Abhi Simi sepration inevitable - Page 2

Originally posted by: -NEETU-

I think simi had done a lot now its abhi's turn ,he himself have to realize his mistake and his ugly behaviour is worthless towards simi,now this drama is becoming over melodrama as abhi is not listening to simi's clarification and thinking simi is making him down which simi never does or will never do,the only thing is that CVs are stretching it....

Originally posted by: ramas

They both have to work toghether, Simi is trying and admitting her mistakes and trying help. But everything is back firing.

Simi needs to leave abhi alone now and let him earn his respect in his eyes,

His cry was a cry of man who felt he lost eerything and is not worth even taking care of himself.

Abhi was fine till simi needed him and his ego was satisfied. But then when simi took something very serious issue that can directly affect their relationship and hurt abhi's ego badly in her own hands and did not tell him . That was like a biggest blow on his manhood.

Abhi feels so hurt because he always thought he was superman and can handle anything and from superman now he has became zeroman and that is hurting him badly.

To help abhi's ego simi just should stop helping him and may be ask for his help.

Men like driver's seat and she needs to give abhi that back. adn stand behind him.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Are you watching the same show? Simi has been asking for Abhi's help from they day she met him either directly or indirectly.

Originally posted by: ramas

yes she is and no one is denying it. I always said in my posts this relation was begam with need and sympathy. Simi needed abhi and he was sympathetic to her and some how that turned into love ,

But abhi is bothered now that she did not ask for his help and she hid some horrible truth he had right to know and . Abhi wanted her to go to him with such truth rather than hiding and taking matter in her own hand,

in husband and wife relationship it does not matter who does more or who ask more.

Most likely in our society men are at giving end and women at taking. that does not mean one is bad and other is better,

It is all done because one loves the other.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

And what wrong with that? Don't you see the entire forum is in agreement that what Simi did was wrong to withhold that information? Actually it does matter who does more or less in a relationship; if one partner is doing more and not getting appreciated then it will become a problem.

And what utter nonsense is the statement that "Most likely in our society men are at giving end and women at taking. that does not mean one is bad and other is better," Where the heck do you pull these conclusions or explanations from? This makes no sense whatsoever. Any society where there is one partner doing more for the other there is going to be a problem when that person does not feel appreciated.

I don't know why you insist on presenting your ideas or theories about life as facts and who you're trying to convince with them, but they hold no substance here in explaining Abhi or Sim's actions. Your agreements are weak. Please try harder.

Originally posted by: ramas

well the point here is abhi is upset that simi did not ask for his help when she needed to tell him the truth, So simi needs to ask him for help and make him feel like she needs him and she is not trying to hide anythig from him and

I am expressing my opinion just like you are no one is trying to force any ideas on any one.

Abhi's behavior towards her is no gentle manly in any way. His anger is justified and ppl do make mistakes.

Simi made a mistake she should just go and tell him ok I made few mistakes so hang me if you want now. and end this once and for all.

She tried to apologize the day abhi found out. she tried to apologize today for her stupidity to go after him thinking of some ill.

The serial is being dragged unnecessorily ruining abhi completely showing him totally opposite of what he was and what he stood for.

I am remembering him the first day when they offically met when he saved her. despite being a stranger and how caring he was.

Now look at him he still loves her so dearly and yet. he is destriying.

I can understand abhi;s anger but not his unrealistic behavior that he is getting bothered by likes of RB he knows how much simi hate him and how cunning he is.

Simi has hit him few times in abhi;s presence while he stood and smiled after their marriage. so why such a change.?

truly disgusting script.

It has been dragged unnecessorily by refusing to talk and accept any apology..

Originally posted by: ramas

so true this show has tunred into ugly horrible melodrama.

where everything a loving wife does has turned into her trying to put down her husbamd.

which wife will want her husband to go walking if she can help it.

simi did not show off bu told him. politely which abhi took as her pulling him down further in his own eyes,

Simi should just stop now and wait for abhi to cool down.

She tries to apologize but it is taken wrong way,

Tom abhi will be even in worst mood after lossing his job and might blame simi more.

the story and abhi's character both has turned ugly.and it is becoming uglier. Koi apne paav par khud kulhadi giraye to dusre kya kar sakte hai.

They are ready to destroy the relationship that is why they had their SR so they can now show them seprated and crying for each other.

Abhi is playing in hands of Nakul and RB and doing exactly what they want him to do is make their life misrable.

I hope something knock some sense in Abhi and he start fighting back intelligently.

simi loves him much too much. she will never put down any one let alone her love,

Yes she called him bachha few times but never to put him down and when he felt bad she apoligized to him. Now abhi doing worst accusing of her things she did not do.

and not listning to her or giving her chance to apologize.

Those of you think I hate abhi are mistaken I love abhi but not this abhi who has turned so ugly in his behavior that he forgot how much he loved simi and he is talking about tumare baap ke ghar me and ghar jamai and repect and all. Kitna ochha pan aa gaya is ki battome.

No one ever made abhi felt that way after they realize he is so nice. They respected him for what he did.since he lives there he is treated like a family member and asked to go with them as a family member.

If he was liiving outside they prob would not have asked him to go to mathurs.

CVS plz save abhi's character . You have destroyed it completely.😡

bring back our sweet sensible abhi that we fell in love with.

i dont think they both have to work together caz most of the time its abhi who is doing everything to make this marriage work , and if u get treated like simi is doing with abhi patience mar jatha hai ,............. i dont want abhi trying realll hard this time , he can chnage in later days but i dont want him to fallll for her tears , why she never cared before ? so it has to be simi who has to try real hard

Originally posted by: nimi2b4u

aap toh mahan hai ,kisi tarah se simi ki relation mein aati hai kya aap ya phir simi matha ke anuyayi mein hai kya aap , kabhi live darshan dejiyagha toh i would touch ur feet ,s i agree no wife will accept that her husband is going to walk till office
but y didn't she show this respect and concern before, y is she concern about him now
and telling that she understands his feeling too late my dear ,reliazation of his feeling after
the ball has left ur court no use.