I dont think Vidya adds fuel to quarrel.
If we just think from Vidya's point of view, who will take care of husband's illegitimate child? Women can understand her situation much better. It is very difficult because Antara reminds her about the intimacy Aditya had with Anuradha. That too after marriage. It is not easy to forget. But still she has not shown this on Antara. She has not shown her anger with her even once. Infact, the day she returned from her parent's house, she stopped Aditya sending Antara to anathashram telling that, why Antara should be punished for Aditya's mistake. That time she didnt know much about Antara. Still she is a great mother and hence she does not want to punish any child.
Then when she got some kind of attachment with Antara, she supported her like a pillar infront of everyone. Many times she has proved it.
So Aditya should have realized this. Antara getting lost is not just Vidya's fault. It is Aditya's also as he was supposed to put a name badge on her which he didnt do. Ok, when she is lost, Aditya getting angry is correct. But the words which he used is wrong. He said, Vidya didnt care because Antara is not Vidya's child. When he has seen what Vidya has done to Antara, he spoke like this. That is not correct.
Can u imagine as Vidya has told, if Abhishek is not Adiya's child and say for example, Vikram's. Will Aditya take care of Abhishek? He cant stand when Vidya talks to Vikram nicely. He feels jealous and angry.
When men cant tolerate why do we expect women to do all sacrifice?
The main problem is with Aditya. He is not smart. He always takes care of Antara. He knows Vidya takes care of Abhishek, so doesnt have time to play with him. And always talking to Anuradha (looking at stars) and blaming Vidya when ever things go wrong. He knows that Vidya is great lady and he should be more matured now. He should make her feel that he has done a mistake once and thats over. And now he is a father of 2 children (soon 3 children) ...Thats it.
Though Aditya is honest, he lacks worldy wisdom. He should develop that.
So I dont think Vidya is wrong in any manner. She is not Ekta Kapoor serial's heroine.
