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Monu, I am glad you decided to come up wiht more questions...

Originally posted by: monu1101

Ok some more from my side..
This is meant specially for our loveguru 😉 😳

Who do you love more your Sandy or your Mom?

hmmm.. since you called me loveguru.. let me tell you one time.. its never either or in a relationship.. God has given us such a big heart that there's place for everyone.. I love both my mom and my Sandy and my dad and my brother equally... there's no choice there...
How did you first met ur Sandy?

He was my brother's +2 classmate.. so I met him when I was in my 8th...😉.. Don't remember the first time but I used to always think that whats this guy.. coz he always used to call my brother from downstairs and never come up... until one day he decided to...
How did you know he was "the one"?

hmm.. need to think on this one... actually, to tell you honestly.. didn't know that for a long time.. see.. like Sandy, he didn't let me know his feelings for a long time... although he gave me hints once in a while, they were very rare.. it came to a point where I was unsure myself.. especially coz he was willing to let me go for another friend of his... poora filmy kahani hai yaar.. we exchanged letters but didn't come out with exact feelings...but I think one day he just couldn't hold on anymore.. he told me and rest is history...
How did ur Sandy proposed you?

It was not one incident.. he's not the kind who will go down on his knees and propose.. infact he never really did a formal proposal.. the first time I thought he meant he loved me was when he gave me Atlas shrugged adn asked me to read a particular page.. in which one of the heroes tell the protagonist that he loves her... and another time he did it through a song which is when I got completely certain that he was infact telling me his feelings... its a telugu song but the essence is that whether you say "U" or "me", it only means "hum"... and then finally one day on the terrace, he just said "Marry me.." like i said before, not sure if it was a request or an order or what but I was more than willing to go with it...
What is the best thing you like about him?

He's extremely emotional and very helpful to people..and I don't think I could ever love the way he does.. unconditionally...
Do you have any favorite stories from your marriage?

Our wedding became quite a story coz his family opposed it... but then when you say favorite.. let me think of sweet ones.. although we are telugu people, his ancestors are tamilians and we had to do the wedding in their traditional styles so I had to wear this tamilian nine yards saree.. In one ceremony in the marriage, the dulha has to make his wife sit on his lap and tie a dhaga around her waist.. aur mera kamar tho kamra hai.. so, he was actually afraid for me that I would be embarassed if the dhaga would not be sufficient and was so tense till he made a complete circle of the waist and tied it.. after that he was like "phew"... that was very sweet.. I was laughing away to glory...
What do you think is the most important thing in a relationship?

Love.. it crosses all barriers.. it makes you do things that you never thought possible... although cliche'd its very true..
What drives a relationship?

love again... and passion
Is it true that love takes a backseat with time?

Its been 6 years (plus another 10 before that..)and it hasn't... and tell me does your mom ever love you less... yeah it may take different forms.. see.. the most important thing is even though you are in a relationship, you should not force yourself on the other person. Both of you need time and space from each other... I think most people do not understand this and they become very possessive of each other and thats when problem starts... you need some space to breathe... thats the metomorphosis that your love needs to undergo...
If the first love is a failure, do you justify falling in love again?

yes... thats why I said earlier also.. I don't just believe that there's this one person who's made for you.. I think there are many who are made for you, you just need to find atleast one of them...
Which place you think is more romantic..Switzerland or Kerala backwaters?

Do you want me to give you another cliche'? If you are with the person you love... then, even a fish pond in your house is great...but practically speaking...well, I haven't been to Switzerland but been to Kerala... its wonderful...I think water has a better effect than hills and other things on romance..
Who is the best romantic actor?

Varun and Aamir...
Which is the most romantic book you read? Favourite character?

I don't read romantic books.. I am surprised why..
Which is the most romantic movie you have seen? Favourite character?

I think the most romantic scenes are in "As good as it gets" but otherwise DDLJ was good..

What was the happiest moment of your life?

When my Sandy gave me Atlas Shrugged and asked me to read a particular paragraph... I think that was the first time he gave me some hope...
What are you most proud of?

My loveguru status...😉... But I am proud of my upbringing... my parents were way ahead of their time...
What are the most important lessons you've learned in life?

Never lie and honesty pays.. in anything.. personally and professionally
What is your earliest memory?

I remember sitting in my school along with my brother and his friend at the flag pole and having lunch...
How would you like to be remembered?

As someone who spread cheer wherever she went...

Loved ur answers.. 😳 Specially the date scene.. But dont you think that we are done with the scenes..😉😆 Thanks Monu... very thoughtful and loveguru type questions.. I now feel, I can have a show of my own... Loveguru at midnight... 😉

simply loved ur answers madhu...btw interesting thought that there is not one but several people made for u...u need to find one of them. i agree with u.
actually even i wanted to ask u love guru questions...but thought u may find them too personal to answer so didnt. im glad ur so sporting and it benefits us sandy-less urmis.

Originally posted by: smartly_yours

Monu, I am glad you decided to come up wiht more questions...

Wow.. I specially thought out most of the luvguru qs for u.. Coz it was always in my mind.😉. And ur ans are so amazing I am just reading them again and again.. I am sure I am gonna archive this Qs-Ans set and when it is 6 years of my marriage I will open this and check whether I feel the same or not..😆😉😕 Ok let me just hold on myself, I guess thats why ppl call me emotional fool..Coz I just keep saying and dont think wat I am saying😳

Madhu, you really do deserve the title of love guru. *bows* I'm so glad Monu asked you these q, your answers are inspirational. So, not just the one person out there - I've always wondered if I was the only one who thought like that, glad to see there are other!

hey Madhu di....you have been busy..can't belive that you have managed to answer all those questions....phew!!...lol...and I absolutely loved each and everyone of your answers...LOL...

