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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramas

Thanks for the complement and haan simi ke relation me aati hun na. Because I am a married woman and understand what she is going thru right now as a woman. Let us just say I am an older sister loosing parents at early age handling 2 fronts all my life. Luckily my huby is older brother too so he understood what were my responsibilities to my siblings after my parents were gone.

Simi loves abhi and proved it time and time. she hid the fact and made stupid mistakes that is our simi who tries to do right and becomes wrong like brining anuj home, try to get neetu's abortion, try to find vicky and neetu.
It happens again she thought by hding she is saving abhi and her house. But then she should have told him when they got the house back. after hiding she mad emore mistake justifying it.
I don;t understand abhi's statment mai lya tunhari feelings anhi samja sakta.
If he understands her feelings why all these.
it is all a drag on writers part.
The sweet sensible abhi would not have reacted this way pushing her holding her hand tight. Talking about tumhare baap ke ghar me rahe raha hun. God that is disgusting.
Yes so that was his choice as they had no place to live together as Omi lost dahaba, Simi was ready to move out with him when abhi asked. Abhi decided to stay becaise manju asked.
It is more like abhi is angry at himself a cry of a man who is unable to take care of himself and his wife in any way. so he really feels down. and he felt by not taking care of matter of bhalla. because simi hid it he is lesser of a man who can not protect his wif,
Yes he should feel this way. and be angry with her because protecting her is his right. But then there is a limit.
So both are at fault. Simi went to abhi;s office because he is not ready to talk in the house, he is till not ready to talk. Simi commited yet another mistake and abhi had right to be angry,
but there is limit to everything.

iam sorry ,but really happy u have got ur husbands support to fight back,but not every body is lucky as u to get a full understaning husband , i agree with u on this part , i have explained my views in my recent post. hope u like it and s i am waiting for simi's outburst
Edited by nimi2b4u - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nimi2b4u

iam sorry ,but really happy u have got ur husbands support to fight back,i agree with u on this part , i have explained my views in my recent post. hope u like it

yes thank god my huby understood and let me stay with my family for months till their problems are solved. My siblings were like my children as I practicaly raised them. But unlike simi I never had to support them financially.
But they always look upto me as I am their mother and how can a mother stay away from children's problems. If they are hurting I am hurting more.
I am sure older sisters in the forum understand such dilemma of simi.
It is hard to keep both sides happy. No matter how hard a person try.
in this case abhi also helped sethis so much. But then he should not have said. ghar bhi bachao or baheno ko bhi. Abhi took that task upon his hand willingly.
But any ways now both are at fault. simi more as she has started the whole thing.
it has been dragged too much and it needs to be ended. soon. let us hope it does.
Edited by ramas - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i like ur post and i agree with u. simi really needs to give abhi some space and let him see things on his own rather than pushing him so much. i cant bare to see them like this any longer.

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