Originally posted by: sandiab
It's so awful to see a father trusting an outsider more than his own child and treating him like this for a woman he dnt even love (not that, that would make a difference anyway). Relationship btw a child and a step parent is always difficult and when a grown up has the personality of pinky its even worse. So I do think that she would have created trouble btw sonu and Babloo eventually but I think they shouldn't have shown all these scenes so soon after his mother's death.
Also we may not want to see this happen on this show but it is happening a lot in real life where children are being abused whether physically or mentally by a person who is supposed to protect them. I dnt have kids but I have noticed that if u go to any place eg a shopping mall u would seen a child shouted at or rough handled and if a child is being naughty a lot of times its simply seen as a child being disciplined which is deemed as being ok.
And I think as a society we really need to redefine what we see as abuse coz there is a very thin line btw actual physical or mental abuse and rough handling and shouting at a child to the extent that the child is totally afraid of u and I think a lot of parent's( good parents) are guilty of overstepping this line. I live in South Africa and 1 of the new laws that is going to be included in our child protection act is that parents can no longer rough handle/hit their kids to discipline them and personally I hope that other counties do the same coz if there was any doubts in any1's mind that parent's should not be allowed to treat their children anyway they like they just need to watch this show. so guys dnt take this scene as a total negative coz maybe parents who are going to a tough time will watch this and if they have behaved this way with their kids will consider their childrens feelings and mental state more than their own and not behaviour in that way again.
But this isn't the case with Babloo that man is nothing but a coward he has always passed of his family responsibility to some1 else (sargam and pintu) he is a selfish person who thinks ab himself only even when sargam was alive he was shown to be indifferent to sonu he had no time for him and now that she is gone he is taking out all his anger and frustration on poor sonu coz the kid can't fight back and doesn't want to be responsible for his child. He has disease called me syndrome and he should come out of its all about me world and just give sonu to pintu who is the kids real father of that kid and take his trashy wife and move far away from prishna and sonu.