14 Year Old Girl In Trouble...Pls Help... - Page 7

Originally posted by: anon

Yes school - thats why many of us here keep referring to her future , how would she face bullies at skl? where wuld she put a new born baby that needs its mother??

Think about it, having this baby wuld wreck evcerything for her and she wuld end up resenting the baby.

I agree with you, recently I was a documentary about a teenage mum who was pregnant at the same age like the girl. Well, she was mentioning how she was builled at school and the neighbours they tortured her a lot.

Originally posted by: prithvi lover

^^^^^^^^^uuuuummmmmmmmm.........ok........ill just get her to see this thread! 😕 ...........bcuz iam too scared 2 give out advices........

Dont be scared to give advise, as its a good sin and trust me it enables you to become stronger in life. As for her make her read this thread and encourage her to do the right thing as it's best for her future.

Originally posted by: prithvi lover

but......aborting.......ummmm........sounds a bit scary.....

It can be scary but trust me it will benefit for her as it prevents her from getting herself into trouble. Personally, I worry for this unborn foetus and if this is born and then if her parents dont take care of the baby, then people like social services and the baby may be sent to foster parents.

Originally posted by: anon

Yeah sure but at the end of the dayt it is just one's individual opinion not meant to cause offense or hurt the person in question.

Here we are trying to tell the girl in question er options 😊 and to think about her future,

but good luck to her -she will neeed it 😊

Yeap I agree with you, we are giving her opinions, questions and to think about her future. We aint hurting the person or creating offense.

Originally posted by: anon

Yes Pooja well said 👏

There is a lot on unknown problems that can arise in the future. Agreed with you.

If the father is young, chances are he will never come back, as he will want a life and boys attitude even at the age of 19/20 is 'big deal' or 'it cant be mine' or 'so wat , not my problem anymore'. True, they wont look back and she will suffer alone.

Also if the kid goes into social care or gets adopted. then wat? And if you have the baby, the kid wil ask in the future where is my daddy....as a parent you have to give kids lots of answers 😳 Can you face all of them as well or lie to your kid? 😳 Thats a point that must be taught about.

Originally posted by: usha_pooja

really????????...........guys can be like that?.......😭