First of all I could not stop laughing when I read "thesaurus"...OMG.... 😆 😆 😆

and your Sandeep and Urmi dream date.....****honey faints*****...does that tell you how much I liked it...you are a very talented writer...👏

and well i was gonna post more questions..but I will wait a few hours and see of anyone else posts...is not then I shall be back...lol..😆

Thanks guys... Wow.. I am feeling all bloated now with all your praises.. it has pumped me quite a bit...

yeah.. me also thought thesaurus was funny... 😉 I am impressed with myself.. 😳 mighty presumptious, must say..

well, I thought I will never get through those questions but they are all done..

Kets.. you said you would ask more.. what happened? Looking forward to your questions guys..

ok few from my end:
why does the title song say 'halka makkhan toast par' when sandeep runs away after seeing the photo of the jassi like girl?
why was urmi so happy even when sandeep gave her 'nothing' for her birthday?
since ur the forum's urmi and have ur own sandeep write a FF on s/u's next meeting.
chalo this will keep u busy 😉
btw madhu ur sandy sounds soooooooooo sandeepish. 😆

Originally posted by: kshreya2002

ok few from my end:
why does the title song say 'halka makkhan toast par' when sandeep runs away after seeing the photo of the jassi like girl?
why was urmi so happy even when sandeep gave her 'nothing' for her birthday?
since ur the forum's urmi and have ur own sandeep write a FF on s/u's next meeting.
chalo this will keep u busy 😉
btw madhu ur sandy sounds soooooooooo sandeepish. 😆

These are definitely going to keep me busy.. let me do it after work today...but these questions are daunting.. especially the first one.. I have always wondered that myself..

and as far as my Sandy goes, you know why I am hooked to the show now...😉

Hey Madhu Di...

Guess who's back with more questions.... 😆

1. Do you love or hate rollercoaster's?
2. Whats the cleverest word you know?
3. Who's your favourite superhero?
4. Have you ever made your own greeting card?
5. Whats your favourite fruit?
6. Do you love Harry Potter?
7. Have you ever sailed a boat?
8. Do you ever talk to yourself?
9. Do you ever sing by yourself?
10. Have you ever donated blood?
11. Have you ever been in a helicopter?
12. Do you ever gossip?
13. Do you ever cry when watching films?
14. The last movie you watched that made you cry?
15. Do you keep a journal or a diary?
16. Are you scared of thunderstorms?
17. Do you have any phobias or fears?
18. Have you ever painted a house?
19. Have you ever owned a goldfish?
20. Have you ever handled a snake?
21. Did you ever have a piggy bank?
22. Have you ever ridden a motorcycle?
23. Do you believe in aliens?
24. Whats your favourite board fame?
25. Do you believe in keeping old traditions?
26. Are you superstitious?
27. Have you ever been in a tug of war? Did you win or lose?
28. Do you prefer blue or black inked pen?
29. What is the funniest joke that you have heard lately?
30. Are you a good liar?
31. Are you a sleepwalker?
32. Have you ever walked into the wall?
33. Whats the most unusual name you've ever come across?
34. Have you ever danced in the rain?
35. What is your favourite smell?
36. What makes you nervous?
37. Have you ever had a disastrous interview?
38. What makes you nervous?
39. What makes you scared?
40. Have you ever bought a really expensive art piece?

Ok…and now tell me what you would do in the following situations…

1. You and your husband go shopping and you see this ring that you really want. On your birthday your husband tells you that he got you the ring that you really wanted. You open the box and see that it is the wrong ring. What do you do, would you tell your husband?

2. You and a friend get into a fight over something really silly. Would you be the stubborn one and would you be the first one to call?

3. You are driving and suddenly it starts raining really heavily. You see that the road in front of you has flooded. You think that you can make it through; you start your engine and try to pass the water. Well you guessed wrong that now your car is stuck. You try to call everyone you know and no one is home. The rain had completely stopped now. Now you look outside and see that the water has reached to the windows of the car. If you open the car door, the water will flood your car. Do you take the chance and open the door and get out or do you sit and wait for help?

4. Your friend who is married to your husband's best friend tells you that she is thinking about leaving her husband. She tells you that she trusts you with this information and doesn't want you to share it with anyone else. You know that if you tell your husband he will definitely tell his friend. What do you do? Do you tell your husband?

5. You and your husband go his boss's house for dinner. Right before dinner you excuse yourself to go to the bathroom. When you are washing your hands you accidentally spill water on your pants which makes it seem like you have wet your pants. There is no dryer in the bathroom. Now you hear the rest of them calling your name for dinner, what do you do?

6. Your family has this family friend who always attends all functions that she is invited to, other then when you invite her. You have invited her to 3 family functions and she did not attend any of them. She now invites you to a party that she is hosting. Do you go?

And some more questions…..

1. What are you the most excited right at this moment?
2. What was the last time you made a difference to somebody's life?
3. When was the last time you felt inspired?
4. If you could be in your dream place at the moment, what would it be?
5. What do you love about people?
6. If I gave you a $1000 and the only condition you had to meet was that this money had to be used to benefit someone life. What would you do with that money?

Originally posted by: smartly_yours

Thanks guys... Wow.. I am feeling all bloated now with all your praises.. it has pumped me quite a bit...

yeah.. me also thought thesaurus was funny... 😉 I am impressed with myself.. 😳 mighty presumptious, must say..

well, I thought I will never get through those questions but they are all done..

Kets.. you said you would ask more.. what happened? Looking forward to your questions guys..

madhu even i was finishing off my questions quickly and i paid for it by writing 11 FFs