us because they loved it so nothing wrong with it either).
This is what I am sure most of this generation women are looking for. I dont know how hard this is for the creatives/writers. and this could have been shown without makign Rakhi and Kavya the villains. AND TRYING VERY HARD FOR US TO SYMPATHIZE WITH THE REAL VILLAIN, VANRAJ.
Kavya is shown as a villain for being modern and not for the EMA. I would have loved to see her having adjustment issues with V, his ego and his mother. Pakhi, because she is being taught much needed discipline. Samar and Kinjal having hard time to accept her because they love Anupama too much.
This show has totally gone down the drain.
Agree alot with the bolded points. They have made Kavya such a crazy obssessed woman that you find yourself ALMOST feeling sorry for V ...I say almost because no chance in hell can I sympathize with V, they made his character so abusive and manipulative and downright mean that even when they try to get you on his side by showing things from his perspective and try and humanize him it does not work.
Kavya could have been a much bigger character without making her this childwoman who just wants to stamp her feet to get her way. All the little nuances they had given her in the begining (when she felt guilty for the affair, or when she used to challenge V and his backward thinking...like with Anu and the job ).
They could have had plenty of drama there just Kavya dealing with Mr V and his need to be babied and his mother's need to dominate. They did not need to make it an Anu Vs Kavya in that house.
Kavya had an affair with V for 8 years and never really seemed that bothered about Anu being his wife...she ate in their house and and could even claim Anu as her friend (that she pitied non the less)....now all of a sudden they have decided she is so insecure in this relationship which is finally out in the open that she is taking every opportunity to oneup Anu and not only that she is willing to destroy his family and end her life because of it?
Do the writers never get tired of writing these recycled childish storylines. When will we get a more realistic mature storyline....this show had so much promise but is ending up being just another one in a long line of cringe inducing shows bleeeeeeh
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